MAINTAIN PERSONAL & PROFESSIONAL LIFE

Now life is too busy to give time to those who play important role in our life. Because we are too busy in our professional life ,  no doubt it’s a important part as it’s our self identity & I believe no one should lose their self identity . The world is changing so rapidly that every  person now has to work in order to live a better life. In this race, one often tends to mix up their personal and professional life. This results in an unhappy life. This also gives a feeling to us that despite all the hard work, one has still something missing in life. This missing element is the mental peace and we needs to concentrate in our personal life. As it play a major role in our life. sometimes it’s advisable that follow certain rules in order to keep our live simple  and lives a healthier life with a balance between the personal and professional life .so for this we have to draw a line between them & try to understand how to maintain, it’s not too difficult if you try, as most of the time I have seen people think one person can’t handle both professional as well as personal life. I believe it’s possible. No doubt now I am a student so whatever I am writing that’s from my heart. What I believe I just write it down. It’s possible when we balance everything. It possible when the people who play major role in your life support you & understand you. A personal life balance through understanding & cooperation. so it’s different from professional life… now I gonna write something .hope u all enjoy it…sorry , it’s my personal thought , I don’t know I may be wrong in some point , still I believe in myself & I believe a women can do both, as most of the time people think women can’t . I am saying it’s possible, now I gonna write 12 RULES FOR HAPPY & HEALTHY LIFE :-

1) Draw a line between professional and personal life. When it is work time, work like crazy, but don't compromise on family time. Remember name, money, fame and job are all temporary. The only thing constant in all these phases is family and friends. If they get the time, love and attention you have lived a content life

2)Importance of Work-Life Balance: To enjoy excellent health, a stress free wealth and pleasant living all along our lives, we must care about the importance of our work-life balance. If you’re single your time schedule will be different then a married/engaged one, so, you may spend much time with your work but under the limits of your working capacity. Sometimes, due to overwork one can adopt an aggressive attitude which needs to be neutralized by personal activities.

3) leave the rabbit race. You came on this Earth to play your role & you should do!  A human came this world to fulfill his/her ambition but we should not forget to enjoy & the natural ways of living. Here persons need a work/life balance which builds a system of prioritization for two parallel their life pattern with nature.

4) Organized Time-Frame is most important, when we handle both means both personal as well as perfection at that time work time-frame is needed, as we neither can’t avoid our responsibility as well as our main aim. We need both in our real life. We wanna go along with this. Yeah sometime it’s doesn’t means our life cycle

5) We have to take care about assigned work in our daily professional work, follow-ups and dealing with people, there needs a well-organized attitude in friendly manner. As we have to work with different people & deal with different people our requirement.

6) We must set a priority list of daily work and also need to get a pause along it to get ready for the next. We have to work according to routine & we have to give importance to all.

7) There is an important issue during work as to deal with rush a calm and soft attitude supposed to excellent in finding best results. All the coworker also needs your attention during your duty hours and their needs an excellent attitude is important while always keep friendly way of dealings required. .As well as in home we have to play different role like caring as well as well understanding.

8) Sometimes we have to leave our office problems in office & have to enjoy with our family when we are with them. If you join them then we can’t success neither in professional nor personal. At last we have to choose one .that’s the main reason why break up happens. So it’s better to avoid.

9) Sometimes we have to give time to do some work what we love because this necessary to refresh and overcome the mental as well as physical stress.

10)  When we belong to a family we have to involve you in every work & we should not forget to celebrate birthday celebration, get-together parties, family friend’s gatherings etc., which is necessary to be an active part of society. A pause in work and proper deep-sleep in the night according to age and nature of work is an essential element of work-life balance.

11)  Our work-life happenings due to God whatever name you like to call him. We need to stay in front him & prays at once , twice or more times  how much you can .because it rejoice the inner, to calm down the mind, to dissolve negative thoughts, to get inspired for all the work-life activities.

12) Besides this we need a perfect health & we all should take care of our health first, so we should not forget for morning exercise & mediation. As it cool our mind as well as heart. It makes our life HEALTHY & HAPPY. As a healthy life is the main reason behind of your happiness.

We have to make it as a routine & we have to follow these

Please  have a look on this it may help you

           
THESE THINGS AFFECTS OUR LIFE, JUST TRY TO UNDERSTAND THE TABLES GIVEN BELOW:-

Diet = friends + reputation +work           

Fitness = family/kids+ finance +hobby  

Health =office +home + outdoors  

Self-image= colleague + stress +giving/helping      

Direction = relaxation+ creativity           

Laughter= travel + growth +routine      

Thrills = nature + safety/law+ numbers           

Sleep= word + music/dance + sport       

Learning= challenge+ systems+ machines          

Love= faith+ discovery+adventure          

Life balance factors

We have to write down the important works in a week & make a priority

Like we can number them

O PART

0 = not so much

1 = important

2 =most important

We have to write down which factor affects our life & what we need to change

A PART

0 = excellent

1 = poor

2 = very poor

Then we have to multiply with our important work + priority + the factors affects+ changes need

Calculate O x A.

Highest scores are your biggest priorities and opportunities.

Here we can conclude something   , how to get success & maintain our life

<THESE ARE MY OWN  IMAGINATION – HOPE IT WILL HELP YOU ALSO>

Changing is the only factor which can lead you the success

1) Understand and accept the need to change.

2) Commit to and plan the change.

3) Make the change - ensuring you explain your new ways of working to those who need to know.

4) be flexible & try to change yourself according to time & situation.

I BELIEVE CHANGE YOURSELF IS THE ONLY & MOST IMPORTANT FACTOR WHICH CAN GIVE YOU SUCCESS IN PERSONAL AS WELL AS PROFESSIONAL  AS WE NEED EVERYONE IN OUR LIFE. WE CAN’T LOSE OUR OWN IDENTITY AS WELL AS WE CAN’T LOOSE THOSE PEOPLE WHO ARE EVERYTHING FOR US, THEY ARE OUR WEALTH & HEALTH EVERYTHING, WHAT EVER YOU CAN SAY. SO WE CAN’T LIVE ONE DAY LEAVING OUR OWN PEOPLE. SO IT’S BETTER TO MANAGE EVERYTHING IN YOUR LIFE. BUT I BELIEVE IT’S POSSIBLE WHEN IN PERSONAL LIFE THERE IS WELL UNDERSTANDING & COOPERATION IS THERE.

IT’S MY OWN IMAGINATION- HOPE U ALL LIKE IT. IT’S MY IDEA & BELIEVE  NO DOUBT I AM NOT A EXPERIENCED PERSON BUT WHAT I BELIEVE I JUST WRITE IT HERE. I BELIEVE EVERY WOMAN SHOULD INVOLVED THEM IN WORK, BUT FOR THIS THEY NEED A GOOD PARTNER. WHO TRULY UNDERSTAND THEM? :p IT’S TRUE FRIENDS , DON’T TAKE MY WRITING IN JOCK , WHAT EVER I HAVE WRITTEN HERE , AFTER A GREAT THINKING . HOPE YOU ALL ENJOY IT & MAY IT HELP YOU IN YOUR FUTURE LIFE :p :D ;)