CHOOSE YOUR CAREER & LOVE LIFE WISELY

CHOOSE YOUR CAREER & LOVE LIFE WISELY

While it’s never really easy to choose, don’t you think so?

Want to love what you do?

1.Pick something interesting.

Pick what fascinating you , which makes you happy while working . No work is small , if you are strong in that you should chose that career. As it can give you tremendous success in future.

2. Pick something financially viable

Choose your career where you can earn money then utilize it in your future dream. Like I am saying about me – I wanna do many thing but before that I have to be financial stable , I am very independent girl , I don’t like to beg money from my parents or relatives for my fulfillment of my dream , can I give guaranty I’ll success then why should I take money from them . So I wanna be financially stable,  but before that I’ll be making myself that much eligible. I have seen many people show their power utilizing their parents money but I am different, I love to make my unique name by own which will give me self satisfaction in future .But I wants to give a big thanks to my parents as they try even tried their best to give me best education, they want I should be mentally & finically stable.

3.Choose your career wisely.

Most of the time our wrong decision in career issue make our life worst living . so choose wisely , once your time flew away you can’t get the time to repairer your broken career. I am saying as I did many stupid work, in past I was very short temper girl so no one suggest me anything in career matter except my papa, I love to take my own decision specially in career matter even I always took decision immediately without thinking about my future , my main drawbacks , that’s the reasons now I am suffering - I remember - when I started writing NOVEL in my engineering 2^nd year time , my papa told me one thing choose your career wisely , you can write till your death but once you miss this career you can’t . no doubt many writers are there in present world , I know -you can place  your name among them if you work hard but can you make name like some writer like – Chetan bhagat , Rabindra tagroo etc Indian authors even foreign authors  like  Dale Carnegie etc many more are there  -  . Check out their educational background, so do whatever you want but in perfect time. So I give up my writing till I become a person I always wish for. So choose wisely what you can do, make your career priority basis. Some career like writing / painting / business you can start in any age even can do till your last but everything you can’t start at any age like your career. So choose wisely. Anyone can be educated but everyone can’t utilize their education in proper way , so concentrate on present & try to gain knowledge , your institution should be your first priority as in future if you want you can earn money utilizing that.

So through this I wanna say Chose wise decisions, chose career priority basis.

PS :- I know I am not a too talented writer but I can write a novel , so i have decided to write a novel then one of my relative who also write books , he is a senior English professor , he can edit my novel . 

4.Make the right choice in Love & career matter

It isn’t easy to meet the right partner and find your soul mate, so if you genuinely think you’ve met the one, who can warm the cockles of your heart for the rest of your life, then decline the career opportunity.

But if you’re not very happy in your relationship and think you deserve something better, go full speed ahead and choose your career. If you’re not happy with your relationship today, what are the odds that you’ll feel better after giving up on your career? And you’d definitely feel worse about giving up on your career on those tough relationship days.

But whatever you decision may be, stick with it and never look back. Life is a box of mysteries and no matter what you decide to stick with, love or career, coincidences and circumstances have its own way of playing your life out

Finally work hard. Improve your skills, whether at managing, selling, creating, implementing--whatever skills your business requires. Use the satisfaction and fulfillment of small victories as motivation to keep working hard.

Now my question is - Love or career?

How both effects us , how their existence make our worth living or worst living.

LOVE - True love is hard to find

Love is special, and that’s what makes it so rare. While falling in love may be easy, staying in love needs two soul mates that understand each other and are selfless in love. Do you have that relationship that makes you feel lucky at the end of the day? If yes, don’t leave them; balance your love life with professional life.

True love can withstand all odds & always give you strength .If both of you truly love each other, you don’t have to worry about separating for a few years or having to spend less time with each other. Instead of worrying about love or career, think of ways to make it work better. So chose a person who can understand your career & support you in your work that matters a lot.

CAREER – A better career can give you a better life

A good career can make for a better life. You can have your perfect partner but if you’re suffering in a bad career, will you ever be happy in your “miserable” life?

You’ll always be ambitious. Will you ever settle down and be happy with what you have? All of us want more; we all want better career & life. And sometimes, we decide to give up on a perfectly good relationship and pursue something that will never really satisfy us.

When it comes to deciding between love and career, we’ll help you understand what really matters to you and how you should deal with it. After all, every relationship is unique and all of us have our own requirements and paths to achieve happiness.

Why you choose to balance love & career

If you decide to stick with love and give up on getting a better career prospect.

1. Would you ever forgive yourself for letting go of a career opportunity? Most lovers who choose love over career end up remorseful and regret their decision the very next time they have a fight or argument with their lover.

2. Can you find a partner as loving as caring? Is your career move a once in a lifetime opportunity? You may end your relationship and move on, but you have to remember this, finding the love of your life is a miracle that few people ever experience. Have you found the one?

3. True love can give you more happiness than money ever can. And at the end of the day, you want to earn more money to create happy memories and spend more time with the one you love. But if making money means having to give up on love, what are you fighting for anyways? All of us need someone in our lives to share the happy moments and those sad times when we need a hand and a hug. Love can make your life so much more fulfilling and worthwhile.  Today, you may assume you don’t need anyone to share your life with. You may love yourself too much to care about anyone else. But as the years pass by, you’ll soon see that self-love, career promotions and money will have no value, when you have no one to share it with. Love completes you when you share it with someone selflessly, and gives more meaning to your life. You can earn all the money in the world, but it’ll never really give you the happiness that a happy smile or a warm hug from your lover can give you. If you have a tough choice to make, always close love when it comes to choosing between love and career. Better a romantic with lasting memories and happy times than a workaholic with no life and all money.

Why balanced life should be our first priority

If you can find a work life balance that allows you to experience the joys of love and maintain a successful career, you will have a truly happy and rewarding life. A loving family at home can help you celebrate all of your successes, and bolster your confidence through your failures. There are many people out there reaping the tremendous rewards that come with including love and work in their lives, and finding the balance that allows for both.

A life that only has room for a career, or that includes a consuming love that stifles your personal development, is likely not a lifestyle that is healthy or fulfilling. Our personal needs and feelings of self worth need to be met, which is normally gained from having a good career. Our hearts and souls need to be nourished, and we need companionship to support us through life, which normally are derived from loving relationships.

The truly healthy and well balanced person will recognize the benefits of having both. He or she will take steps to achieve the work life balance necessary to assure the continuation of career growth while nurturing and maintaining the health of personal relationships. It is only when we can maintain this delicate balance that we are living life to its greatest potential.

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