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Our parents give not us
life they give us THEIR Life. Their life, their actual soul hides within
us. They are important than God also , as God send us to this earth but our parents make us a good human being ,not God.
But it feels weird, sad, awkward and increasingly depressing when
we see the world and the surroundings we are living in. Where is all the love
and respect disappearing? Whenever I see a stranger old parents sleeping on
road side, some even company how they son’s wife beat them so they leave their
house, I love to know everyone’s life story. I have a book where I have written
everyone’s painful life, I wanna be a good listener & I always try to
understand everyone’s situation, I am not blind or fool, I take decision
according to time & situations. In my way I met many lonely strangers, even
we meet every day, but we do not care who they, why they are staying like this
are. even many people also there who even don’t respect
their our parents , it hurts me , how much I love my parents I love all parents
as they also someone’s parent . These are the people who brought us in this
world and it is horrifying to see the distress the parents of today are going
through.
From the day we are born, parents spend their lives trying to bring up,
nourish, teach and develop their children into the greatest human beings they
can possibly make them. They do whatever is in their hands to see that the
needs of their children are met. Parents make unconditional sacrifices and give
up their lives for us. When we are young, parents sacrifice their sleep and
rest. They are the first ones to wake up and the last ones to go to sleep. They
are focused only on one goal, to provide for their children. They go through
continuous hard work all day just to make sure that they have done everything
for their children, from giving us food and shelter, to teaching us how to
prepare for the world, to teaching us how to prepare for judgment day, to
teaching us how to be a good citizen and most importantly, how to be great
human beings. Parents do all this not to get any benefit from their children,
but only with the hope and belief that their children will become pious,
educated, and respectful to their parents, useful to their family, society,
country and a living example of success.
You see, we leave our beloved parents heartbroken every single day
of our lives. When we hurt our parents, we are actually hurting ourselves. Who
in the world is crazy enough to do harm to themselves? Taking into
consideration the love they have given us, have we ever for a moment thought
what they have been through to make us happy? Are we grateful for what they
have done for us? Have we shown them our gratitude? Unfortunately, instead of
loving them back, respecting them, being grateful and showing gratitude, we
have always been complaining, blaming and hurting them. By refusing to choose a
positive attitude and thinking that whatever they have done for us is to
restrict us in one way or the other is the biggest mistake of our lives. We
forget that parents are the ones who have taught us the meaning of life; they
have taught us how to live this life and lead a life of contentment. They are
the ones who have given us everything, from A to Z. Yet, we are ungrateful and
disrespectful towards them. We do not even pay heed to what they have to say
and take them for granted. Is this humanly possible? How can we be so cruel
& shrewd? It is our moral responsibility to take care of our parents.
We should make sure that we be good human beings as whatever we do in this
world reflects upon our parent's personalities and their upbringing. Listening
to and obeying your parents is the only way we can show our parents that we
really love them and care for them. It is a way to show them that their
precious time that they have spent in making us great human beings has not gone
in vain and they have been successful. This is all they want from us and we
should do everything in order to assure this to them.
Personally,
I am, saying about me , I love my parents too much as they have sacrificed a
lot for us , they also wanna be a spend money for themselves but they save that
for us & for our education , they give much more importance on education ,
even my mom & papa has a dream also , I know one day I believe me & my brother
will fulfill that , as they sacrificed their everything for us , for our
education & development , they never care for money when it comes to us ,
especially in education matter , now also they are sacrificing , that’s the
reason
THEY ARE MY HEART , I CAN’T EXPLAIN WHAT THEY HAVE SACRIFICED THEY SACRIFICED THEIR DREAM FOR US ,
THEY TAKE MUCH TENSION FOR US , THEY ARE ACTUALLY PRECIOUS , THAT’S
THE REASON I LOVE ALL PARENTS AS I BELIEVE HOW MY PARENTS TREAT ME THEIR PARENTS
TOO , EVEN I SEE MY SURROUNDING , BUT I SEE SOME PEOPLE
ALSO THERE WHO ARE V. DISOBLIGED PEOPLE , THEY DON’T
LOVE THEIR PARENTS , HOW MUCH THEIR PARENTS DO EVERY
TIME THEY CRITICIZE THEM , I ACTUALLY HATE THOSE KIND
OF PEOPLE , AS I AM NOT A DISOBLIGED PERSON EVEN I HATE THOSE
WHO DO THIS & NOW A DAYS MOST OF THE CHILDREN ARE DISOBLIGED .
DISOBEDIENT, UNFAITHFUL TO THEIR PARENTS. EVEN I HAVE SEEN HOW CHILDREN
ARE SCOLDING THEIR PARENTS WITH DIRTY WORDS, I JUST SAY THEM ONE
DAY YOUR CHILDREN WILL DO THE SAME , AT THAT TIME YOU WILL FEEL HOW IT HURTS
.WHEN YOUR ALL SACRIFICES & LOVE GO IN VAIN.
No
feeling in the world is as great as the one which we get when we act in
accordance to our parent's wishes and desires. One feels on top of the world
when a child's parents are happy. When your parents are happy and satisfied
with you, it doesn't matter what the world thinks, does or says. Parents are everything
that matters, you should feel proud having parents think about those who lose
their parents , it doesn’t matters what your parents do , whether they are
perfect or not still they are v. precious. We cannot even repay one minute of their
lost sleep that occurred as they were caring for us, let alone a life long
duration of continuous sacrifices that they have made for us.
Parents
are the Angels of our lives and we should make sure that we do our best to make
them happy, fulfill their desires and their wishes. Without respect for ones
parents, a human being's life is meaningless and whatever success he may have
achieved in life is of no value if the people who brought him in this world are
not happy. Parents are a gift of GOD who is to be cherished forever. There is
nothing we can do to repay them. The least we can do is to respect them, love
them and live our lives according to their wishes.
This is
my kind request to all – GIVE YOUR LOVE, TIME & CARE TO YOUR PARENTS,
THEY WANTS THAT MUCH ONLY. BELIEVE ME J
These two videos are close to my heart , specially 2nd one –
1) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mvDJyYdvmJM
I cried
when I watch this video for the first time
Heart touching video
about a perfect father
2)
“Parents
are may not be always perfect but their love always perfect for their children.
So love your parents & everyone who come across in your life.”