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PAST
MISTAKES DON’T DEFINE YOU, IT HELP YOU TO MAKE A PERSON WHICH YOU ALWAYS DREAM
FOR.TAKE IT POSITIVE. BUT DON’T ALLOW THE NEGATIVE ENERGY TO DESTROY YOUR PRESENT LIFE.TAKE
EVERY STEP WISELY,IT’S YOUR LIFE & YOU KNOW WHAT IS RIGHT.SO BE COOL!!!
Gods mercies
are new every morning…
As life goes
like a river , you will hardly find a time so why you're standing still. If u do
so then it’s better prepare for the worst , in this world no one is your ,yeah
we all are bonded with one bond that is love & faith. But can you tell me
who is true to you ,it’s very difficult to tell. as my personal experience –
I
FACED ALL THE PROBLEMS IN MY LIFE ALONE ,EXCEPT
MY PARENTS , NO ONE WAS THERE < MY PARENTS WERE WITH ME , HOPE WILL BE THERE
IN MY FUTURE> IN MY ALL BAD TIME NO
FRIEND WITH ME ”NO MEANS NO ONE” !!!
I WAS PURELY ALONE.SOME FRIENDS CALLED ME AS BEST FRIEND <ALL WERE GIRLS> & GOOD FRIEND <ALL WERE GIRLS> BUT IN THE END I FELT I HAVE ONLY TWO FRIEND THAT IS MY “GOD & MY PARENTS” WHO ARE REAL FRIEND , EXCEPT THEM ALL WERE FAKE ,ALL WERE ONLY GOOD TIME FRIEND .”SO I DON’T NEED HELP FROM THOSE PEOPLE WHO LEFT ME ALONE IN MY WORST TIME & CREATED MORE PROBLEMS IN MY LIFE” THAT’S WHY NOW A DAYS I WANNA HANDLE ALL THE SITUATION ALONE, AS IT IS A GREAT LESSON IN MY LIFE . SO I WANNA SAY ONLY ONE THING “BE SELF INDEPENDENT” , As u can’t say who will be with you in future ,all are selfish & all will be with you when you are fine…this is the worst truth.YEAH , in stories I have read even if my parents has told me about TRUE FRIENDSHIP but in real life I had no one except one friend , her name is GELU <RITA RANI PALAI> who really care about me , but our friendship was for only 14 years MY CHILDHOOD FRIEND. so I felt if no one is your so why we get so much emotionally attached with everyone. it’s really fool if you are too much emotionally attach. yeah we should know how to care for other , help others & show sympathy to them when they need us. but I don’t think so much emotionally attach with everyone is good. YEAH IF U FIND SOMEONE LIKE THAT WHO IS TRUE TO YOU LIKE YOUR PARENTS , HONESTLY SAYING ! NEVER CHEAT THEM…BECOZ I ALWAYS BELIEVE GOD HAS MADE SOMEONE FOR U , WHO TRULY UNDERSTAND U . IN EVERYONE'S LIFE THERE IS ALWAYS TWO PERSON STAND BESIDES THEM "EITHER THEIR PARENTS OR LOVE ONE".U CAN’T SAY YOU ARE TOTALLY ALONE. Becoz in this is god’s creature, god has made someone for u , but when your time will come you will get .so be FAITHFUL & HONEST TO THEM SPECIALLY…BECOZ IT’S VERY DIFFICULT TO JOIN THE CUT ROPE AGAIN ,I THINK U CAN’T OR IF U TRY THEN IT WILL NEVER BE FURTHER LIKE BEFORE. So take every step wisely in your life & analyze the people & their mentality…it’s not bad if you judge them Becoz I feel if u have feelings for someone it’s better to judge them fist because most of the time feeling converted into love ,but IF U CHOOSE A WRONG ONE IT MAY SPOIL YOUR ENTIRE LIFE,SO WHY DO U TAKE RISK . this is relation matter. sometimes we fail to fulfill our dream career which hurt us most of the time. but I believe , that should not represent our future ,anyone can start from now ,sometimes we lose some close people like your “father or mother or grandfather or grandmother or sister or brother or some friend “ which always hurt us Becoz god has given us a heart & emotion. I believe very few people can control it.try to control your emotion Becoz sometimes it become your weak point. so never let other to know your weak point. But sometimes people love to live in past but they never realize it can’t give them anything.whether it is good memory or bad memory it always hurts. if your present situation is worst then it hurts u if you think about your past good memories .if ur present situation is good still sometimes u feel like nervous because of your past worries you can’t be strong further. i believe it’s better to burn them BUT NEVER FORGET THE LESSON U LEARN …UR LIFE IS YOUR GREAT TEACHER …WHICH TEACH YOU SOMETHING WHICH YOU NEVER LEARN IN YOUR SCHOOL OR COLLEGE OR FROM PARENTS OR FROM ANYTHING
I WAS PURELY ALONE.SOME FRIENDS CALLED ME AS BEST FRIEND <ALL WERE GIRLS> & GOOD FRIEND <ALL WERE GIRLS> BUT IN THE END I FELT I HAVE ONLY TWO FRIEND THAT IS MY “GOD & MY PARENTS” WHO ARE REAL FRIEND , EXCEPT THEM ALL WERE FAKE ,ALL WERE ONLY GOOD TIME FRIEND .”SO I DON’T NEED HELP FROM THOSE PEOPLE WHO LEFT ME ALONE IN MY WORST TIME & CREATED MORE PROBLEMS IN MY LIFE” THAT’S WHY NOW A DAYS I WANNA HANDLE ALL THE SITUATION ALONE, AS IT IS A GREAT LESSON IN MY LIFE . SO I WANNA SAY ONLY ONE THING “BE SELF INDEPENDENT” , As u can’t say who will be with you in future ,all are selfish & all will be with you when you are fine…this is the worst truth.YEAH , in stories I have read even if my parents has told me about TRUE FRIENDSHIP but in real life I had no one except one friend , her name is GELU <RITA RANI PALAI> who really care about me , but our friendship was for only 14 years MY CHILDHOOD FRIEND. so I felt if no one is your so why we get so much emotionally attached with everyone. it’s really fool if you are too much emotionally attach. yeah we should know how to care for other , help others & show sympathy to them when they need us. but I don’t think so much emotionally attach with everyone is good. YEAH IF U FIND SOMEONE LIKE THAT WHO IS TRUE TO YOU LIKE YOUR PARENTS , HONESTLY SAYING ! NEVER CHEAT THEM…BECOZ I ALWAYS BELIEVE GOD HAS MADE SOMEONE FOR U , WHO TRULY UNDERSTAND U . IN EVERYONE'S LIFE THERE IS ALWAYS TWO PERSON STAND BESIDES THEM "EITHER THEIR PARENTS OR LOVE ONE".U CAN’T SAY YOU ARE TOTALLY ALONE. Becoz in this is god’s creature, god has made someone for u , but when your time will come you will get .so be FAITHFUL & HONEST TO THEM SPECIALLY…BECOZ IT’S VERY DIFFICULT TO JOIN THE CUT ROPE AGAIN ,I THINK U CAN’T OR IF U TRY THEN IT WILL NEVER BE FURTHER LIKE BEFORE. So take every step wisely in your life & analyze the people & their mentality…it’s not bad if you judge them Becoz I feel if u have feelings for someone it’s better to judge them fist because most of the time feeling converted into love ,but IF U CHOOSE A WRONG ONE IT MAY SPOIL YOUR ENTIRE LIFE,SO WHY DO U TAKE RISK . this is relation matter. sometimes we fail to fulfill our dream career which hurt us most of the time. but I believe , that should not represent our future ,anyone can start from now ,sometimes we lose some close people like your “father or mother or grandfather or grandmother or sister or brother or some friend “ which always hurt us Becoz god has given us a heart & emotion. I believe very few people can control it.try to control your emotion Becoz sometimes it become your weak point. so never let other to know your weak point. But sometimes people love to live in past but they never realize it can’t give them anything.whether it is good memory or bad memory it always hurts. if your present situation is worst then it hurts u if you think about your past good memories .if ur present situation is good still sometimes u feel like nervous because of your past worries you can’t be strong further. i believe it’s better to burn them BUT NEVER FORGET THE LESSON U LEARN …UR LIFE IS YOUR GREAT TEACHER …WHICH TEACH YOU SOMETHING WHICH YOU NEVER LEARN IN YOUR SCHOOL OR COLLEGE OR FROM PARENTS OR FROM ANYTHING
IT’S BETTER TO BE WIRED SOME TIMES :p
There are many core beliefs relating to all aspects of life and each of
us holds a number of them. Here are some examples of some negative core beliefs
that are commonly held
• I'm not good enough
• I'm unlovable
• I can't do this
• it's not fair
• something bad will happen
• life is hopeless
• I'm hopeless
• I'm insignificant
• I must be perfect to be loved
• I'm bad
• something must change for me to be ok
• people will take advantage of me
• people are out to get me
• I'm unforgivable
• the world is a dangerous place
• I must be in control
• people are too sensitive
• I'm not capable
• People must think well of me
• I'm helpless
• I'm unlovable
• I can't do this
• it's not fair
• something bad will happen
• life is hopeless
• I'm hopeless
• I'm insignificant
• I must be perfect to be loved
• I'm bad
• something must change for me to be ok
• people will take advantage of me
• people are out to get me
• I'm unforgivable
• the world is a dangerous place
• I must be in control
• people are too sensitive
• I'm not capable
• People must think well of me
• I'm helpless
We all have our own core beliefs and the negative ones can impact our
present and hold us back.
Everyone experiences failures. It's a part of
life. The important thing is to learn from the things that
didn't work out for you. Take a step back from your failed attempts and try to
remove your emotions from the situation. I realize how hard this is, but try to
look at things analytically. If the same thing were to happen to someone else, what
advice would you give them? When you take a subjective look at the situation,
be honest with yourself and ask, Why?
What was missing? What could have been done differently? GOD HAS GIVEN YOU
A SECOND CHANCE THAT IS TOMORROW. Use it , you never know what can be happen
tomorrow but if you are dwelling in your past then you can’t face the future …it’s
the damn worst truth….analyze yourself , Whether you
are in a changing moment of your life, or dealing with a problem, or you are
busy striving for something better, you can use positive thinking to see your
life under a positive light. Positive thinking about your life is helpful to
put anything in perspective and to balance what we normally think are terrible
situations. You can use
positive thinking to create a better life.
Gods mercies
are new every morning…
Every day
can be a fresh start & a clean slate..
You don’t
have to be condemned by your past
if you ask
God to forgive u & to help u change.
Don’t let
the devil have it over you with your past mistakes.
That are thief & a liar.
Instead,
press on for the prize, leave the rest behind!
Don’t let another
day go to waste…
Be positive
& live in present
It’s my kind
request