RELATIONSHIPS REALLY MATTERS

Relationships are the way in which two or more people are connected. The relationships that we make in life are very easy to survive; however they are not so easy to maintain... these are just like a glass , handle it safely it will reflect what you wanna see, once it broken it’s too difficult & always impossible to make it like before . For this relationship we people become closer, it does n’t matter who you are or what you are. It also does n’t matter which place you belongs to. The most important in any relationship is LOYALTY, FAITH, TRUTH, COMPASSION, RESPECT etc.

Sometimes it confined with in your home & sometimes we have relationship with outside world. Whom we don’t know before. Still we take them as own & make a beautiful relationship with them.

We all are well known about the relationship between mother & father with their son or daughter, a relationship with a brother with brother , sister with sister , brother with sister , aunt & uncle with us & many more personal relationships are there. We all are well known about this. How to maintain & how to behave, as they are the first people who teach the meaning of love & they are the base of the construction of our relationship. When we go outside we see the outside world where we meet different people, it’s become a great challenge for us how to behave them, how to maintain it. As its too difficult, as they don’t know us perfectly but we have to manage everything through our nice behavior & sweet talk & care. Slowly we become a part in their life. This is called the true relationship which you built by yourself & that also with the outside world.

We feel so happy when we say any outsider as our own, no matter we have not blood relationship with everyone exist in this world, and still we care for other & love them & treat them as our own. IT DOES N’T MATTER TO ME WHAT YOU ARE, WHO YOU ARE, WHAT YOU BELIEVE OR WHAT YOU LOOK ETC. if you love me then you get it return. As I too hate rude people. But sometimes I love rude people than loving people where the loving people are very complicated & doubled faced people. At that situation I love the rude people as they may be rude they don’t cheat. I too hate cheating, fraud, lie in any relationship. I give more value in relationship. That’s why I have relationship with very few people, as I am very choosy. I can’t make friendship with a double face people or rude one. That’s why in my real life also I have very few friends but I can only believe only one. As most of the time I cheated by my friends & it’s not new for me to be cheated. So I always love to judge people & read their mind. Where I feel ,if someone 20% bad to me I make friendship with them as I know in this world no one is your well wiser & no one can see your development except your parents or brother / sister or your loved one. Except them no one in this world. That’s why I always believe to forgive outsiders who don’t matter so much in my life. Yeah! Everyone matter but I don’t give them more importance like those people WHOM I LOVE. I can forgive them easily but I can’t forgive those people who are 50% complicated as well as rude. Sorry! I feel, it’s better to have no relation than a bad one. So that I have relationship with everyone but I love heartily very few.

Now I gonna discuss the important relationships which is an important issue in present world:-

I believe Loyalty is one of the fundamental traits that are present in a successful relationship. Without loyalty doubts of trust and lack of respect begin to come to the fore and relationships begin to crumble. I believe only the absolute loyalty towards a person is not always the absolute criteria for a successful relationship. It needs many things like trust, respect, compassion, care & truth. It’s a great bond but very difficult to handle.

Now a day’s more importantly, especially in terms of modern usage, romantic interests went by the name of “boyfriend”, “girlfriend” or “that person I’m dating”. Today, a relationship is usually presented as a fairly serious romantic process. It seems to be the thing people are in that is beyond a dating connection, and something removed from friendship. Someone special is now expressed as a desire to “be in a real relationship”. It is almost as though we have taken the people out of the activity, and this is where I think the definition runs into real trouble. This factor of other means of address immediately strikes me as an interesting part of the definition of “relationship. Sometimes a relationship is a thing someone is in with a girlfriend or boyfriend, and I am beginning to wonder how much of how we define “relationship” has to do with this stature we give to this non-existent thing. Sometimes I really don’t believe this relationship which has no name, as it has no guaranty. Yeah, it’s ok, if you doing for fun or relax or getting help through this. But I don’t believe it really works. I feel it’s better to be friend rather than “boyfriend” & “girlfriend”... as most of the time it means to a lot of things but there is no guaranty. As most of the time I have also seen many break ups in student career & I don’t know how much left to see, as now also I am a student. I have seen very rare case where relationship has a real existence except that no other has any existence. Sometimes when girl is serious boy wanna take advantage & vice versa , So sometimes I feel its better to be single till marriage, that’s the main reason I have no believe. This is not the one case , another reason is in this age boys or girls minds are not too matured to take any relation in seriously , they feel a different kind of amusement from that but they don’t know it’s after effect or what problems may create in future . In the teen age our mind goes to the wrong side mostly & specially in this age people do many mistakes unknowingly, so I don’t wanna say that they are wrong. Of course not, it’s not their fault; it’s the fault of our age & hormones. It has a great effect in our life. I believe hormones & genetics play a major role in our life. so it’s not easy to avoid it , sometimes I also feel in my past days I also feel something for other means it’s just like Crush , but as I knew the truth & what my papa & mama already told me . they are my best friend & they share everything with me & they told me the reasons why girls fall on a boy, so they also don’t take any love matters seriously in this age “as they are well known about what really happens & what it’s future “& they know me very well how I am that’s why they told me from the beginning “THINK TWICE WHAT EVER YOU DO, THINK FOR YOUR FUTURE & NEVER FALL ON ANY BOY IN STUDENT CAREER. WHEN YOU CAN UNDERSTAND ANY RELATION WELL AS WELL AS KNOW HOW TO HANDLE, AT THAT TIME YOU CAN”. That’s why even if I have feelings I never show it & according to time my felling also burst like water babble. It also does n’t mean I have crush on everyone. It’s not like that; I like those people who behavior attracts me. It’s for the temporary period, that’s why I never wanna be in a relationship like GIRLFRIEND of anyone. . I am seriously telling no one can understand it whether I have crush one others or not. I am not telling lie here. it’s true , whatever I mentioned here, I never tell anything about it before anyone , as I knew my future result , so no one can say I had gone in any date or roaming with any guy or in a relationship with anyone , as I am very serious about this matter as well as my character. I believe in love & I also support it, I am not saying love someone is crime or sin, still I believe it has a time & some limit also. I am very serious kind of girl if once I truly love someone it’s really very difficult to leave him. So that I never love anyone from heart that’s why I love to be single, till I get someone who is the perfectly match with me. I don’t need too beautiful person or any richest person. I need a person who loves me like my parents & support me & promise me to never leave me alone in any situation. As I am very loyal in any relation , that’s the main reason why I never choose to be in any relations with any guy till now , as I don’t know how much I am secure or my guaranty period . As mind always fluctuate in this age. So I feel it’s better to wait for a good guy rather than choose any wrong one or any temporary relationship. I have also seen in this age in between 16-24 age people mind generally fluctuate. Generally most of the girls are very serious when they become 20-23 years but boys are still childish, that’s the main reason why it’s not wise step to choose any serious relationship in this age. Boys become serious to any relationship when they become responsible, means when they get engaged in any work or they feel they have also some responsibility for their home. At time you can think for a strong relation, as they could understand as well as realize the meaning of any relationship. So mainly in the age of 30-to on wards break up are rare. If it happens because of UNFAITHFULNESS , EGO PROBLEM , PRIORITY , NOT GIVING SO MUCH TIME , NO TOO MUCH LOVE & CARE & SOMETIMES IT’S BECAUSE UNNECESSARY DOUBTS & NOT GOOD UNDERSTANDING.

So it’s a different case. I believe if you gonna make a wonderful relationship with any stranger, so first forget the word like EGO & understand their small problem. It may be able to save your relation. It not only save but also make your relationship stronger.

Most anyone you would ask today would give you a definition of a relationship along the lines referred to. They would say that it is a meaningful connection between two people, and one with potential for a lasting future. That potential is also a large part of how relationships are perceived today; people still date, but when they begin referring to being in a relationship, it means that one or both concerned parties are thinking in terms of a future together. Still I believe that there should be some boundary in every relationship & we should not cross that.

RELATIONSHIPS REALLY MATTERS

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