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Now I gonna
write an article on the topic freedom vs. equality...it’s to totally my personal point of view.
whenever I write something like this there i always give my personal view , I close my mind & open my heart . Write everything
whatever comes in my heart. Hope you all love it …
FREEDOM VS EQUALITY:-
Freedom means you can do everything but there should be some limitations & we should not cross that. We are staying in a society where we need freedom to talk with everyone & wanna stay with everyone. But freedom should not create any violence. We all wanna be like a bird, still there are certain rules & regulations are there to balance everything, which maintain peace in a society & we all should obey it.
There are always
two types of people in a society
1) RULE MAKER
2)
RULE
BREAKER
RULE MAKER
Who make the different rules to maintain peace in our society, they are very knowledgeable persons, but sometimes some rules makers also break the rules. It’s the human mind & no one is perfect, that’s why before judge anyone we should know the whole story behind it.
RULE BREAKER:-
Some people are there who break the rules; they don’t follow any rules & regulations. They are well known as CRIMINALS. Society abhors them due to their behavior, that’s why they punish by rules.
But there
are some rules made by some people or some society which is very difficult to accept.
Like
which rules made for women specially...
1)
Women should
stay at home & take care of their children
2)
They should not be over smart
3)
They should
not wear western dress
4)
They should
not be loud or noisy
5)
They should
sacrifice & tolerate everything
These rules made women life like hell. Yeah, I know now the world is developing .now the society treat women as men, still some areas are there & some old mentality people are there. Who can’t accept this truth that’s why most of the crimes related to women?
But
now days the crimes related to women are of different types
1) Some Becoz of that old mentality
2)
Some
because of development
As the main problem is most of the men can’t see women’s development, they are very jealous . Most of the time in office or any work place women are treated very badly like sexual harassment & they can’t raise their voice. These are truly happening. Sometimes if a woman wants to develop or wants to rise at that time she gets many bad comments from society. Yeah, I am not saying rising or development in the sense doing any job. As now a day’s all women wanna be self independent. So it’s a general issue but if she wanna do something different & wanna to equalize herself with men at that time she face lots of problem. As male dominating society can’t accept her development. But I glad to say that now a day’s women are very challenging & they also wanna to show them. Yeah, in this society we can’t live without another, a boy & girl relationship bond is very powerful & strong .it may be in case of lover or as a friend .whatever may be. So we need them workplace or at home, everywhere we need help. Some are very good & kind hearten to help you, still some are very complicated. If you beg help them, they will put you in problem. That’s why most of the time I can’t believe in any boy & not willing to beg help. I am not saying girls are very helpful, they are also like boys they also can harm you much & more than you imagine. What I learn from my life , this world is very complicated if you wanna rise then open your mind & close your heart for sometimes & for outsiders whom you don’t know well . Once you know means no need to judge more. So here I wanna say everyone has got freedom to show their talent, either they may be BOYS OR GIRLS .all is equal. a girl always not means to be a housewife , sometimes she do work like boys in office or any malls etc. but she well known how to handle home as well as her work , she can handle both in a well manner , but she always need someone’s assistance , to care for her or to love her. So give freedom to a woman & see result …
NOW I GONNA WRITE ABOUT LOVE & MARRIAGE ISSUE
I think we have freedom to love everyone; we can share our love, ideas & our views with everyone. It does n’t means he/she belongs to which cast or religion or nation. We all are free to love, as love has no bound. but sometimes society don’t accept some love matters like – Inter cast marriage , Inter religion marriage , Guy marriage , lesbian marriage etc. these are the main conflict marriage issue . Which society can’t accept? We can give a different name to their marriage – HONOR KILLING; this is a very popular word in today’s world.
But I think
it’s a great crime, according to myth earth was created by – ADAM & EVE
…but at that time no bound was there. From them whole earth was created. so not
only MYTH but also our science also telling that we are same , but why some
people don’t wanna agree this bitter truth , but I believe truth is truth , HOW MUCH YOU TRY TO
HIDE OR DON’T AGREE.
We all get
freedom to express our love & wanna to stay with them whom we know better,
whom we can say as ours & with whom we can stay lifelong. It’s easy to say
I LOVE YOU, but it’s value increase when you marry someone & give him/her
promise to stay with her till his/her last breath, so I think society should n’t
interfere in anyone’s personal matter as everyone need someone to care for him/her,
who can understand him/her, who can walk with him/her till her last breath. If
that marriage is a conditional issue then how a person can live in his/her full
life. We get someone as a friend in the form of marriage. I believe if a boy loves
a boy or a girl love a girl let them to stay together, as you also can’t solve
their problem. It’s a chromosome defect
, so I believe it’s not their problem , SO BLAME GOD -- not them , as general a boy attract towards a girl , but if
a girl attracts towards a girl then there
must be some genetic problem or some chromosome defects is there, that’s
why they are not attracted towards boys
. God has given us a beautiful brain to solve any problem so in this situation
we should understand their problem & respect their feelings. We can’t
reject them or can’t neglect their feelings as they are also like general people,
they also get freedom to show their love & love is unconditional. You have
a power to control over your mind not on your heart so love can happens with
anyone & anywhere. Love has no bound so according to me “YOU WILL PUNISH
BEFORE GOD, IF YOU CREATE PROBLEMS BETWEEN TWO LOVERS”. As you might have seen
THERE ARE MANY GREAT LOVE STORY, so love is immortal & pure, it can happen
with anyone, but we feel safe when we marry someone. So everyone wants to marry
someone whom they love or whom they know better that they can live together
till their end, I don’t feel we should protect them anyone to love someone or
being loved by someone …
I have also seen MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE – I belongs to a higher cast & I well known about every rules & regulations made by our forefathers, but I really too hate these. One day - when I was child I heard one case-- how parents kill her daughter when she married a boy of another cast. At that day I promised myself I will go beyond this rule. I relay too hate these , I don’t care who I am , what I am or whether I belongs to any higher cast or any religion . I don’t care, I believe LOVE IS MIGHTIER THAN ALL RELIGION, CAST & ANYTHING. I am very free minded girl …
ACCORDING TO MY CONCEPT I BELIEVE--
IF TWO PEOPLE LOVE EACH OTHER WE SHOULD ALLOW THEM TO MARRY. AS WE CAN’T TAKE CARE OF THEM OR CAN’T STAY WITH THEM TILL THEIR LAST. SO WHY WE PROTECT THEM TO LOVE. LET THEM FREE & LET THEM TO MARRY TO A PERSON WHOM THEY LOVE. AS IT’S A GREAT SIN IF YOU PROTECT TO LOVE SOMEONE, I AM VERY LIBERAL IN THIS MATTER. AS I BELIEVE IF I CAN’T HELP SOMEONE, SO WHY I PUT HIM/HER IN PROBLEM. IF I CAN’T LOVE SOMEONE WHY I SUGGEST HIM/HER NOT TO LOVE OTHERS. SO WE ALL NEED SOMEONE’S ASSISTANCE WHEN WE BECOME SICK & IN SOME BAD SITUATION , WE NEED LOVE & CARE OF SOMEONE ,AT THAT TIME THIS SOCIETY WILL NOT COME TO TAKE CARE OF YOU , THIS SOCIETY ALWAYS KNOW HOW TO FOLLOW THE BLIND BELIEVES . VERY FEW EDUCATE PEOPLE ARE THERE WHO THINK EVERYTHING FROM SCIENTIFICALLY. EVEN IF SCIENCE ALSO TELL THE POSITIVE EFFECTS OF LOVE & MARRIAGE. SO WHO ARE WE, WHY WE PROTECT THEM TO MARRY, IF GOD WANTS THEN WHO ARE YOU TO PROTECT???? LET EVERYONE FREE & BE FREE. THEN YOU CAN FEEL A PEACE IN THIS EARTH. THESE ARE THE GENERAL ISSUE & THESE ARE THE GENERAL PROBLEMS IN EVERY WHERE. WHICH I TOO HATE …AS I WANT EVERYONE SHOULD LIVE A LIFE AS THEY WANT , THIS LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO FOLLOW ALL THE RULES & REGULATION , WHICH IS AGAINST LOVE. WE ARE BORN TO LOVE & NO ONE CAN PROTECT US ….
NOW I GONNA SAY ABOUT LIVE FREEDOM LIFE:-
We all are equal before god. But we are not free before some people. Till now also many poor people are there who are fight for survive & some for true justice. Some criminals are rooming freely, some criminals inside the jail. It purely depends on money.
There are
two kinds of criminal
1)
corruptions
, rapist ,master mind of any terrorize –
it includes all high-level people
2)
rapist ,
smuggler , terrorism , thief – these are low-level people
Low-level people
always under control under the high level people. So I feel rules should be
equal for all, there should not be any partiality. As in front of nation &
rules we all are her children.
We are free
to choose any job, do any work. We are free to choose our leaders, still there
are many rules & regulations are there to avoid noise, to avoid crimes. But
still sometimes we can’t prevent. Day by
days crimes are increasing, but we unable to stop this problem. So here in this
situation we have to protect ourselves, as always rules can’t help us.
So according to me OUR SCIENCE CAN HELP US HERE LIKE – WE HAVE TO USE SOME TECHONOGY TO PROTECT OURSELVES , IT’S NOT TOO EASY TO MOTIVATE THE MINDS OF BAD PEOPLE T BECOME GOOD, SO HERE IN THIS SITUATION WE CAN TAKE SOME STEPS TO PROTECT OURSELVES. AS PRESENTATION IS BETTER THAN CURE:-
1)
GUN TECHNOLOGY –
I THINK EVERYONE SHOULD USE GUN TO PROTECT THEMSELVES, BUT IT SHOULD BE HARMLESS LIKE WE HAVE TO USE SOME CHEMICALS INSTEAD OF THE BULLET SO THAT IT CAN’T HARM ANY ONE , THAT CHEMICAL CAN INJURE HIM /HER WHO WANNA HURT YOU , IT CAN’T KILL THAT PERSON , INSTEAD OF CHEMICAL BULLET WE CAN USE SOMETHING DIFFERENT BULLET WHICH CAN INJURE SOMEONE BADLY . HERE I WANNA SAY-- IN EVERY CASE IT CAN SAVE YOUR LIFE WITHOUT KILLING SOMEONE, AS RULES & REGULATIONS ARE THERE TO PUNISH CRIMINALS. SO I THINK THERE IS NOTHING IMPOSSIBLE, WE CAN USE THIS FOR SAFETY PROPOSES. THE REAL GUN SHOULD ONLY PROVIDE TO POLICE OFFICERS , EXCEPT THEM NO ONE SHOULD USE IT , IT DOES N’T MATTER YOU ARE BELONGS TO WHICH LEVEL …THIS MAY SAVE MANY LIFE , SO YOU ARE NO ONE TO KILL OTHERS , BUT YES , WE CAN PROTECT OURSELVES FROM BEHIND HURT .
I THINK EVERYONE SHOULD USE GUN TO PROTECT THEMSELVES, BUT IT SHOULD BE HARMLESS LIKE WE HAVE TO USE SOME CHEMICALS INSTEAD OF THE BULLET SO THAT IT CAN’T HARM ANY ONE , THAT CHEMICAL CAN INJURE HIM /HER WHO WANNA HURT YOU , IT CAN’T KILL THAT PERSON , INSTEAD OF CHEMICAL BULLET WE CAN USE SOMETHING DIFFERENT BULLET WHICH CAN INJURE SOMEONE BADLY . HERE I WANNA SAY-- IN EVERY CASE IT CAN SAVE YOUR LIFE WITHOUT KILLING SOMEONE, AS RULES & REGULATIONS ARE THERE TO PUNISH CRIMINALS. SO I THINK THERE IS NOTHING IMPOSSIBLE, WE CAN USE THIS FOR SAFETY PROPOSES. THE REAL GUN SHOULD ONLY PROVIDE TO POLICE OFFICERS , EXCEPT THEM NO ONE SHOULD USE IT , IT DOES N’T MATTER YOU ARE BELONGS TO WHICH LEVEL …THIS MAY SAVE MANY LIFE , SO YOU ARE NO ONE TO KILL OTHERS , BUT YES , WE CAN PROTECT OURSELVES FROM BEHIND HURT .
2) SOUND TECHNOLOGY -
HERE WE CAN TAKE THE HELP OF SOUND TO CATCH A CRIMINAL EASILY. IT CAN FIT WITH ANYTHING. WE SHOULD SET ONE PARTICULAR RANGE WHICH THAT CAN ACCEPT & AFTER RECEIVING ANY SOUND, IT WILL SEND THAT SOUND THROUGH A SIGNAL. THERE SHOULD BE DIFFERENT ADDRESS FOR DIFFERENT PLACE TO KNOW THE EXACT IDEA OF THAT PLACE…THIS IS ANOTHER TECHNOLOGY WHICH MAY HELPS YOU GIVE SUDDEN INFORMATIONAL ABOUT ANY CRIME & THAT PLACE.
These two
are purely my imagination, I purely believe in science & I can’t believe
anything without any proof. So I always
give more priority in technology. The technology can help us to prevent us from
crime, which can diminish the crime, but we have to create some ideas. No doubt
these are my ideas , but I am not that much knowledgeable to implement my idea or I have not that much money to implement my
idea in to real world & I have no
supporter also. These are my real ideas but I need help to implement it…sometimes people call me I am
very selfish & I need money blew. But true thing is that I wanna utilize my
talent properly, I can’t see it go in vain. So that I wanna utilize my all
creativity as well as knowledge in real world. I believe there is no value of
education if you can’t use it in real world. so I wanna be a writer as well as
wanna do business , as I know I too love to write & paint , so If people
know me for my writing , then I can feel --yes ! I use my talent properly. if I can utilize my
knowledge in proper way & can teach to those children who have no money Then in the end of my life I’ll feel proud that , yes ! My knowledge
& talent didn’t go in vain. but yeah -- I need some money to live & establish
my idea , that’s why I wanna be well educate & I can’t depends on others
for money . I know I am not too rich to open any company, whatever I wanna do I
have to do it by myself & by my own talent.
I am neither hunger of money nor I wanna to take others’ money, these
two are my contrasting character. but I wanna utilize my brain & knowledge
properly that’s why I wanna do everything whatever I can , I need money to help others , as now a days
, world is changing. SO WITHOUT MONEY NO
ONE KNOW YOU WHAT KNOWLEDGE YOU HAVE OR WHO ARE YOU…THIS MONEY ALSO HELPS YOU
TO MAKE YOU AS WELL AS BREAK YOU …SO THERE SHOULD BE SOME DISTANCE BETWEEN
MONEY & YOU .BUT FOR GET MONEY YOU SHOULD BE THAT MUCH TALENTED & KNOWLEDGEABLE . I KNOW MY EDUCATION & MY CREATIVITY CAN GIVE ME THAT THING ,
STILL I NEED SOME HELP THAT IS SUPPORT…I know in this world no one heartily
wants someone’s development still we have to fight to get the thing which we
crazy for …< so there is a little fear within me, as I am going to finish my
study & I have to choose such path where I can reach at my destination ,
but in my every path I found some drawbacks , which may be very difficult to
overcome. Still I never fear to take any risk, if I promise to myself mean I’ll
do it by hook or by crook. MY PROMISE IS LIKE DO OR DIE LIKE; still I don’t
know how to cover this long road alone. So there is a little fear within me,
whether I can success in my educational background & whether I could get
some people to help me in my work …many questions are rooming in my mind.
Sometimes it break my strong mind , sometimes it also gives me hope for the
best , so I leave everything on god- HE WILL DECIDE EVERYTHING FOR ME …I have
believe on him “
Here I
describe both FREEDOM & EQUALITY together.