STRENGTH VS WEAKNESS

“Our strength grows out of our weaknesses.” - Ralph Waldo Emerson

I’ve learned in recent years from my every failure, however  those weaknesses can be turned into strengths with a very simple tool
: -the right mindset & never do the same mistake further.

It can be your great positive point, but you have to figuring out ways how your weakness affects your life & in which way, how you face problem due to this, you have to analyze all then only you can convert your weaknesses into strengths. If you develop the mindset that your weaknesses are n’t really weaknesses, you’ve just broken through your limitations and fears. There is no one in this world woo don’t fear anything, everyone has one weak point .but if a person can control over his/her weak point he/she  can win any race. Because your competitor always focus on your weak point, how to demoralize you through this. This is your big drawback you should always remember. If you think it’s your drawback it’s better to change yourselves because it can be a big obstacle in your future life.

           

I learned to focus on baby steps:-

Have you ever mark a baby , how they start their first walk , they fall many times still they never get irritate , even if they fall down they smile like nothing has happen ,then further they start to walk. Be like a kid, failure is necessary for every successful journey still smile each & every moment & say I can do it.

Instead of worrying about an entire journey, I should focus on one day at a time or one week at the most. And I celebrate my successes as though I completed the entire program.

                                      

Weaknesses Are Holding You Back:-

                                                        

Sometimes your weakness holds you back, Are they keeping you from starting something new, from pursuing a dream?

What do you think your weaknesses are?

Just take one example:-

 Like some of your past failure which always hurts you that’s why most of the time you can’t collect courage to fight again to gain success.

MOST COMMON WEAKNESS

Confusion:-

Like I am saying most of time I confuse , that’s why people love to confuse my mind but after facing problem I realize my mistakes. so this was my great mistake that’s why now I wanna  listen my mind & heart. Before blindly believe anyone first I wanna know the entire truth.

Over friendly:-

Friendship is necessary but over friendship with everyone is not because now the world is full of competition you never know the different mind of people. It can change anytime, so be friendly with everyone , help everyone whenever they need, care for everyone. But don’t take their every words granted. But choose one friend close to you whom you can believe & share your whole. Still don’t be so much blind.

Never say your weak point before anyone:-

Always remember never share your weakness , if you are saying than try to change all your weakness into strength so that no one can beat you. because your competitor always search your weak point to defeat you & now a days all are your competitor & our life is like a Race . Either you will win or lose & no one wanna be a LOOSER . so be CAREFUL.

Egoistic & most selfish:-

Most of the time people failure due to most egoistic & selfish characteristic. But "self respect is different from egoistic" according to my point of view . Ego is comes from the word I THE GREAT. I am not saying you should underestimate yourself, you should not. But don’t be so proud whatever you have because everything in this world is temporary. What you have now may be in future you have not all these thing.

Let’s take an example :-

you are a great business man but due to some loss you lose your company, now your fortunate turn into unfortunate. so never estimate on future. It can be anything. But if you are too wise how to take every step & how to behave. As behavior is most important for anything either in business or popularity.

Impatient:-

Some point of life you have to keep patience for the good time to come. But never stop your work; continue it till you get success. Because once you give up means you can’t reach at your goal

Divert your mind:-

Set your goal never divert your mind from your main goal. Mind set is most important. 

Never follow the crowd :- 

once you started to listen  others  means you never reach at your destination . no doubt all are not vicious minded people still their perception is different. the way they look is different. No one knows what you suffer or the presence condition. they can suggest you how to reach at the  destination .  but don't follow all .as it can create a big problem. as it may be mismatch according to your time , situation & destination. so listen others who give you good advice & respect their words. but choose the suitable thing which may benefit for you in future...but STAY AWAY FROM NEGATIVE MINDED PEOPLE, because they show you the path to hell. as in this world except few no one can see your success , always remember ! so never believe anyone blindly or tell your weakness when you are in emotion . as you don't know about your future , so why you give chance to others to give negative advice. 

Kill the rumor:-  

specially we give freedom to hurt us  to those people whom we love very much , but we should care our image like NEGATIVE IMAGE .WHICH CAN RUIN OUR FUTURE. so never allow others to spread any negative things about you. SPECIALLY ABOUT YOUR CHARACTER & PERSONALITY. as these two aspects are very important if you wanna a live a worthy life . people knowingly pull your leg & try to kill your image , so don't allow others to spread such kinds of suffs . AS IT CAN MAKE YOU OR BREAK YOU. So why  do you give chance to others to spread . give them strong replay by "PROOF & TRUTH". as many times rumor is the main reason behind your failure .

STRENGTH

Communication:-

One of my biggest strengths is my communication skills. Love to work very well with all kinds of people, and understand that everyone has different perspectives about  work tasks. so when you work with others you realize that everyone comes to the table with different priorities and objectives. You keep this in mind when you communicate tasks that need to be accomplished with positive reinforcement and awareness of what others are working on .but sometimes it become so difficult for you also to keep discipline in your work place or group work .as most of the time mentality doesn't match .

Good Learner:-

You are a quick learner and love to learn new things. "I have the ability to cope with failures and try to learn from my mistakes". "I am a quick learner. I have great problem-solving skills and am willing to learn new things to get the job done".

Punctual:-

be  punctual.

Flexible:-

My strength is my flexibility to handle change.

Attitude:-

Good attitude is very important ,as positive attitude always helps to & show you to way to the success. that's why i always give more importance to this.

Planning:-

One of my greatest strengths I've acquired during my education is good analytic and planning skills. This has always benefited me to set goals and try to achieve them. But at the same time, I'm driven by the thoughts of success.I am not saying i am a successful personality or i am  a brilliant  student or i have got what ever i want.i am just saying  it help me in my way.

Rest all :-

Determined. , prioritize. , Self-confidence, "You should believe in yourself.” Highly energetic , Having good interpersonal skills ,Honesty is the best policy

Turn Your Weaknesses into Strengths

I won’t be able to do an exhaustive list of weaknesses, but the main thing to learn is to have the mindset where your weaknesses can be.

All is turned into strengths. There might be exceptions, but I haven’t thought of one yet. Even if there are, it is extremely useful to always look at your weaknesses and see how you can use them to your advantage.

First step: examine your weaknesses.

Second step: figure out your strengths.

Third step: figure out how to move your weaknesses into the strengths column.

Here are just a few things i have told to you , i don't how much it works ,it purely based on my believes & some i know. still i also don't even follow all , but i am trying my best to work out … so if you wanna change your failure into success  "figure out all your problems & drawbacks & weakness  .flush out them from your mind & heart" .The more you practice this mindset, the better you’ll get at it.

< FRIENDS I AM NOT SAYING I AM  "SO TALENTED" OR "A CELEBRITY" OR I AM "A SUCCESSFUL PERSONALITY" ...THESE ARE MY VIEWS , SOME I LEARN FROM MY PAST. SOME I GAIN FROM BOOKS...SO IT MAY BE SUITABLE FOR YOU OR MAY NOT BE . IF YOU FIND ANY WRONG HERE , THEN PLEASE TELL ME...I NEED YOUR FEED BACK , AS I ALSO WANNA TO CHANGE MY NEGATIVE ATTITUDES>