MY VOICE ON KILLING RUMORS

Rumors can sometimes be true, but sometimes be created to hurt someone. Whether rumors are untrue, or true they still can affect a person's life especially when they are started from co-workers, family member’s, and close friends.

My question is ‘WHY DO PEOPLE START RUMORS''  is it because they are lacking love in their life, They are miserable and want to see other's miserable  or maybe it's because they love to see the sadness, and hurt on a person's face. Here are the many different ways that rumors affect people. It can break a person's heart, it can lead a person to depression, lead to death, lead to hurt yourself, or someone close to you.

My real experience with rumors lead me to always be alone, unhappy, lots of anger, damaged, no trust for no one, lack of confidence, lost of love, uncomfortable, and powerless meaning had no control of my life because I let other's control it. This is why I say rumor's can either kill you, or change you. But before it kill you kill the rumor like silence is not always so golden, it is good to have some things you can be prepared to say: "I do not believe that is true." Such things can do a lot of harm." Look them in the eye, when you say that. Just clarify their doubts

I wanna share my life:-

I love to make friendship but most of the time it converted to love matters even if I don’t think so. Which really happened in my past life? That’s why most of the time I believe it’s better to stay away from BOYS Becoz I don’t like to mix up LOVE & Friendship. As I believe it’s totally different a boy & girl can be good friend ,I always seek for a true friendship. Because I have also elder brothers they always tell me a boy & girl always true friends than girl & girl. I believe foolish people fall in love, wish people do true love. It’s easy to say I love someone, but how can someone believe it .any answer! I always believe a person has many friends but love always should be ONE & THAT’S FINAL. My loneliness , no trust to any one , not because I lost my love or break up matters. NO WAY, IT IS FOR “I LOST MY VERY CLOSE FRIENDS <GIRLS> & EVEN IF SOME GOOD FRIENDS <GIRLS +BOYS > DUE TO FALSE RUMORS <as I always love to make friendship & I don’t wanna lose anyone, but when I see no one is trusted .my mentality also changed according to time & situation> & FOR MY EDUCATION & DREAM MATTERS ONLY” . it always because of the false rumors which hurt me badly as because I love my friends & I don’t wanna mix up FRIENDSHIP & LOVE , that’s why I feel it’s better to break my friendship & some times due to the false rumors i lost my good friends . RUMORS ALWAYS NOT RELATED TO LOVE MATTERS .now a days I can’t believe anyone as there is no worthy friendship I have got till now.  I became foolish because of my wrong choice of friendship. I really hate the rumor as it damage you totally.it spread by your haters, accepted by idiots .but when it totally false it damage your reputation & character. So sometimes I feel it’s better no friendship no tension & no rumors .but in this world no one can live without friendship .so one option left so it's better tell your truth to everyone & kill their doubts. Even if I never roaming with any boy , even if not spending time with any guy still people talk about it, I don’t know why? May be I always give my first priority to character.

I always believe LOVE happens once in your life that also ONE & FINAL, whom you can love till your last breath..so u will be wise enough before choose your True love.i always believe GOD has made someone for you ,so sit silently ONE DAY YOU MUST GET YOUR TRUELOVE ,IF YOU ARE PURE FROM YOUR HEART & MIND.It’s not like time pass, sorry I can’t support TIME PASS matters. Frankly speaking!

The biggest and most hurtful effect of rumor is the bad reputation of someone. Often, I have heard ! on Culture (oh yes, it is its own culture) words are powerful and whether rumors are true make no difference. Once the damage is done, the teen is stuck with this label which affects their social experiences for the remainder of their time there.

There are also some rumors spread like this

Sweaty: Why is n't slipa  at work today?

Manisha: Apparently, something came up and she couldn't come.

Sweaty: wonder what happened.

Manisha: I heard she has a  boyfriend.

Sweaty: Really?  When did that happen?

Manish: I don't know.  I'm only guessing.

Sweaty: A-ha

This is how rumors get started. Sometimes rumors die a quick death as the true facts emerge and people lose interest in perpetuating a myth or gossip. Other times the rumormongers are discredited before the rumors have a chance to travel down the grapevine. Unfortunately, some rumors do gain traction and become confused with actual fact until either a respected authority debunks them or the subject of those rumors can successfully acquit himself or herself in the court of public opinion.

HOW WE CAN STOP IT ???

1)

Silence always not gold or it always proves you are right. No doubt truth is always truth & nobody can hide it. But when everyone knows that you are right may be it will be so late. Or it may damage your life totally .so stand up & speak your truth everyone & stop their mouth. If you can’t do, then sorry u got to suffer. No one can help you. Prove everyone what’s true what’s not. People love to speak but if you will tell your truth then very few people mostly your haters will bark in future but not all.

2)

Explain why the rumor exists, and who is benefiting from it. Then, create a new truth. Rumor specialists call this "stealing thunder" and if it's done early enough, it can stop a rumor in its tracks. The ideal situation is to introduce a new, rumor-worthy piece of information; one that people will gossip over, but which you have a lot more control over.

3)

If you do work out who has started the rumor it is best to avoid a harsh confrontation with them. If they have based it on something you told them and blown it out of all proportion then you should avoid talking to them about private affairs in future but remain civil with them, as conflict with them will cause the rumor to spread further.