NEVER TAKE LIFE TOO SERIOUSLY

                            Now a days life become a busy schedule , all are too busy in their work & tension...when you are in a higher position at that time you have to take a lots of tension like your office work , when you are in a corporate office at that time you have to take tension for people...Sometimes these tensions make them more worry & become reason behind their damage health . but i believe every problem has a solution ,so never worry think about solution, WORRY CAN'T GIVE YOU ANYTHING , BUT YES ! SOLUTION CAN GIVE...many solutions are there for one problem , but be wise where everyone can benefited , DO YOUR WORK WISELY & COOLLY ...SEE THE RESULT EVERYTHING GONNA BE FINE VERY SOON ...

                           I believe if you take tension it will cause heart attack & many other serious diseases will attack you & very soon u will be old . that's why i always suggest everyone , take life seriously , take your work seriously , but still take sometime for your health & for a little smile...smile once in a day at least for your health , as it is the BEST MEDICINE. as many times we are too busy & worry about our work , we always forget that we have God gifted Body & we have to care for that also . It's not a machine , it our Life . it doesn't need anything , it need simple smile , mediation once in a day...if you are a too busy person still you need mediation because it helps you to stay away from all sorts of worries & helpful for your health & gives you great result in your work place. 

                              Even if i have also seen in my family my papa always take tension , as he is the head & he always worry for our education & future...of course as a head & as a great father he take a lot of tension...no only he but also my mom gives company with him...they both make their life just like hell for both of us < ME & FOR MY LITTLE BROTHER > ...but it really hurts me a lots... when ever i see them in tension & worry for us. as every parents wants their child will be at higher position , always higher position doesn't means you should earn  lots of money , sorry my parents don't want that, they always want to see me as a successful lady as well as self independent ... a successful doesn't mean earn so much money , it means earn lots of respect & love...what they actually want , they want to see me self independent as it badly require for a girl ...SO I BELIEVE ALL WOMEN SHOULD BE SELF INDEPENDENT ...

                              yeah , their tension is justified . but one day i couldn't tolerate this & i promised them "i can take my future decisions for myself that's why no need to worry for me, you should worry for money but no for our education , it's my life so i will tell what & how  i will get success. so never take any tension for me. even if i promise them i'll never follow any wrong path to get success. i'll get everything by my own effort , BECAUSE I ALWAYS  BELIEVE IF YOU ARE GETTING SOMETHING WITHOUT DOING SOMETHING  HARD OR WITHOUT GETTING PAIN & STRUGGLE ,THEN THAT ALWAYS HARMFUL FOR YOU . NEVER RUN AFTER SHORT TERM PLEASURE OR SUCCESS THINK ABOUT LONG TERM AS WELL AS PRESTIGIOUS ... 

              so i promised them "no for taking any tension for me , give me money for read , you should take tension for money not for my education.so never worry i'll tell you everything ,what ever i wanna do ...as you know what's better for me" ... so after telling this they feel little relax ... 

                  MY PARENTS ARE NOT ONLY MY BEST FRIEND BUT ALSO MY SECRET KEEPER ,I TELL THEM EVERYTHING AS THEY CAN TELL ME WHETHER I AM FOLLOWING RIGHT PATH OR NOT ...THEY ALWAYS BELIEVE ON ME & ME TOO ...THAT'S WHY I NEVER FEAR TO TELL ANYTHING...I LOVE TO SHARE EVERYTHING... IT DOESN'T MEAN HOW WORST THAT IS , THEY ALWAYS FORGIVE ME AS I ALWAYS TELL TRUTH BEFORE THEM & FOR EVERY WORK I NEED THEIR PERMISSION, THEY GLADLY  GIVE ME  PERMISSION WHERE THEY SEE ME HAPPY ... AS THEY LOVE ME MORE THAN ME...

               *SO NEVER HURT YOUR PARENTS BY YOUR WORDS , TALK EVERYTHING WITH YOUR SWEET VOICE , YOU NEVER KNOW YOU RUDE BEHAVIOR MAY HURT THEM MORE THAN YOU IMAGINE.~IT'S MY REQUEST TO ALL~*

                     so  here i wanna say we can't solve every problem but we can think about any idea or solution  , how to recover from that , we all are human being not God , so we can solve only some problem which we can . so we should always think about different possible ideas , sometimes people take me as competitor as i love to do different work .. 
                             
                        Actual reason is I DON'T KNOW MY FUTURE , THAT'S WHY I WANNA DO EVERYTHING SO THAT I'LL NOT BREAK IN ANY WORST SITUATION , I CAN EARN MONEY THROUGH MY TALENT IF NEEDED OR ANY WORST CASE ARISE... MY HOBBIES OR MY EXTRACURRICULAR ACTIVITIES MAY HELP ME TO EARN MONEY & SAVE MY LIFE FROM ANY WORST SITUATION , AS IT'S VERY DIFFICULT TASK FOR ME TO BEG JOB OR TO BEG MONEY ...THAT'S WHY I WANNA BE INDEPENDENT , NO DOUBT MY EDUCATION IS WITH ME STILL I NEED SOMETHING EXTRA FOR MY FUTURE...AS I WANNA DO SOMETHING GOOD BUT FOR THAT I HAVE TO BE LIKE THAT & I HAVE TO FOCUS ON EVERYTHING WHAT EVER I CAN DO ,I HAVE TO BE STRONG AS WELL AS  I HAVE TO MAKE MYSELF THAT MUCH ELIGIBLE , SO THAT NO BODY CAN COMMENTS ME OR CAN'T SAY ME "NO"... that's why i wanna do everything , still i save my some time for doing something for my personal pleasure like i love to do painting that's why i give sometimes there , no doubt writing & painting is my hobbies but it gives me great pleasure , that's why i give my sometime there... but it doesn't mean i never focus on my main goal ... so i believe do what you love , means be wise enough to choose your work ... which can make you happy as well as success... I KNOW I AM VERY STUPID THAT'S WHY MOST OF THE TIME I DO LOTS OF MISTAKES , FOR WHICH I LAUGHED BY OTHERS...BUT SERIOUSLY TELLING IT INDIRECTLY HELPS  ME A  LOT ...SO IT'S BETTER TO BE WIRED SOME TIMES... BUT BE WISE ENOUGH TO DO THIS WHEN YOU ARE IN A HIGHER POSITION ...WHEN YOU ARE IN HIGHER POSITION  BE WIRED BEFORE  YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS NOT IN OUTSIDE , IT MAY TAKE YOUR SEAT ...BE WISE :p

Here are five simple yet important lessons:

1)   Life has a sense of humor – the world has an astounding way of playing with us.  If you take things too seriously this can be very stressful, if you play along and laugh about it life becomes delightful.  So lighten up and enjoy the joke, rather than being the joke.

2)   People matter – there is great power in exploring our inner-self, yet even monks live in monasteries.  People bring energy, creativity, joy and learning to life.  Surround yourself with great people and revel in it.

3)   Stress is a killer – taking life too seriously is extremely stressful.  All the expectation and pressure feels like wearing a heavy backpack.  Stress drains our energy, dampens our enthusiasm and makes us sick.  Lightening up takes the stress away and helps us live life.

4)   Let it go – there are some things in life that are fundamental and worth fighting for.  There are many more things that are trivial and we should let go.  Letting go of some of this weight brings more joy to life.

5)   Enjoy the journey – it is vital to have some long term vision and goals to motivate us.  Yet we need a balance with enjoying life each and every day to experience true enjoyment.  Life is precious, so enjoy it every day.