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Success is of 2 types :-
It either Dependency success or own effort success
According to me success is of 2 types
1) When someone helps you to get
success
2)
When you get success through your own effort
The major difference between Dependency
success & own effort success is when you get success through others at that
time you can’t feel the pain of
failure, sweat of labor. When you try to get success by own at that time you
have to hide your emotions & roar like lion, no one can understand your
emotions except your pillow, you have to fight with everyone to get success or
make your dream into reality, you have to listen many criticizing comments, you
have to face many drastic situations, you have to tolerate the pain of failure
& sometimes injustices too, still you set up your mind not to give up.
In Dependency success - you may get success
easily but you can’t taste the feeling of getting success after a long
struggle or failure, as in dependency success someone is behind you & push
you up. I read even seen “BEHIND EVERY SUCCESSFUL MAN A WOMAN IS
PRESENT & VICE VERSE”, but when it comes to a woman case few comes
to help her like either her parents
or in rare cases “brother or sister” or often her loved one (Her loved one help her especially
when a woman is lower in position than her loved one , still some men always
there who help their loved one without any hesitation , I have seen one of my
friends. but in most of the cases men can’t see their women success especially
when they see their women go beyond their expectation)
In Dependency success - If you are from
rich background then you don’t have to work more as you have already money to
spend, if you are belongs to such family which career you wanna choose in your
future at that time also u don’t need to worry as you have family support ,
either any of your family member will help you to reach at your destination.
That’s why those get success in early stage specially women it’s because of
their family background , even you can judge many cases – I have seen 95% women who get success early age either due
to their family background or their loved one. But when it comes to boys case
it’s vary I have seen many boys from ordinary family become milliner due to
their own effort , so when you are a woman you have to work hard if you are
belong to ordinary family or if you have no much supporter . that’s why a
actor/politician/writer / dancer /businessman’s daughter or son follow their
family footprints , as it become easy for them to start up new , so in their
case you can say it’s a dependency success. It’s too hard to fulfill your
unusual dream when you are a woman & struggle alone as few People come to
help u , many people encourage you but when it comes to help, few people
will come , my own life experience . It’s really too difficult to get
success when you fight alone to fulfill your dream , as society want a woman
should live at home & concentrate on family or do women kind of work, TRUE STORY. Don’t mind please,
this is the real fact, it’s difficult to rise when your dream is a different
Kind.
I
am saying about Me - I astonished whenever I say I have a dream many laugh
at me & doubt at me , as those who success easily they don’t know the
meaning of pain & those who never have a different dream they can’t
understand your pain .i am saying about me – I have no one who will help me ,
my parents understand my dream but they can’t do hard labor now for me , as
they already did many things even I don’t wanna give them tension more. Then
who left, who will understand me & my dream. I have seen whenever I beg
help I never get, but in case if anyone help me if that person see my
development that person left me AFTER SOME PERIOD OF TIME. I have many experience
in my past life. as I need little feedback for my work , I work hard but I need
little support & planning . so now I am purely alone , no one help me as no
one can see my success that’s the bitter true fact. That’s why it’s a difficult
task for me to achieve my dream. Till
now whatever I achieve due to my own effort – no one helped me even encourage
me for writing or painting or creative work , No one !!!
From my school life to college life I have
many haters as compare to others , as I M DIFFERENT &
UNIQUE IN MY THOUGHT , I AM STUBBORN , DETERMINANT , MY OWN LIFE PRINCIPLES
MATTERS A LOT FOR ME (MAY BE PEOPLE CALL IT OLD MINDED or crazy girl STILL
“HONESTY , TRUTHFUL , NOT FOLLOWING WRONG PATH , SIMPLICITY” WAS & IS MY
FIRST PRIORITY) WHICH I NEVER BREAK HOW MUCH PROBLEMS COMES IN MY LIFE , That’s the
reason I am unique , I GIVE MORE PRIORITY TO MY WORK , SOCIETY &
DREAM that’s why I have no time for those who has everything ,
I
DO MY WORK PRIORITY BASIS , I EVEN SACRIFICE MANY THING FOR MY DREAM FROM THE
BEGINNING & MY DREAM IS RELATE WITH MY SOCIETY , I have got
many pain as I try to utilize my all god gifted talent at a time , it’s not
easy but for this I have sacrificed my all pleasure from beginning , I am
fighting with world From my school life to fulfill my dream , unfortunately few
people know about it like my parents , that’s why sometimes i feel like i have
got a UNIQUE LIFE & CAN’T UNDERSTAND THE GOD’S PURPOSE.
Even when ever I begged for help people put
me in problem so I learn everything by own , till now my whole project works I
did by own where as my friends were doing in group (either 2 or 3 members)
& some also go for coaching classes , I did my whole projects alone by
taking help of internet & books . that’s it, not only this I always love to
do my all work alone as very few comes to help me . I have seen when I first
asked for company for my project I didn’t get anyone but after getting success
everyone wants to join with me. This is the world as everyone wants to take
advantage from you but no one wants to help you in your worst time. This is small example like this I suffered
many times even find out my own solutions , so I have less friends as I
understand the world , I love this proverb “friend in need a
friend in deed” , ha it’s invalid
for me as I never get such friend except in internet. So till now whatever
success I got all are my own as whenever I get any small success I lose one of
my friends like this now I have few friends. True , ask anyone .
I know the meaning of failure & don’t wanna
more , even I don’t want any help as I am capable , my education is my main
weapon , I can utilize this to stand in my own leg , show the world I am
capable of fulfill my dream . I AM HEAD STRONG , TILL NOW WHAT EVER I
DID OR GOT BECAUSE OF MY OWN EFFORT .As I know, when you beg help or depends on
others how people behave or react , even I also faced many problems in my early
life for this . when I begged help - people refused me even a simple help , so
I did it by myself , I depends on others to help me but people take the
advantage of it & put me in problem. Thanks god every case happened in my
college life, now I strong & have faith on myself I can win by own If I’ll
concentrate on my work & do my job perfectly. I rarely beg help as I know
in this world no one can see your success except few number is very less, if
someone helps that means he/she wants something from you or you are lower
to them. In this mean world no one can easily help you without their own
profit. So I always chose to do my all work alone, I rarely beg help. Even in
my educational matters also I rarely beg help to my friends , even I choose to
do my major project alone as I know what I have faced in my past . I am that
much head strong, as I know my education is with me & that act as my main
weapon. I am not saying I am too talented or brilliant student but I know how
to utilize my education & where. I know my purpose of life & I have
faith on my lord he will surely help me in my path.
Hope you all understand why I choose a
lonely path to get success, I feel it’s better for me. Even I know I will not
get any help from anywhere until & unless I’ll get success. I know the
world in a better way. I love to get
success united unfortunately I get no
one because whenever I beg help people take it as I am doing this for myself
only or I am mean girl even I didn’t get any success till now so they doubt on
my effort & talent. Even I have seen
when ever I try to make friendship with others to do my work done how people
spread news on my name , but I wanna say – A girl can’t have many boyfriends ,
when it comes to work matters or dream matters no GENDER MATTERS I wanna work united , but I have seen how
much problems I faced problem when I tried to beg help others in my past life,
many spoilers are there who knowingly spoiled my life , now I wanna work united
, even I know my work based on my professional basis , here I can’t do anything
alone , still I fear if further someone left me in middle of my dream .even
people criticize me like I am internet girl , means whatever I do I do through
internet & social media , but I am a computer science student & my
first priority is support my own professional work even I want there should be
vast internet user , which will help computer engineers too :P but everything
has a time I love to communicate with everyone even outsiders even I love to
know different cultures & life style. I love this & internet is the
easiest way to know , now I can’t travel So now my motto is to make myself in
such a way I can travel anywhere with some purpose .
I BELIEVE TIME HAS ALL ANSWER BUT WE HAVE
TO WORK HARD. MY HEART SAYS TO MEET EVERYONE WHOM I MEET EVERYDAY THROUGH
INTERNET BUT I CAN’T DO ANYTHING RIGHT NOW. I NEED TIME & TIME HAS ALL
ANSWER , I WANNA MAKE MYSELF THAT MUCH CAPABLE WHERE EVER I’LL GO I CAN DO
SOMETHING GREAT FOR THAT PLACE OR I’LL NEVER FEEL INFERIORITY COMPLEX FOR
ANYTHING. THAT’S MY MOTTO, WHY I PENDING MY WORKS & TRAVELLING WORK OR CAN
SAY WHY I WORK HARD , I KNOW MY PURPOSE OF LIVING & I AM MOVING FORWARD
ACCORDING TO THAT EVEN I WORK AS PER MY DREAM.
Finally I have decided to choose a unique
path which helps me to reach at my dream & my path is always right. No
matter how much problem comes I can’t follow wrong path to get success. That’s
beyond my principle. Neither I
need others monetary or power help, I wanna do everything by own but I want
little help that’s support me & my work, that also mutual understanding. I
don’t wanna do anything in free, both will rise & both will be benefited.
That’s my working policy J if u help to rise, I also help you the
way help me. No matter how much I can, I’ll do .
I may got 1000s of failure still I never fear others
as i have faith on my own effort & my God , People who fear it means
either they are not that much eligible Or they lack self esteem Or they
are not that much worthy enough.
FAITH
ON YOURSELF THAT YOU CAN GET SUCCESS BY YOUR OWN ,AT THAT TIME YOU WILL FEEL
PEACE & YOU WILL BECOME BRAVE.
It either Dependency success or own effort success
Even you can get success either through
right path or wrong path. Choice is yours.
According to me success is of 2 types
1) When someone helps you to get
success
2)
When you get success through your own effort
The major difference between Dependency
success & own effort success is when you get success through others at that
time you can’t feel the pain of
failure, sweat of labor. When you try to get success by own at that time you
have to hide your emotions & roar like lion, no one can understand your
emotions except your pillow, you have to fight with everyone to get success or
make your dream into reality, you have to listen many criticizing comments, you
have to face many drastic situations, you have to tolerate the pain of failure
& sometimes injustices too, still you set up your mind not to give up.
In Dependency success - you may get success
easily but you can’t taste the feeling of getting success after a long
struggle or failure, as in dependency success someone is behind you & push
you up. I read even seen “BEHIND EVERY SUCCESSFUL MAN A WOMAN IS
PRESENT & VICE VERSE”, but when it comes to a woman case few comes
to help her like either her parents
or in rare cases “brother or sister” or often her loved one (Her loved one help her especially
when a woman is lower in position than her loved one , still some men always
there who help their loved one without any hesitation , I have seen one of my
friends. but in most of the cases men can’t see their women success especially
when they see their women go beyond their expectation)
In Dependency success - If you are from
rich background then you don’t have to work more as you have already money to
spend, if you are belongs to such family which career you wanna choose in your
future at that time also u don’t need to worry as you have family support ,
either any of your family member will help you to reach at your destination.
That’s why those get success in early stage specially women it’s because of
their family background , even you can judge many cases – I have seen 95% women who get success early age either due
to their family background or their loved one. But when it comes to boys case
it’s vary I have seen many boys from ordinary family become milliner due to
their own effort , so when you are a woman you have to work hard if you are
belong to ordinary family or if you have no much supporter . that’s why a
actor/politician/writer / dancer /businessman’s daughter or son follow their
family footprints , as it become easy for them to start up new , so in their
case you can say it’s a dependency success. It’s too hard to fulfill your
unusual dream when you are a woman & struggle alone as few People come to
help u , many people encourage you but when it comes to help, few people
will come , my own life experience . It’s really too difficult to get
success when you fight alone to fulfill your dream , as society want a woman
should live at home & concentrate on family or do women kind of work, TRUE STORY. Don’t mind please,
this is the real fact, it’s difficult to rise when your dream is a different
Kind.
I am saying about Me - I astonished whenever I say I have a dream many laugh at me & doubt at me , as those who success easily they don’t know the meaning of pain & those who never have a different dream they can’t understand your pain .i am saying about me – I have no one who will help me , my parents understand my dream but they can’t do hard labor now for me , as they already did many things even I don’t wanna give them tension more. Then who left, who will understand me & my dream. I have seen whenever I beg help I never get, but in case if anyone help me if that person see my development that person left me AFTER SOME PERIOD OF TIME. I have many experience in my past life. as I need little feedback for my work , I work hard but I need little support & planning . so now I am purely alone , no one help me as no one can see my success that’s the bitter true fact. That’s why it’s a difficult task for me to achieve my dream. Till now whatever I achieve due to my own effort – no one helped me even encourage me for writing or painting or creative work , No one !!!
From my school life to college life I have
many haters as compare to others , as I M DIFFERENT &
UNIQUE IN MY THOUGHT , I AM STUBBORN , DETERMINANT , MY OWN LIFE PRINCIPLES
MATTERS A LOT FOR ME (MAY BE PEOPLE CALL IT OLD MINDED or crazy girl STILL
“HONESTY , TRUTHFUL , NOT FOLLOWING WRONG PATH , SIMPLICITY” WAS & IS MY
FIRST PRIORITY) WHICH I NEVER BREAK HOW MUCH PROBLEMS COMES IN MY LIFE , That’s the
reason I am unique , I GIVE MORE PRIORITY TO MY WORK , SOCIETY &
DREAM that’s why I have no time for those who has everything ,
I
DO MY WORK PRIORITY BASIS , I EVEN SACRIFICE MANY THING FOR MY DREAM FROM THE
BEGINNING & MY DREAM IS RELATE WITH MY SOCIETY , I have got
many pain as I try to utilize my all god gifted talent at a time , it’s not
easy but for this I have sacrificed my all pleasure from beginning , I am
fighting with world From my school life to fulfill my dream , unfortunately few
people know about it like my parents , that’s why sometimes i feel like i have
got a UNIQUE LIFE & CAN’T UNDERSTAND THE GOD’S PURPOSE.
Even when ever I begged for help people put
me in problem so I learn everything by own , till now my whole project works I
did by own where as my friends were doing in group (either 2 or 3 members)
& some also go for coaching classes , I did my whole projects alone by
taking help of internet & books . that’s it, not only this I always love to
do my all work alone as very few comes to help me . I have seen when I first
asked for company for my project I didn’t get anyone but after getting success
everyone wants to join with me. This is the world as everyone wants to take
advantage from you but no one wants to help you in your worst time. This is small example like this I suffered
many times even find out my own solutions , so I have less friends as I
understand the world , I love this proverb “friend in need a
friend in deed” , ha it’s invalid
for me as I never get such friend except in internet. So till now whatever
success I got all are my own as whenever I get any small success I lose one of
my friends like this now I have few friends. True , ask anyone .
I know the meaning of failure & don’t wanna
more , even I don’t want any help as I am capable , my education is my main
weapon , I can utilize this to stand in my own leg , show the world I am
capable of fulfill my dream . I AM HEAD STRONG , TILL NOW WHAT EVER I
DID OR GOT BECAUSE OF MY OWN EFFORT .As I know, when you beg help or depends on
others how people behave or react , even I also faced many problems in my early
life for this . when I begged help - people refused me even a simple help , so
I did it by myself , I depends on others to help me but people take the
advantage of it & put me in problem. Thanks god every case happened in my
college life, now I strong & have faith on myself I can win by own If I’ll
concentrate on my work & do my job perfectly. I rarely beg help as I know
in this world no one can see your success except few number is very less, if
someone helps that means he/she wants something from you or you are lower
to them. In this mean world no one can easily help you without their own
profit. So I always chose to do my all work alone, I rarely beg help. Even in
my educational matters also I rarely beg help to my friends , even I choose to
do my major project alone as I know what I have faced in my past . I am that
much head strong, as I know my education is with me & that act as my main
weapon. I am not saying I am too talented or brilliant student but I know how
to utilize my education & where. I know my purpose of life & I have
faith on my lord he will surely help me in my path.
Hope you all understand why I choose a
lonely path to get success, I feel it’s better for me. Even I know I will not
get any help from anywhere until & unless I’ll get success. I know the
world in a better way. I love to get
success united unfortunately I get no
one because whenever I beg help people take it as I am doing this for myself
only or I am mean girl even I didn’t get any success till now so they doubt on
my effort & talent. Even I have seen
when ever I try to make friendship with others to do my work done how people
spread news on my name , but I wanna say – A girl can’t have many boyfriends ,
when it comes to work matters or dream matters no GENDER MATTERS I wanna work united , but I have seen how
much problems I faced problem when I tried to beg help others in my past life,
many spoilers are there who knowingly spoiled my life , now I wanna work united
, even I know my work based on my professional basis , here I can’t do anything
alone , still I fear if further someone left me in middle of my dream .even
people criticize me like I am internet girl , means whatever I do I do through
internet & social media , but I am a computer science student & my
first priority is support my own professional work even I want there should be
vast internet user , which will help computer engineers too :P but everything
has a time I love to communicate with everyone even outsiders even I love to
know different cultures & life style. I love this & internet is the
easiest way to know , now I can’t travel So now my motto is to make myself in
such a way I can travel anywhere with some purpose .
I BELIEVE TIME HAS ALL ANSWER BUT WE HAVE
TO WORK HARD. MY HEART SAYS TO MEET EVERYONE WHOM I MEET EVERYDAY THROUGH
INTERNET BUT I CAN’T DO ANYTHING RIGHT NOW. I NEED TIME & TIME HAS ALL
ANSWER , I WANNA MAKE MYSELF THAT MUCH CAPABLE WHERE EVER I’LL GO I CAN DO
SOMETHING GREAT FOR THAT PLACE OR I’LL NEVER FEEL INFERIORITY COMPLEX FOR
ANYTHING. THAT’S MY MOTTO, WHY I PENDING MY WORKS & TRAVELLING WORK OR CAN
SAY WHY I WORK HARD , I KNOW MY PURPOSE OF LIVING & I AM MOVING FORWARD
ACCORDING TO THAT EVEN I WORK AS PER MY DREAM.
Finally I have decided to choose a unique
path which helps me to reach at my dream & my path is always right. No
matter how much problem comes I can’t follow wrong path to get success. That’s
beyond my principle. Neither I
need others monetary or power help, I wanna do everything by own but I want
little help that’s support me & my work, that also mutual understanding. I
don’t wanna do anything in free, both will rise & both will be benefited.
That’s my working policy J if u help to rise, I also help you the
way help me. No matter how much I can, I’ll do .
I may got 1000s of failure still I never fear others
as i have faith on my own effort & my God , People who fear it means
either they are not that much eligible Or they lack self esteem Or they
are not that much worthy enough.
FAITH ON YOURSELF THAT YOU CAN GET SUCCESS BY YOUR OWN ,AT THAT TIME YOU WILL FEEL PEACE & YOU WILL BECOME BRAVE.
