WE ALL ARE BEAUTIFUL IN OUR WAY

People are like snowflakes we are all unique in our own way.

All human beings are born free and equal in dignity and rights. we are endowed with a conscience and  acts towards one another in a spirit of brotherhood.

To be born free means that all people have an equal right to freedom. But freedom does not mean that we can do anything we want, nor can freedom for some mean limiting the freedom of others. Though we are born free, we live in a community that functions because there is an understanding among its members; in other words, it has rules and requires responsibilities.

What is special about us is our humanity, our being human. As humans, we can think and articulate our  thoughts; we also have a sense of right and wrong, which is our conscience. We have power to conquer over the earth by the great love. We all are equal; we are equal by means of our thought & work.
Equal does not mean that we are all the same. Each of us is different in our own special way. But we also have the common qualities that make us all humans. So each of us should be treated with respect and dignity and treat others in the same way.

HOW HUMAN MIND WORKS

Our minds are constantly trying to make sense of our world, forming judgments and opinions about every situation, event, and interaction.  Those judgments and opinions will be affected by our central or core belief system.  It is as though we are looking at the world through colored lenses and everyone has their own personal prescription .

What you should think:-

How I think about myself

How I think about others

How I think about the world

What affect our life most:-

Past experiences

Childhood upbringing

Culture

Faith

Values

Current circumstances

Character traits, including genetic influences

We all are emotionally attached with each other irrespective of our nature & behavior.

I believe there are two types of people present in this society.

1)

Wise & good thinker

2)

Fool & bad thinker

Wise & good thinker

Wise Mind - is the balanced part of us that comprises our inner knowledge , where our emotional thinking mind .  

We should ask ourselves what 'wise mind' is???

Within us a whole earth is present , we meet many  new faces  every day ,Within any meeting of people we the individuals have marked our own belief system and there have different perspectives , see and think about things differently  and this will affect the way these individuals interact with each other.  We can learn to be more aware of how our own belief system affects us & it should not hurt others. Sometimes what we think it may be other don’t like as the way of perception is different, what we like maybe they don’t like. That’s why we can’t take anyone as wrong, as because all are beautiful in their way, sometimes some misunderstanding create a great problem. We don’t know the thinking of everyone individually, we only know how they talk & behave. But I believe everyone is beautiful & their thinking, if we think likes them. Something good is there in everyone’s heart we people should see their inner beauty. a beautiful person doesn’t mean he/she should looks good but it always means how he/she look everyone .how they take. It’s easy to make everyone beautiful, only one way left that is through love. If you love someone truly , he /she can give up their all bad habits in the shake of their loved one .so I believe it’s not too hard to change someone , but you should be wise enough the way of changing . I believe a wise person is who take all the things in positive way & find out the reason behind all sorts of vicious works & try to solve that’d wise person is who never get angry & solve the problem & tackle the situation wisely without harming or  hurting others . A wise person is who believe in unity & know how to conquer over the world by means of love. A wise person is who place himself/herself in every situation & takes decision accordingly & considers everyone as one.  Wise Mind is the balanced part of us that comprises their knowledge and intuition, where thinking mind and emotion mind come together, the part of us that just “knows”, that inner truth.

Seeing different perspectives will help to reduce distressing emotions, help us feel more confident, enable us to be more understanding  and improve communication and relationships.

A fool & bad thinker:-

Who do work without thinking anything…but I believe no one fool or bad everyone is beautiful in their thought. But if you are good enough you can take their words in positive sense or you can change their mind & their way of thinking. As no one is bad, everyone is good in their look & way of think. But it’s our duty to mix a little amount of honey in their thinking. We should not expect how we behave towards everyone they should behave like that, it’s not possible. But it possible when we try to understand them & try to convince them to change their way of thinking. I believe everything is possible. So I believe all are beautiful & all are good in their way, but it’s our mistake we take them in negative sense rather than try to understand them.

Wise people personality:-

I believe anyone can be wise, but you should posses certain qualities. Like wisdom, humility, unselfishness & work according to time. Wisdom is a personality possession that one gains over a lifetime of experience... Wisdom incorporates many other traits, but the requirement that it is recognized by people other than the ones possessing it set wisdom apart from other personality traits. Wisdom is a life's experience marked by unselfishness. Not all old people are wise, though many are, wisdom does n’t measure age it means the ways of thinking & power of solving the problem, the key to wisdom is the strength of the experience. A young person may have an extraordinary experience which teaches him or her powerful lesson. Lessons of this type often transform into wisdom.Experience is just one of the major ingredients of wisdom; humility is also a requirement. . The mark of true wisdom is also a sense of timing that is most beneficial to the inquirer .A wise person does not see the best within him/her, but what is best for the other person. The wise person knows when to step into a situation and when to let things run their courses. The wise person has the ability to understand not only a situation, but the people within that situation. The last mark of wisdom is unselfishness. Unselfishness requires nothing more than the constant thought of others' interests and well being over one's own. This mark of wisdom sets true wisdom apart from mere intelligence or learning. Anyone can have the right answer at the right time, but only those who possess true wisdom are ready to sacrifice themselves and their own interests to provide sound advice or information to others. This is the essential part of unselfishness as it marks wisdom.

I believe everyone is wise in their way, but we should find out the way of their thinking. We should understand them, then only we can solve any problem &  tackle any situation. When we try to understand others rather than blaming , we can find out a different wisdom within us. That comes from our inner heart & inner goodness. Most of the time war happens due to the indifferent mentality & aggressive to any situation. So change your thought & change the world …see the result … 
everywhere you find love & peace…
                                                       ...love everyone …