LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO SPEND TIME ON WHAT OTHER WILL THINK

‘Life is too short to waste time in thinking and doing things as per people and world. You born alone even will leave alone so no need to follow everyone and every words delivered by everyone.” (Personal Life quote)

You can do whatever you want for as long as you continue to believe that it’s true and it will be. When you start redesigning yourself to “this is what I have to do” or “this is what I have to be” that’s when you’re done. So start doing now what you are planning to do in future.

I heard many times people say me like “They can’t do this or people suggest them to do this or They are unfit as till now nobody tried to do this” blew?

Do you think that your words really make any sense?

Who told you can’t do this – if Abram Lincoln , Albert Einstein can then why you can’t , they also failed and people also say many thing about them but they didn’t so why you ?

I am saying about me – there was a time some of my family members suggest me some career as per girl concern but I was unfit for that as I don’t like boring life so I gave up , at first they also angry upon me as I rarely listen others , when I was in school I stood first throughout academic so my friends call me “I remember everything and I don’t have brain at all -like this many more rumors were spread , as I don’t use my mind in nonsense things where I feel I shouldn’t use my mind more there” that’s why I got schlorship thrice , When I was In engineering college my friends say I can’t do anything as I don’t like to communicate and participate but I didn’t as I don’t want conflict and use mind in any politics BUT I WAS WRONG THERE, I SHOULD but this doesn’t mean I gave up - that’s why I joined NGO and start working for others and now also like wise people says many thing but one thing I marked –onetime will come nobody will remember what they told , like now those of my relatives has forgotten what girlish career they suggest me as they are so busy in their life and my friends after school and college life I rarely meet with them even they are also busy in their life so why they will think about me , like wise one day will come you’ll feel that – “NOBODY REALLY MATTERS , SO STOP TRYING TO PLEASE EVERYONE AND START DOING WORK , WHAT YOU LOVE MOST OR WANNA DO IN YOUR LIFE. YOU CAME ALONE AND WILL LEAVE ALONE, SO THERE IS NO REASON TO FOLLOW THE CROWD IN YOUR MIDDLE PERIOD.”

No one cares about you as much as you think they do.  Turns out, we humans are pretty self-centered creatures and everyone’s kind of wrapped up in their own stuff, and they really don’t have all that much time to devote to thinking about what you’re doing.  All that time you’re spending agonizing over what so and so thought of that thing you said, and she’s actually worrying about a work presentation or anything else .  Unless someone actually tells you they’re bothered by something you’ve done, you can rest easy that no one really cares that much-BITTER TRUTH. Even I realized one true fact – In past what makes me frightened, those thing had no power to down me as these were nothing and they don’t play major role in future. No words has power to down you and nobody has, if you have guts to rise above all odds. Now I wants to thanks my problematic life – which taught me many life lessons , may be one day I’ll achieve like Abram Lincoln  - my idol , I take him as my idol as he is a great loser even achiever in human history . That’s why I never quit my dream and my enthusiasm to flourish myself for others.

Your achievements maximize Net Happiness over Lifetime.

Life is literally the longest thing we will ever experience, it isn't about morality. It's life philosophy on having fulfilling life. So art doing what you love most – give wings to your Talents, passions and dreams and then pursue them.

"Everything was impossible until somebody did It." is one of my favorite quotes. My dream is to help people find what they really love and help them build a career around the work only they are capable of doing , as what I missed in my past life and make me a failure person I don’t want other also follow the same that’s the reason one day I wanna be  career coach. 

I love this new add – The interviewer ask a question to a guy “where you wants to see yourself after 5 years” – he told “I wants to see myself playing guitar , painting etc.” – ADD END UP WITH -DO WHAT YOU LOVE , it means passion is important but never forget to live your life which make you happy even productive too , when you are happy from inside then you can do any kind of job easily , even you have talent and good knowledge – if you always in stress then you can’t do anything perfectly.

Life is shorter than we think. Make every day count towards being the real you and towards making a contribution to the world only you can make.

WHEN PEOPLE ASK ME “WHAT I WANNA DO IN MY LIFE” I ALWAYS GAVE THEM ONE ANSWER - I WANNA BE EVERYTHING.

WRITING

Now I am simply a blogger OR can say blog writer, My dream is to be a writer having own novel. I have written near about 20 stories but problem is that I don’t have so much fund to do marketing after printing my book as book publish need more money and I don’t have at all , that’s why I wanna be self-independent first after that I can do anything by utilizing my money.

Whenever I tell about my writing - people start laugh at me as they think I am poor in English just because I can’t have so much knowledge in vocabulary - Yes , I agree with this fact as I was belongs to state board medium but it doesn’t mean I am so poor . If I can handle 10 blogs, why I can’t write. In my blog , all most all were my own writing. I write in simple words, that’s I know. I am trying to modify my English in better version.

PAINTING

I love to paint and sketch .I have a dream to do a real looks painting even I have faith on myself I can if I give my little effort there.

MAKE NEW FRIENDS FROM WORLD WIDE

I love to make friends with new people. I may not get more scope but whenever I get I try my best. The great thing about doing what you want to do is that you’re more likely to meet other people who also like doing it.

TRY TO BE A BETTER PERSON AND CONTRIBUTE MYSELF FOR SOCIETY

I wanna do something for society, I already have many experience working in NGOS and wanna continue my work after my MBA graduation too. Careers may be different but dream is one J

(ABOUT MY PASSION AND DREAM – IT’S SECRET UNTIL I DO IT IN REAL LIFE. WHAT I LEARNT FROM MY PAST LIFE, NEVER SAY OR DISCLOSE YOUR DREAM BEFORE OTHERS, KEEP IT WITH YOU UNTIL YOU MAKE IT REAL.)

I spent most of my early life being something of a people pleaser.  Yes, it’s nice to have other people like you, but it’s also a really easy and convenient way to go through life, because you never have to make any choices, you just let other people dictate what you’ll do.  It’s easy, but it’s also not particularly satisfying when you wanna do one thing and end up with do nothing.  It’s honestly way harder to figure out what you want to do and start doing it, because it forces you to think about who you are and what you want, and have actual reasons for your choices instead of deferring to others. The only authority other people have over you is the authority you’re giving them, so stop.  You’re in control of your own life, so embrace that, rather than letting others’ opinions dictate your actions.

You’ll have to have accountability for your actions, rather than making the excuse of “Well, I only did it because so-and so would have been mad if I didn’t.” Sure, you may still do something because it’ll make your parents or friends or someone else happy, but in that case it’s because you’ve chosen to make your relationship with that person a priority and are thus acting according to their wishes, rather than just doing something because someone will think about you a certain way.

I really believe there are few things more liberating than deciding not to care what other people think, so try it.

START LIVING YOUR LIFE WITH SUCCESS AND JOY NOT WITH FEAR AND FAILURE. YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE .I BELIEVE ONE DAY I’LL MAKE MY DREAM TRUE WITHIN ALL ODDS , I KNOW WHAT I FACED IN PAST EVEN I KNOW I GONNA FACE WORST TOO , STILL I AM BRAVE ENOUGH TO FOLLOW MY DREAM. AS IT WORST FOLLOWING AND ONE DAY IT’LL MAKE MY LIFE MEANINGFUL.