DREAM VS LOVE

DREAM VS LOVE

Dream & Love both play important role in our life, without dream or without love our life is like meaningless. we all want both but sometimes some worst situations comes in our life at that time we can’t decide what should be our first priority , what should be second OR what should I give up & what I should not. It’s a really difficult task when it comes to Give up matter neither we can give up our dream nor our love, without these our life is like FISH WITHOUT WATER.

People & their Priority ON DREAM

I have seen many people who gives first priority to Love , I think they are right as without love our life is like meaningless & we all need that badly But how can you think about give up your dream , It’s our identity , can you lose your identity for your love . But I have seen some lose their identity to maintain their love or keep their love. But for me, I can give up my Love for my dream, as from my childhood days till now I sacrificed a lot for my dream, when it comes to achieve how can I think about Give up, It’s a quit difficult task or impossible task to quit my dream, “Medical was my one path to way to my dream, that was shortcut & easy path to reach at my destination. Medical was not my dream, now also I can achieve my dream through engineering career. Dream is one but paths are many, some easy & shortcut, some are lengthy & full of throne. So it varies according to your dream.” So I know what I have sacrificed, maybe it’s little for those who never done this or faced this. I have sacrificed my childhood play time with my friends, missed many ceremonies occurs in my family , isolate myself from everyone & focus on my dream only . I always try to invest my time properly, That’s the reason I can’t give much time to my friends & family that’s why my friends don’t love me .  So after doing a lots of sacrifices how can I think about give up, it’s my identity, how can I lose it for other.

My Dream was & is my first priority – “My purpose of living is to help mankind, do something different & make my own name in society for any good cause, I wanna utilize my life properly”. I don’t wanna give up my dream for love as I don’t know whom I love/gonna love whether that person love me for whole life or not , U can’t give guaranty on anyone but you can try your best to trust them. So at the last moment if someone cheats you for whom you sacrificed your dream & life at that time only one option will remain in your life that’s “QUIT YOUR LIFE”, seriously telling. So I feel it’s better to stick with your dream first if you have sacrificed a lot & struggle a lot to achieve that. You should not give up it for others as you don’t know your future. You can give guaranty on your WORK that if you labor hard one day you will get golden result but you can’t give guaranty if you love someone blindly you will get the same back. It’s quite difficult to believe anyone in present world. So for me My first priority is MY DREAM .

Love  

Love is my Second priority in my life.

Recently I saw many people are commenting me like I am showing as brahmachari (SAGE) for my recent article “BEING SINGLE TILL YOU GET A BEST ONE http://poemstoryshayari.blogspot.in/2014/04/being-single-can-make-your-life-best.html  ”. I wanna say to all please read my article fully & understand what I wanna say. I never write anything directly, I always write indirectly, so please understand the hidden meaning inside it. please understand what I wanna say , TAKE IT POSITIVELY, I KNOW WHAT I HAVE WRITTEN & WANTS TO SAY , IF YOU TAKE IT IN ANOTHER SENSE THEN WHAT I CAN DO . In my article, I am not saying I am sage or act like that, I have shared my own life experienced “how people play with other emotions & spoil others life in the shake of Love”, seriously now a day’s love is like business or way to spoil someone. That’s why I wanna teach you all, be smart & wise to choose a right one & see face within a face , Don’t be FOOL in love , It’s your life & now a days this kind of cases are common , I am not the only person who fooled many people are also like me & many examples are there , I have seen how Love can spoil someone’s life even take someone’s life . It’s easy to fall in love but it’s quit hard to maintain, Love is not about saying “I love you” to someone, these 5 letters have great meaning & very powerful, it take whole life to understand & maintain. Love is about TRUST, MUTUAL UNDERSTNDING, and COOPERATION. No doubt Now love definition is changed, It’s about Sex, business, spoil someone, Love is easy but to maintain is really hard.

“IT’S NOT LOVE IF IT’S NOT FOREVER”, I love this line even there is a book on this name. I agree with this statement 100%, you don’t fall in love with someone for time pass or get the thing done or to fulfill your dream, it’s the connection between two hearts.

So in my recent article “BEING SINGLE CAN MAKE YOUR LIFE BEST LIFE OR WORST LIFE, CHOICE IS YOURS” I wanna say It’s better to stay single than choose a wrong one who can spoil your life , many good people are there in this world but it doesn’t mean we can love everyone or every good guy is fit for you. Many good people really exist in this world but all are not cooperative, everyone’s mentality are not same. So here wrong means – WRONG CHOICE – a good guy also a wrong choice if he is not fit for you, if he / she really don’t match with your mentality. So choose someone like you, who fit with your mind, all are not fit, you have to be wise, because after marriage you can’t further marry another one for your wrong choice. Marriage only happens once & that’s for life time. So choose someone WHO FIT FOR YOU, WHO UNDERSTAND YOU, SUPPORT YOUR DREAM EVEN COOPERATE TO FULFILL YOUR DREAM ALONG HIS DREAM, WHOM YOU CAN SHOW YOUR FAMILY. (I don’t care religion in dream matter , no doubt I am a higher cast still I don’t care when it comes to my dream & my life matter, I don’t care who he is where he belongs to, if he is good for me I fell he is fit for me.)

So when you get someone who co-operate your dream & help you to improve, I feel you are the luckiest one in this world. As it’s not easy to get someone like this. I have seen many well educated good Indian guys are there who want their wives should stay at home, after marriage most of the women stop working specially Official or Business or social work. What I actually hate, I hate such kind of conservative mentality. I hate this rules & regulations are which are made for women & my dream matters a lot so I feel it’s better for me to stay single if I don’t get someone who is like me than choose someone who don’t fit for me .  I can’t spoil my life even another person’s life. AS MY DREAM MEANS A LOT.  

So I don’t think I have written anything wrong or told something wrong , I have told the fact . My Dream Stick with my life even I want I can’t detach from it, I will live with it & die with it. So how can I give up it. In my future if I don’t get anyone I’ll prefer to stay single than spoil my life & another person’s life. I don’t like to play with others emotions or life, I can’t be Fake , It’s beyond my principle. I AM VERY STRAIGHT FORWARD & MY PRINCIPLES ARE DIFFERENT , I MAY FACE PROBLEMS FOR MY PRINCIPLE BUT I CAN’T GIVE UP BECAUSE I KNOW IT’S WORTH.

So I am not saying I wanna be SINGLE throughout my life but I can’t Give up My Dream.

My first Priority is My dream & Second is My Love .

I want Everything in my life , I also want a happy life But my life is  different kind of life , full of struggling from beginning, so I always prepare MYSELF for the worst .

I ALWAYS TRY TO MOVE FORWARD NO MATTER WHAT THE SITUATIONS ARISE IN MY LIFE.

PS :- DON'T TAKE IT PERSONALLY , APOLOGIZE FOR MY SILLY MISTAKES ! 

Due to shortage of time i can't get time for edit . After write any article i post that immediately without edit when i get time i read my article fully & edit that , so please Ignore the Silly Mistakes , understand me & my situation . Take my article positively not personally . I always love to write any article with example so i pick my life story , i don't prefer to write others life even i don't like to interfere in others life . I HATE THIS ! 

SPECIAL REQUEST TO ALL ~ THANKS FOR READING  :)