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“Peace of mind is not
the absence of conflict from life, but the ability to cope with it.” ~Unknown
Truth be told,
happiness is not the absence of problems, but the ability to deal with
them. Our nature also teach us a great lesson, after day - night comes,
likewise good time and bad time are like two sides of a coin. Nothing is
permanent in this world , therefore we shouldn’t lose hope , we should wait for
perfect time to come and work hard like before , if we will stop working or
stop concentrating in our work , we can’t reach at our goal even the right time
come , so always be prepare for good as well as bad too. Imagine all the wondrous things your mind
might embrace if it weren’t wrapped so tightly around your struggles.
Always look at what you have, instead of what you have lost. No doubt when
my time goes wrong I feel like I lost my everything due to my bad period but in
the next moment I further gain strength to work more . Because it’s not what the world takes away from you that counts;
it’s what you do with what you have left.
I give
much priority to openness and peace. From the beginning
of my life , I came onto the path of mindfulness, meditation .I always judge myself
before blaming others , I always put myself in the position of a needy person
so that I can understand that person’s situation and help that person. In my
life I rarely try to harm others knowingly, what my conscious mind says, yes! We
all live in competitive world , where our mentality is “we
can only rise by downing others” , so in this present world if we wanna
help others and try to rise in united way then we also have to pay a lot , may
be our different perspective to this competitive world create problems for us. So
do you believe we have to lose our inborn personality to rise or to survive? Do
you think so? I am talking about me, I don’t think so, we may face problems
still we are in right path then our time will give us golden opportunity to rise.
People can cheat you not your mother nature.
My life becomes more interesting
when I started my journey towards my real destination. Previously , I have only
one dream how to become doctor then marriage + social work through my
profession but when I didn’t get medical I become more determinant how I’ll get
success in my life and most important is how I can make my dreams true in this competitive
world where we give more priority to success than human value , where we put
much brain than heart. My tough time came just before 6-7
years, as I made a plan how to get success in this competitive world and
that is where my journey started. It hasn’t been an easy journey by any means,
but I’m nearing a decade on this path, and I don’t regret it for a moment. I’ve
been through a lot of challenges, such as going through brief spurts of depression.
I’ve felt like I wasn’t good enough , I am not worth enough , I don’t have
brain or talent and that life wouldn’t work out the way I wanted it to.
In every one of
these cases I let my thoughts run wild and it made me crazier. I started focusing on the negative instead of on the positive and I think
many people have the same tendency.
So there have been both ups and
downs, but in the end they have all been there for a reason. And with each “bad
period,” I’ve learned more and more about myself. I’ve learned more about what
works and what doesn’t, and they have all been blessings in disguise.
I have wanted to
give up many times, but when I remind my sacrifices I give up my thinking like GIVE UP MY DREAMS , I’m glad that now also I keep
trying to reach at my goal .
Past has gone but never forget
what it taught you , never forget your future what has not come yet , Truly
living in the present moment isn’t easy, but it is highly rewarding. The best
way to move forward on your own path to “here and now” is to understand the
potential obstacles and plan in advance how you’ll deal with them.
Here are a few reminders to help motivate you when
everything goes `wrong in your life:
Pain
is temporary
When God close one big bright door,
he opens many small doors to help you so that you can learn how to escape out
yourself from difficult situation, you can easily find out how to reach at your
success. life closes bright doors means it’s showing it’s time to move forward
with more patience , you have to work more may be your time has not yet come.
And that’s a good thing because we often won’t move unless circumstances force
us to, I learn what is LIFE ACTUALLY IS, WHEN I
STARTED MY REAL LIFE JOURNEY. When times are tough, remind
yourself that no pain comes without a purpose , those who get something through
pain they actually know the meaning of success, in this world many successful
people are there , but do you think all can make history , those who struggle
they can make history as they life journey become a big example before next
generation. Anyone can rise when your environment supports but it’s too
difficult to rise when your time goes wrong. Move on from what hurt you,
but never forget what it taught you. Just because you’re struggling
doesn’t mean you’re failing or you should give up. Every great success
requires some type of worthy struggle to get there. Good things take
time. Stay patient and stay positive. Everything is going to come
together; maybe not immediately, but eventually.
Remember that there are two kinds of pain: pain
that hurts you / make your life worst living and pain that changes you / make
your life best living. So it’s your choice how you gonna make your life
Nothing is permanent even your sorrow or success
Nothing is permanent in this world, neither our life nor our failure
or our success and money too. Every great successful people failed at least
once in their life time. So failure is temporary but if you keep it in your
heart and move forward then you can’t get anything. Every time you get hurt,
you heal. After darkness there is always light like day and night alternates
– you are reminded of this every morning, but still you often forget, and
instead choose to believe that the night will last forever. It
won’t. Nothing lasts forever. So if things are good right now, enjoy
it. It won’t last forever. If things are bad, don’t worry because
it won’t last forever either, one day sun will sign in your life and you will shine
brighter. Just because life isn’t easy at the moment, doesn’t mean you
can’t laugh. Just because something is bothering you, doesn’t mean you
can’t smile. If people have problem with your smile , let it be , enjoy
yourself , some people have problem with your smile , some with your success
but keep one thing in your mind no one truly
matters . Yes! If you are doing something wrong
then that’s matters, even people support you, you should not do that but
when you doing nothing wrong no need to worry for anything. Every moment gives
you a new beginning and a new ending. Life always
give you a second chance that’s called tomorrow, you get a second
chance, every second. You just have to take it and make the best of
it.
Complain and give up is not final solution
When we worry we waste our most valuable time. Those who complain
the most, accomplish the least, what I learnt from my life. It’s always
better to attempt to do something great and fail than to attempt to do nothing
and succeed. Sometimes people fear to attempt to take risk as they fear
it might be break them , but life is like hit and trial method , if you don’t
use it how you got to know which is best for you. It’s not over if you’ve lost;
it’s over when you do nothing but complain about it , when you complain means
you give value to it. If you believe in something, keep trying. Don’t let the shadows of the past darken the doorstep of
your future. Spending today complaining about yesterday won’t make
tomorrow any brighter but don’t forget what it taught you and never forget to
fight for injustices , but don’t spend much time in complaining. Complain in positive
way, complain for your rights but never complain what won’t give you anything, Take action instead. What you’ve learned improve
how you live. Make a change and never look back.
Be proud
of having wounds
“The wound is the place where the Light enters
you.”
Everyone has
past, some scars are like you neither can avoid not can forget like failure or
not achieving your dream or lose something very precious etc, it varies from
person to person. Don’t ever be ashamed of the scars life has left you
with. A scar means the hurt is over and the wound is closed, be happy that!
You are now free from that wound’s infections that can spoil your entire life. It
means you conquered the pain, learned a lesson, grew stronger, and moved forward.
A scar means you have tried to make your life better, it means you know the meaning
of life, happy as you know it as no one got to know about it, be proud of having
it. Don’t allow your scars to hold you for longer period. Don’t
allow them to make you live your life in fear. See your scars as a sign of
“YES! I TRIED IT, I TOOK RISK! I survived and I have my scars to
prove it! Be proud of having scars”
Never
take people and their behavior towards you too seriously
Be positive when negativity surrounds you is a great attitude , you should learn how to be strong when everything goes wrong, Smile when everyone try to bring you down and left you alone , keep trying when you feel like give up is best option. I lean one lesson from my past life when everything goes wrong and when you become failure personality even your own shadow left you alone family and friends are humans then how can you expect from them, as no one wants to face problem for you as we all are living for ourselves , so stay strong even you feel alone and never chose wrong path to get temporary happiness or success which can spoil your entire life. It’s an easy way to maintain your enthusiasm and focus. When other people treat you poorly, keep being you. Don’t ever let someone else’s bitterness change the person you are. You can’t take things too personally, even if it seems personal , keep one thing in your mind no one is truly yours , if you wants to know who is yours put yourself into problem and see who is coming to help you , I am saying about me now I am moving forward in a lonely path , no one is besides me as everyone fear to help me , may my bad life affect them , that’s why I just wanna expect myself out from everyone whom I love a lot so that they will be affected from my bad life , it just like contagious , it’s my bad life let me solve alone , they are right to leave me alone so that I can got to know how to live alone and understand the world in better way. Rarely do people do things because of you. They do things because of them and I never find anyone till now. I am serious.
People will laugh at you , make a jock on your name , try to down
you logically , Don’t ever change yourself
to impress someone who says you’re not good enough , may be they are trying to
change you in negative way , don’t be fooled by others. Change because it makes you a better person and leads you
to a brighter future. People are going to talk regardless of what
you do or how well you do it. So worry about yourself before you worry
about what others think. If you believe strongly in something, don’t be
afraid to fight for it. Great strength comes from overcoming what others
think is impossible.
Best thing will come when you learn how to keep moving
Learn from a kid how to stand up even after falling 100s of time; don’t
be afraid to get back up – to try again, to love again, to live again, and to
dream again. I also failed many time but no one can say I give up my dream
and stop trying, it’s like a continuous process for me, don’t let a hard lesson
harden your heart. Life’s best lessons are often learned at the worst
times and from the worst mistakes. When you feel like quitting, remember
that sometimes things have to go very wrong before they can be right. Sometimes
you have to go through the worst, to arrive at your best and this is the life.
When life is tough, make yourself tougher. Find the strength to laugh every day even you feel like cry. Find the courage to feel different even your heart filled with fear and doubts. Don’t stress over things you can’t change. Live simply. Love generously. Speak truthfully. Work diligently. And even if you fall short, keep going. Keep growing.
FINAL WORDS
You
can’t imagine when your adventure will start. Now I am saying about me, I am in
such situation neither I can give up nor I can move forward easily. Still I believe
this period is temporary, good period will come once in my life. I may be a failure personality but I never do anything
wrong with anyone, so my lord will never do wrong with me. He might be examine
me, whether I am fit my high dream or not, he is trying to make me that much
capable. Whenever I read the autobiography of famous people I learnt one lesson,
never give up, when time goes wrong even your shadow leaves you alone, stay strong
is best option in this situation. Even I learnt one great lesson from my parent’s
life especially from my papa. he gave up his dream , but now I may be in that give
up mode as I never get any support nor encouragement , people hate me , society
laughs at me , some are taking advantage of my wrong period by spoiling my name
still I am strong and have faith one day my time will come and one day I’ll also
rise. In this competitive world people can take any step to down you even it
doesn’t bother them whether that hurts me or not. If
someone study my character and personality background from my entire
educational career they can got to know how I am and how I behave with others
and my personality and character. But I learnt one lesson , it doesn’t matter
how is your personality and how is your character it took few second to others
to prove you wrong but it will take them life time to prove their words true as
anyone can down you taking wrong steps but no one can down you taking right
steps. So I am not worry what others are saying as I know myself , I know I care
my character and personality , this is the main reason why I stop talking with
my college friends as they attack on my weak points , I know world is
developing even people also chose wrong
path to make themselves famous . but no one really cares , when you become
famous but when you try to get success or when you are in learning mode that’s
the vital period for others either to down you or to help you to rise ,I really
don’t care how others behave me as I know my time is tough now but I don’t
consider myself failure personality as now also I am in learning mode , no one
can decide my future. Let others do what they want, as I know now also I have power
to prove all wrong through the truth but I don’t wanna invest my time in explanation
as it can waste my time. Better to concentrate on my goal point, I know why
people are doing – some knowing doing this to distract my mind from my actual goal.
I am talking about media and all, not to my people only.
I am not so rich that I can fight with all but I have patience that one day I‘ll
show them what I can , as I have faith on my mighty LORD, He will save me.