DON'T CRY OVER SAME REASON AGAIN AND AGAIN

Cry hard but don’t cry again for the same reason

Cry as hard as you want to, but when you stop, make sure you never cry for the same reason again. This is the reason when someone cry I never stop them, I always try to find out the reason behind their tear than instead of stop them to cry , I suggest them cry as hard as you can but never ever cry for the same reason again. You know ,  why? I force someone to tell the truth or reason behind their tear and suggest them to cry hard because I experienced , if you cry hard you will feel better from inside and If you keep your pain inside one day it’ll damage you totally even it has great power to change your personality too . when we keep our pain inside , at that time we don’t like to talk with anyone else even we don’t like to do anything so everything goes wrong at that time , but if you share your sorrow or problem with someone else you’ll feel relax , it doesn’t matter whether that person can help you or not but you feel relax from inside , Even whenever I ask my friends to share their problem I say “ I may not solve your problem but if you’ll share you will feel relax .” I never ever break someone’s trust,  but it happened opposite with me , many people break my trust – I still remember In engineering life , I told some of my friend about my all problems related to hostel life , friendship life and my secrete  crush etc. but I didn’t know they told everyone and I became spotlight , that’s why now my life is like open dairy as I shared everything in blogger ,at that time I felt it’s better to open than keep anything secret as everyone break my trust, but for this also I faced lots of problem that’s why now I stop writing about me , so be wise ! What you should write and what you should not as people can got know about your weakness through this. I have got a unique life, I am a great loser , failure personality and my secretes are like meaningless or can say no deep secrete, I have nothing to share with anyone.'

Don’t cry because it’s Over, Smile Because It Happened.”

Most important life lesson is - If we don’t learn from our mistakes, we are doomed to repeat them. It’s all about falling into the same pattern again and again and again. It’s said madness is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. It’s just so hard to recognize our patterns, mostly because we do not wish to see them. We humans tend to either wallow in subservience or love the concept of ‘martyrdom’ and to feel that we are so noble that we have put others’ feelings and routines and needs ahead of our own.

I Love this line “everything happens for a reason"

What I learned from my past life , seriously whenever I feel like lost and helpless suddenly something good happens which make me smile again , I don’t know how it happens but most of the time it happens with me , may be my lord loves me a lot J

This world is completely emotional control, this might be sound advice. But truth be told, I’m still trying to find out how to avoid this. It doesn’t matter how often I tell myself nobody has the power to make me feel a certain way, except me but always end up with my previous life formula. When something wrong happens with me , I tell myself to smile and force myself to do something different which can make me happy But sometimes, it’s okay to just feel like shit. It’s okay to allow yourself to cry, to feel sorrow for whatever person, place, and thing. You are the only person to set the boundaries of how to feel and when to feel. Do not let someone tell you when and how to let go. You are the one who must let go. You make the rules. Don’t forget that.

Eventually, one day your sun will shine again. You’ll start to pick yourself up, little by little. Do not listen when your friend says something crap. You will do what you need to do, just trust yourself.

So cry as much as you can if it is first time for you, I mean here is if you came across a situation which is not expected or anything bad which is really unexpected and because of that you cry. I learnt a lesson "Cry as much as you can but don't cry again for the same reason!”

Lastly I wanna share my experience – I passed through many bad situations in my past life but nothing can distract my mind from my actual goal , people call me I behave like arrogant and sometimes egoistic too like this many more but I know who I am and what I am . When people comment me for them it’s just a jock but when I say something it becomes like crime or can say I am an egoistic person, which I am not. Ha! I failed many times to get success or can say  to make my dream true , Now also in every step I fail to get success, so how can I behave like egoistic , what I have for which I’ll have ego , Neither I am beautiful nor too talented , But yes ! what I have I am happy with that , feel blessed as I have faith on my GOOD KARMA . This also true, I love myself a lot and you are no one to put me down. To keep my self-respect, I can do anything. But it doesn’t mean nothing hurt me and I am very strong , but I am very conscious and I use my mind more than my heart as in my past life if I failed just because of my STUPID HEART . What mistakes I did in my past I'll never ever try to repeat the same , if you can’t learn anything from your past then you are the most stupid person in this whole world . 

So through this article I am trying to say – Never cry over same reason , if you cry then you are not fit for survive . People usually cry over love matter again and again here I wanna say – don’t cry better change yourself how to solve the problem  J best way to stop crying is to start analyzing the situation and problem instead of taking anything by heart . Most of the time our heart cheat us but in the end it gives us best result, so follow your heart but little bit wise J