WORK MORE WORRY LESS

Now a day’s most of the people are very ambitious , goal oriented even a dreamer but all can’t make their dream true due to some wrong steps which leads them a failure life, I don’t mean they posses bad qualities, of course not, it’s due to some negative thoughts & poor dealing with situations .I have seen all goal oriented or dreamer have great qualities, but sometimes their some weakness become the killer of their dream. Sometimes Instead of feeding our dreams, we shut them up with fear and dismissal.

It is not really surprising that we squash dreams on a regular basis. According to time we grew up with some people killing our dreams by demoralizing us or not supporting us. I have seen most of the time parents don’t support their children to help them what they want sometimes they force them to become what they want, but I think it’s wrong. But here I can say proudly that MY PARENTS ARE GREAT SUPPORTIVE, THAT’S WHY I CAN DREAM HIGH, THEY HAVE FAITH ON MY POTENTIAL. 

Sometimes people takes dreams in a simple way like I have seen even asked many people what they actually want then they answered me - To get good grades, go to a good school/ college, get a good job, wife/husband, house, kids, pets, 401K, More money ETC.! I don’t think it’s a dream, did it? Dream where you achieve something different.

More houses, more stuffs, more money, more travel, more, more doesn’t show any dream but most of the people want it & also it’s their dream. If you wanna do then do the same thing in different way , I am not saying no one want money but earn money in a different way , BE YOUR OWN BOSS believe in yourself that you can do something different from others .if people demoralize you ,  brainwashing (with the best intentions)  is the best thing you can do. Don’t let others to kill your dream. You have to be aware of where you are, where you want to be and why you’ve never taken the steps to get there.

So now I gonna tell you steps which can help you to reach your goal –

HOW TO WORRY LESS WORK MORE

1) Don’t lie where not needed; try to face the worst situations.

2) If you have dream means .Be sure you have enemy! How to deal with them is a big question. - Every single person has to face their enemies if they want to see their dreams come true.

In your surroundings many different kinds of enemies are there to spoil your dream. You can’t avoid anyone, but sometimes you have to deal with them & sometimes you have to use your brain to defeat them. Fool are those who believe in today’s world , I am saying about me there was a time I believe everyone for this I faced lots of problems  so now I believe few & doubts most of the people . I can’t believe anything easily, neither words nor any person because you don’t know who is making hole behind you , sometimes some wicked people wait for this chance , when you start believing them they beat you emotionally finally kill your dream. SO DON’T BELIEVE ANYONE IN THIS WORLD EASILY.

2) Push down your dream worrying about details. - Sometimes people becomes so much worry or fear about their dream before starting their work , But I believe fear is what those reasons come down to. We are too scared to jump into the deep. What if we drown? What if we can’t swim? Will somebody rescue me? Worse, will anyone even care? Like this most of the people think so much about our dream before they start working, their fear kill their dream.

3) Worry less work hard - The work is the hardest part. It is frustrating and painful and tiring and challenging. So, we should avoid it and make excuses.

To get to the top of the mountain, you have to climb. Step by step. Of course, there may be some chances to fall down while climbing, but if you give up then you can’t reach at the top in your life time. So don’t worry what will happen next work more how much you can.

Don’t fear to fail, it’s a part of your success; take every failure in a positive way. Try to learn something from that.

Always ask some questions to yourself

You’ve failed before, right?

You’re still alive, right?

You can still keep going, right?

Failure is not the end of your dreams. It’s a learning experience that can help you recalibrate your efforts. Falling down is part of the process, not the end of it.

 4) Don’t Fear of Being Alone - The pursuit of your dreams will be lonely at times, especially if you dream big .I gonna share my own life experience – I lost many of my good friends when I rise . Still I control my emotions & move forwards to achieve my dream. That’s why now I can control my emotions. As I have seen how people behave when you have high dream & you do your best to achieve it.   I became sleepless when everyone else is sleeping. Even most of the time people reject my idea & laugh at my dream. Still I never give up as I have faith on my dream & have a great will power to make it into reality. So you have to be willing to go it alone sometimes in order to reach a place where you can connect with even more people.

 

 

5) Be flexible - If you’re not already living your dream, then you’ll have to make some changes to make that happen. That’s not easy, otherwise everyone would do it. What you’re doing now feels easy and comfortable because you’ve probably been doing it all your life. But doing the same thing over and over, expecting different results . . . that’s just silly. 

6) Face the conflict. - In this world very less people who can see others success Not everyone. If you are expecting then you are a great fool. Not everyone wants you to accomplish your goals, so pursuing your dreams might cause conflict, even with friends and family. Don’t hold it against anyone. Just trust that people who really love you want you to be successful and happy. From there you can judge who actually love you, who is not? I have seen most of the people fear of what other people might say. Even I was also like that, but now I changed myself. So don’t worry what others tell about you, who loves you thy can’t show you wrong path or can’t say wrongs thing about you, I haven’t done any scientific research, but I bet this is one of the most common fears.  No matter what you do, people will criticize you. They’ll call you mean names. They’ll slander you. No matter what. So you might as well do exactly what you want to do. Don’t judge yourself from other words.This is for those who believe they don’t deserve to live their dreams. The truth is, you are enough, right now, just as you are, to live your best life. No matter what you did or didn’t do in the past, no matter what your current status is, you’re more than good enough. You’re a divine creation with a unique purpose. 

Through this article I wanna say control over your emotions & weakness, never allow others to beat you through this. Be your own BOSS of your heart & mind. Try to analyze each & every situations & take Wise steps accordingly. My all time favorite quote.

 SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST. 

If you wanna survive be wise