MY VOICE ON CELEBRATE VALENTINE DAY

Do we really need to celebrate Valentine’s Day?

Frankly speaking my friends from my school life to till now  I always love to sit  silently & enjoy watching   & teasing my friends .how all my friends express their love  by giving rose flower & chocolate blew blaw.some also in a funny way & some guys also really fear to say in front  of their  girls so they choose  Face book is the best platform to express their feelings & in these days means from “ FEBRUARY 7 -14” some girls & guys are also upload their new beautiful  pics as DP.but I could n’t understand WHAT ARE THE REASONS BEHIND THE CHANGE IN DP.SORRY FRIENDS FOR  TELLING YOUR SECRETS <lol>  and I am wondering, do we really need to celebrate Valentine’s Day? Is it necessary for everyone to share one given day of the year with everyone else to express their love and to spend a considerable amount of money confirming that love? It is not that I do not take need about other people’s affections towards their companions, I just would like to know, why are we so open about these feelings?

There was once an era where people would be too humble and reserved to show others that they are truly, madly and deeply in love…like Romeo and Juliet. For generations, love was expressed through so many different ways most of the time I have also seen .I believe that the expression of love has become a show-business. It has become a competition; whom can express their love better than whom? And it is a competition that will generate a lot of negativity in society. In certain ways, it can damage relations between people. But I believe love is different it no need any date or month & enough money & no need to show off so much,  "little care & love" is sufficient to show your love.as i  believe love is based on three things “FAITH , PURITY ,HONEST”,IF YOU TAKE AN EXAMPLE :- A TREE “IT’S ROOTS SHOWS FAITH ,IT’S BRANCHES & LEAVES SHOWS PURITY & TRUNK SHOWS HONEST.IF YOU CUT ANY OF IT TREE CAN’T LIVE ,LOVE IS ALSO LIKE THAT”

as there was a myth behind that’s why we all celebrate & it really a great day for all the lovers & I also heartily wish to everyone happy valentine’s day  ! Wish you all got your life partner, at least for these seven day … don’t mind please, I am joking ;) :P lol   .... 

I really love to watch this but don’t wanna get involved in it...I feel it’s better to be alone & enjoy your life because I always believe no friend  is better than a bad company or friend, Becoz u always feel like staying in a cage. I never feel any kind of guy which really suits with my mentality & who actually understand me. Even if most of the time  my parents also tell me “you can’t get any guy in this world who really suits you <IN A JOCK >& we are also stop searching for you ,as we know we can’t  force you for choose any guy according to our choice ,Becoz it’s  

your life“. no doubt they are always choosing many high candidate even if very good qualification, but I feel marriage or love not  for living together, I am not going to marry his money or his qualifications .if that person never realize your importance in their life .because most of the time I have also seen in our INDIA men are most dominating character, who never listen to any lady. Yeah, slowly slowly some are changing. Whose mentality is developed or free minded not conservative type, they became very good life partner, and others are not. A life is not for doing your home work taking care of your own home members & finally dies. Do you think it’s really amazing or do you find any interesting in your life? I don’t feel so. Everyone is doing the same thing, even if monkeys & others animals also do the same things but their process is slight different than us. Then what’s the different between you & animal. Do you feel which I really don’t wanna? I believe every woman need a partner for share & care. But they should not forget their importance & propose of life. Some time people say women should compromise with everything but I think it’s really wrong when it comes to you respect. No one should forget this; everyone has equal importance in this earth. That is the main reason behind every case happening in INDIA, why such kind of things are happening, CAN ANYONE TRY TO ANALYZE. A woman act different kinds of role & a woman do more work than a man. Becoz a man handle his job but a woman handles her job as well as whole family. I really hate whenever I hear any divorce case “most of the time I have seen free minded people suffer like this & many more reasons are behind this also”…but I wanna say woman are not toys ,a man can’t disrespect a woman. The rape, child pornography, human trafficking is happening due to this reason...men don’t know how to respect a woman. They always want women should live like prisons but they don’t know for a woman they came this world...sometimes I have seen people are talking about women dress up style & how they talk ,with whom they are roaming around. I really hate when people interfere in others personal life. Sometimes I have also seen girls are neglected even if they wanna read they are not allowed, they are not allowed to go outside. Why, my question is why girl always suffer??? Before coming this world is she do any agreement with God that she will tolerate everything.??? Even if in company or any education matters also if women will win many people try to pull her leg down, use many wrong words for them why??? everyone wants to improved , I ALWAYS BELIEVE COMPETITION DOES N’T MEANS HATE SOMEONE & PULLING THEIR LEGS  DOWN “FROM THIS WE COULD N’T GET ANYTHING” BUT YES IF WE MAKE FRIENDSHIP WITH THEM ,LOVE THEM STILL TRY OUR SELF TO PROCEED FURTHER & COMPARE OURSELVES WITH THEM WE CAN IMPROVE OURSELVES & IT HELPFUL FOR OUR SOCIETY . But I find very few women want to fight; most of them choose as usual life. I believe it’s really boring life, if you do the as usual work like everyone. I believe life become interesting if do something unique or extra. That may be in any field… I really love & try different things in everyday…

But for this thinking I suffer a lot… Becoz I utilize this thought in my study matter also. Means I believe education means it’s all about knowledge gaining.

Sometimes people ask me “if you don’t like engineering then why you enter “

I gave them one answer: -

I think everything you can’t say, there is something personal. But it does n’t mean I don’t like my career, I really too love it...Wanna to get good grades, but frankly I am saying I don’t find any interesting. I always love to try new thing which I can’t get here. Only c, c++, java, oracle…blew blew just remember codes & do the programs. yeah I love to do new things like websites design ,which I am trying by myself , as I has & had no knowledge about computer still I am trying my best to do something extra. I REALLY TOO HATE  MEMORIZING & VOMITING THEN FORGETTING ,I really hate this process , I believe   education is not memorizing or scoring more marks & get into in any  high paid company & do your as usual work. Then what the value of your study only earns money. I don’t feel it’s that much interesting  .yeah I agree money is really needed to everyone ,even if I also want  ,as I wanna be self independent & do whatever I want  every time you need money. Money always not mean for enjoying, sometimes it needs to fulfill your dream. But my thought no one understand that’s why most of the time people call me crazy mind & searching engine GOOGLE. But I really too hate the memorizing word I believe if you understand anything no need to memorize but it need a good teacher who can clarify all sorts of doubts. But this thinking gives pain to my parents also, as I am a girl my first motto should be how to be a good educate person then you will be self independent. But I really don’t agree this matter sometimes as I believe education means where you find some interest & you can generate any type ideas based on that, that’s call real education. That’s why sometimes I become so much frustrated due to lack of interest , no doubt I read like others ,what other students are doing as usual stereotype study,  attend the classes , read the books & prepare for any higher education or aim for company job. Then life end …is that… I always believe if you wanna to do something do like “Steve jobs or Mark zuckerberg or Bill gates”. They are real educated mind because they utilize their brain. I am not saying that I am so talented but yeah I can say if I get chance to do which was my actual dream, hope I can do best.still i am not saying i am best in everything <sorry never take it negative sense,i am also not too brilliant >

Then people also asked me “then why you are not creating interest in your computer science paper what’s are the reason behind it”

I only gave one answer :- 

I don’t feel any interest or something new  i couldn't get ,no doubt many exclusive jobs or opportunities are there ,that’s why my papa choose this for me. As it has really demand. But I can’t feel anything then what I can do. I am very stubborn... which I promise means I keep & which I love means I do & no one can tell me NO…I love to write poems & stories & painting or many things  like there was a small research room when I was child… I remember how most of the time I was beaten by my mom whenever I do such kind of work. means I love to see the reactions  if we mixed two liquids  & which colors we get & what the order of smell we get…I love to observe this ,that’s why I use many things whatever I got  ,sometimes if I went somewhere &  I found a new liquid  I request them to give little amount. That’s why my mom feel offended many times. One day she threw my all works in the drain. As she knew me very well, I am a very short temper girl that’s why she fear if I drunk it. But she always told to concentrate on my study, when your time will come you will surely get scopes like that. Not only this I too love to collect the different stones, I love the marks & love to calculate the age of any stone …there are many things. But when my actual time came I got total reverse result. Which make me strong person what today I am.  But now those people who always suggested me to read like stereotype in my past life, they got a beautiful chance to tell me why I could n’t achieve anything. But now I really realize do your work according to time. but from my childhood days I really does n’t find any interest to read one book two to three times, memorizing that things, but now I have to .now I really understand why people laugh at me as I did n’t achieve anything …but I only wanna say them there was a time I never worry for stood first position Becoz that was reserve for me, but sometimes I really wanna sympathy on myself, what’s my position right now. Oh yes, it’s the truth, I am not faking anything. These all are truth. , which is the reason behind my frustration. I wanna escape  from this, but I know I can’t  until I get something which I want. now my aim is not to be "a scientist or doing any  highly paid job or open a company"  blew blew…now I have got a very good job that’s the service to mankind  ,which may help me to forget whatever I lose or suffer. Because some people wanna live a life as usual but seriously I am telling, I am different I believe life is not for doing for yourself, so utilize your time by doing something  for others.

Some people are saying “do you know what can do”???

I only give one answer:-                                                         

Everything, tell me which task you can give. but there is some limit of my work …I can’t do all ,I only can do which will be helpful for mankind which is my main motto, not to destroy …

Some also asked me “do you know what you will do future”…”

I only give one answer:-

Only smile remaining in my face, I don’t know! 2 diversified ways, either education or enter into any social activity …”

Some also ask me question “related spending much time in FACEBOOK & being popular for FACEBOOK POSTS “

I only give one answer:-

I only give one answer. I never do chat  becoz i feel it's a really time wasting process , even if I come for 15 to 20 minutes in my daily life <my regular college busy life > & holiday I tried my best to stay at least half an hour or sometimes little bit more. About famous for posts!  sorry , I  am not whatever I am doing these are the actual facts not any fake matters for me .I am  not joking .even if I don’t allow any fake statements on me. I believe if u wanna famous then various ways are there to become famous  but u need money to spend,  like “IF I PUBLISH MY OWN  POETRY BOOK & STORIES BOOK <ALL ARE MY ORIGINAL THAT’S WHY I NEVER FEAR TO PUBLISH> & TAKE THE HELP OF NEW PAPERS or MEDIA” of course I will be fame  ,but I don’t wanna like this . for me famous means  if you really love your work then from work people get know about you then that’s has some value ,I believe  "Rabindranath Tagore ,mother Teresa ,  Einstein" at that time no face book  was there , then how they become famous they bacoz of their Nobel work ,may be after their death people get know about them.but they are always be immortal for us, becoz  their way of path was not easy.WHEN YOU GET SOMETHING AFTER STRUGGLING A LOT. AT THAT TIME U BECOME IMMORTAL & PERSONALITY MATTERS EVERY TIME . For me famous meaning is that, I wanna get popularity by my own effort not from my parents money. I don’t like too much dependent people. There are also many people are there without doing so much work became famous, because they have sufficient money for media …but I don’t like short term POPULARITY, if ur character should affect others then only you can say you have done something that is the real meaning of your popularity .as popularity meaning vary from person to person & it’s my thoughts. That’s what I believe” that’s why I need a platform to show my strength, but it is very difficult for a girl to establish herself alone. that’s why my papa always say EDUCATION IS THAT PLATFORM .but I feel sometimes it help you when your dream & education are in one motto but it really too difficult when they are purely reverse . It’s the great challenge, I love to take challenge but sometimes I pray before my lord to help me & show me the path what I want. As I wanna do everything by my own effort & I wanna improve myself by doing hard labor & I too love it….