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Gossip is basically lies,
lies and more lies. And the last time I checked, lies ain't cool. Here's how it
starts:
People hear a tidbit of information about somebody they may know
or not, and they take that info and build a story around it in their heads.
Then they tell their friends this info, and their friends add even
more false info to the story and spread that around . It sounds so dumb that stuff like that can actually
start, but it does.
Gossip gets carried away because talking about other people's
crazy, made-up lives is sometimes more fun than talking about reality. But the
thing is that it isn't real and it makes people's lives
miserable. And once gossip starts there's no stopping it. Gossip and
rumors will grow and grow until everybody is talking about everybody else and no one is safe
Real life is crazy enough without having people make stuff up
about you, and vice-versa. There has to be a better way for people to socialize without making up lies.
Rumors kill you inside
I really hate when people start blaming you & start spreading
rumor about your name , sometimes i believe don't allow any rumor in your life
, negative rumor always break you. THIS IS SPECIALLY SPREAD BY YOUR HATERS...WHEN YOU MOVE FORWARD
IN YOUR LIFE SOME PEOPLE KNOW HOW TO DEMORALIZE YOU BY SPREADING THE SAME RUMOR
...I REALLY HATE...BUT SOMETIMES THEY LOVE TO DO THIS ...AS NO ONE
WANTS TO SEE YOU HAPPY...
Love spreading process start in my life when i entered into my
real career means engineer, as it is a common thing in today's world, so i
don't feel bad actually. but i feel bad any false news about me in love
matters specially , when there is no truth you find .so sorry if i
scold anyone in anytime for this .
I remember when i entered into my IIIT
college , yeah i shared everything with my friends & i remembered i
told I like one guy its because of my friend she will suggested me to love his
brother but I didn’t wanna be committed , one side I didn’t wanna lose my
friendship another side I didn’t wanna be committed so I made a plan to solve
this love problem – so I took this step – false drama but didn’t know finally I
become the victim of my own drama & it’s because of my close friends ,
I offended due to them , they message that guy & finally I criticized & feel shamed . it’s true that i
liked his behavior as he was very well behaved towards girls
even you can say he is my Crush only btw I have many crush till now & It’s true ,I keep
everything inside me so no one get know about this even i never discussed about any guy matter . but for the first
time my friends take it as love issue as I openly share my thought but in which
situation I did they didn’t know, it’s common at that time everyone has boy
friend so my mind also cracked & I follow their path for few days , but after
few days I also came to my original life ...SERIOUSLY
TELLING , NOT JOKING !EVEN AT THAT TIME I WAS SO FOOL I
ALSO BELIEVE THEIR WORDS , AS I DIDN'T KNOW WHAT’S THE DIFFERENCE
BETWEEN LOVE & CRUSH , AS BEFORE I ONLY KNEW MY STUDY & MY DREAM ONLY... but i didn't know it will take a different case even if i
never talk with any guy in real life , even if i only talked with that guy
in Facebook , yeah i knew him before because we were in same coaching
classes (ROURKELA) but didn't talk with him face to face , i remembered - i only
talked two months in Facebook & he was only my friend not my any BOY
FRIEND , PLZ MIND UR WORDS BEFORE SPREADING ANY RUMORS IN MY NAME... he was a good guy , but one day one small comment break
our friendship. after listening his whole story i felt sad. as his GIRL FRIEND
left him & i did n't wanna make him more sad , so i felt it's better
to leave him & i cut off my friendship. i felt i had taken a wise step , i
can take .as situation matters. as a friend heartily saying
i wanna see him with his girl friend . AS HE WAS MY FRIEND & I ALWAYS WANNA WISH GOOD FOR HIM. now also i wish he get his girl friend. Even my all close
friends have seen our most of the messages , it’s for fun – if
anyone want ask my close friends who send messages to my friends (This
guy). They can better explain you. He had a girl friend & he love
her too much.
Still people keep spreading rumors about me , i really hate but
now it's unbearable to tolerate so now i gonna write the whole story
here...IN
REAL LIFE I NEVER TALK WITH HIM , ANYONE CAN ASK HIM ALSO , HOW & WHAT WE
DISCUSS ... we were just friend , he was neither my good friend or my best
friend...WE WERE JUST FRIENDS LIKE OTHERS
...
Then i gonna discuss about my another friend , he
has great role here he is from my own college IIIT BBSR, as he is really
childish & he never know what to tell & how to tell...he is good from
his heart but he is SUPER FLIRT ...but for this i face problem at last ... he
has many BEST FRIENDS BUT IT'S TRUE - HE LOVE ONE & HE
HAS ALSO ONE BEST FRIEND (I AM NOT , PLZ )...but
while helping him indirectly i face a lots problem actually he was good
from heart & very helpful , that's why i talked with him & made
friendship with him, i also wanna he will get his LOVE that's why one side
people spread many rumors about me but i never look after them I
BELIEVE IN MY FRIENDSHIP...but i didn't know IN A VERY PAINFUL WAY WE CUT OUR
FRIENDSHIP... I NEVER TALK WITH HIM FURTHER & FULLY DECIDED ALSO...we never talk about any
love matters , yeah he always try to change me & me too ...that's why most
of the time we quarrel but seriously telling . now also i take him as my friend
, no doubt HE HAS ONLY ONE LOVE
& ONE BEST FRIEND & I AM NOT IN HIS LIST... even if i never
talk with him in face to face no doubt he is from my college still i never talk
....we only communicate through FACEBOOK &G-MAIL ...no doubt we are
staying in one campus but we never talk or wander ...even if he also never
proposed me to go outside ...he well known how to behave ...BUT FOR HIM ONLY , I FACE A LOTS OF PROBLEM ...BUT I CAN'T SOLVE
HIS PROBLEM... FOR WHICH MY PROPOSE OF MAKING FRIENDSHIP UNFULFILLED. he was also my friend even if we never talk , i hv to
listen many thing.
So now I wanna ask to everyone, is there anyone left to join my
name with him?
Kindly request to everyone don’t spread as a boy & girl can be
friend. Without knowing whole issue don’t spoil someone’s name. don’t spread
the wrong news , if anyone has any doubt ask those guys even my close friends
or me . if they are really good they will say true , btw I am not a dustbin
,when their girl friend leave them they will come to me as I am single. I may
be single but not worthless. so please don’t joining my name with committed people
.please make a distance between friendship & love.
TILL NOW I HAVE NO BOY FRIEND EVEN IF NO FRIENDSHIP WITH ANY GUY
SO CLOSELY ...YEAH , I HAVE MY CHILD HOOD FRIENDS WHO ARE BOY ...I
ALSO VERY CLOSE TO THEM & WE HAD A GANG ALSO ... I LOVE MY GANG & THEM
TOO ...
so my kindly request to everyone plz don't spread any kind of
rumors...THEY HAVE GIRL FRIENDS YAAR
...TRY TO UNDERSTAND ME... :D :p :p ;)
So when i will marry at that time i will love , that also only one
what i have decided ,
THAT PERSON WILL BE MY FIRST & LAST LOVE IN MY LIFE
...THAT'S WHY I DON'T WANNA CHEAT ANYONE...SO STOP SPREADING RUMORS
ABOUT THIS LOVE MATTERS ... IF I'LL MARRY I'LL CALL EVERYONE !
<SORRY
I AM ALSO NOT FULLY SURE ABOUT MY MARRIAGE ISSUE , AS I DIDN'T KNOW
WHETHER GOD HAS MADE ANYONE FOR ME OR NOT OR HE MIGHT HAVE FORGOTTEN >
:P ;)
SO
DON'T WORRY ..I LOVE MY FRIENDS , I'LL SURELY CALL MY WHOLE FRIENDS IF
I'LL MARRY , K ... IF I CAN'T CALL EVERYONE THEN YOU ALL CAN GIVE
ME PARTY FROM YOUR POCKET MONEY < LOL . ROFL>. .
NO DOUBT SOMETIMES
DUE TO THIS I GET IRRITATED STILL I LOVE THEM & I BELIEVE IN
FORGIVING...
MY
LOVE WILL BE ONE & ONLY , WHOM I WILL MARRY <SORRY , I DON'T KNOW
WHOM I'LL MARRY , MY GOD WILL DECIDE FOR ME > EXCEPT HIM ALL ARE
MY FRIENDS ...A GIRL & A BOY CAN BA FRIEND AS I BELIEVE ...
IF
I'LL NOT MARRY THEN I WILL NOT LOVE ANYONE :P :P ;)
SO
STOP JOINING MY NAME WITH OTHERS , I REALLY HATE THIS , I BELIEVE IN TRUTH
...IF ANY TRUTH IS THERE THEN JOIN , IF NOT SO PLZ DON'T DO THIS !!!
KNOW
THE WHOLE TRUTH THEN SPREAD , HALF
TRUTH IS ALWAYS DANGEROUS MY FRIENDS ! SO KEEP IT , IN YOUR MIND ! J BTW
ONE GIRL CAN'T LOVE MANY GUYS AT A TIME , THIS KIND OF GIRLS ARE EXISTS BUT ALL
ARE NOT SAME & I AM NOT IN THIS LIST. I PREFER ONLY & ONE PERSON
THROUGHOUT MY LIFE
<Don't
take my words granted , if i'll tell i like that guy , it means i like
his behavior but it doesn't means i love him... k ... so if I'LL LOVE
ANYONE I'LL SURELY WRITE IN MY BLOG FIRST , WITH HIS NAME , SO DON'T
WORRY :P :D ;) >
J STOP
JOINING MY NAME WITH COMMITTED PEOPLE :P :D
J SORRY
IF I HURT ANYONE , BUT THIS IS THE ACTUAL TRUTH ABOUT ME J
