DON'T LEAVE YOU PARENTS IN THEIR OLD DAYS

when we open our eyes first we saw one caring hand over our head, We see the earth & enjoy the natural beauty because for two people, they are our parents. So we should not forget their sacrifice what they have done for us.when we were child at that time they take care of us ,their love nourish us to become a perfect person ,they teach us the meaning of love. When they do something for us at that time they never think it as  it is  their duty, when they become old why should we???

They never take it as their duty, then why we??? When they become older why we hesitate to take their responsibility, why we become super selfish or we have no humanity. Most of time I have seen old poor couples /single old man/woman are sleeping on road side, begging here & there .even if they have children .most of the time I also wanna to know about them & I wanna know about their situation that’s why I talk with them, after talking with them it really hurt me a lot how painful their life is? 

It's shocking to me how adult children don't want to take any responsibility. 

When I ask them about their condition only tear remain in their eyes & most of them told me “after marriage - my son forget us ,as they have also parents & some also told me their children beat them that’s why they left their house Becoz  it hurt them a lot” these type of cases specially happens in poor family but in rich family it slit different ,their children are so busy in their work , they forget that they have also parents  & they are alive" .how can you expect your future children will be take care of you ,when you become old.remember what you will do that much you will get, it a life circle ,we all face the same situation once in our life ,how can we forget this !so you should be idol before your children so that in future they become a perfect person ,having heart. So never forget what your parents did for you .no words for those people who forget their parents for money, who forget their parents when they got new family. How can we forget our first family that is our parents .so it’s my kindly request to all please pay more attention on OLD PEOPLE 

“no doubt government has implemented many rules but how many of them get benefited  no doubt educate people know how to get the pension  but poor old people have no idea about this ,so most of the time they suffer,”

So I can request NGOS should help those poor old people to get their pension &  head of a municipality should take special attention on them, "as in old days they are unable to do any work ,they need your help at that time ,in old days they need your support ,love & care ,if we can’t give them all ,at least we can give them pension for living purpose" !!!

SO MY SPECIAL REQUEST TO ,ALL DON’T LEAVE YOUR PARENTS IN THEIR OLD DAYS

SOME SPECIAL REQUESTS 

When you are infants/kids your parents are your world and even their world is you. You depend on them for everything. Later when you grew up they become old and they depend on you. Every child should take their parents responsibility. Old age is like a second childhood. When you grow up your parents views and yours might not match but you should not ignore them. No one can be replaced in the place of parents. So explain them what your views are and try to understand them. Spend time with them when you are free. Your children can make them happy. Leave your kids free with them. 

Do not interfere unnecessarily

Few parents don't like to give away their responsibilities to their children though after their retirement. They still want to give suggestions and interfere in their children's family matters. Commenting or interfering into your children's life after some sought of time doesn't result a healthy relationship between them. Leave your children about their decisions. If they ask you then you can share your feelings. If they doesn't ask you, then just share your feelings very casually but do not force them. Let them raise their kids in their own way. Mistakes can teach them. Do not compare your kids and degrade them. This may hurt them to core and leads to unhealthy relations.

Understand your parents

Your parents itself steps forward when they are in need of you. Try to understand their feelings. For example, if one of your parent needs any surgery to be done. They wish to undergo it in your presence. Stay with them during such times and give support to them. Parents need your presence more than your money. Do not misunderstand their feelings. If they are in need of money, do help them. Remember you are alive and in some status because of them. There is no harm to help them. If you live far away like other countries from your parents, try to spend time with them once in a year or take them to your place. That can satisfy your parents a lot. When parents become grandparents they wish to spend time with their grandchildren. Leave the kids with them in summer holidays. If you live far away let them interact with your kids through internet. If your parent doesn't have knowledge of internet, be patient and teach them clearly. Make a note of every step of using internet. It makes them easy.

Help them personally/financially

Know your parents needs and help them whenever you can. Surprise them with their favorite things. Help them financially when they want to go to some temple visits. Do not ask the money back which you help them. Or make a note of each and every paisa you spend on them. Fulfill your parent's dreams which make them happier. Coming to their health, go along with your parents for their health checkups. Consult their doctors and discuss about their health and how to improve them. When their health gets spoiled do support them and become their strength all time. They need your support physically/mentally rather than financially. Do not make them tensed by explaining your health issues or their health issues. Every parent thinks of their child more than themselves. Give your parents all the respect after your marriage as well. Do not start dominating them on everything nor allow your wife/husband to do that. Listen to them if they give any suggestion. If you don't like it do not show your frustration on them. Talk to them with lots of patience and make them understand the situation.

Change your attitude

In many situations we find the disputes or misunderstandings will be sorted out after few days or months. But in few cases they are prolonged for many years. Both have their attitude problems. When one forwards their hand the other will also does after few days at least. Don't let the chance go as parents and children are depended on each other. Children should think as their parents for a while and vice versa. By doing this we can understand what the others are feeling. Stay open before each other. Don't bring your attitude in your relations. This point is for both parents & children, don't think whatever you have decided is the right one. Try to discuss with the other and then have a conclusion. Parents shouldn't think that they are the elders they are right all time. Even your kids can think well and give you proper suggestions.

Conclusion

Though it might be parents or children, both should understand each other and help each other when they need them. Children should respect their parents and shouldn't forget that after few years they too will be in the same situation as their parents are. Parents should think as their kids and give a chance to live independently so that they can understand what life is? After their death there will be no one to support their children. So let them be as they wish. 

 In old days people become like child ,at that time they need your love & care & u hv to behave them like also...

so never let your parents alone in their OLD DAYS ...when ever u let them alone 1st think what they had done till now for you,the big thing they ever did they show you the world...

so love them & care for every old parents ,sometimes THERE ARE MANY OLD PEOPLE WHO NEED YOUR LOVE & CARE ,they may be not your parents ,but parents are always same...so show your love & care for every parents ... ♥♥♥

"every 1 in the world has a duty to save the old age people dont let them to starve."