DREAM , DOES IT REALLY MATTERS ?

What is dream?

Is it important for u then how much?

If someone asks this question to you then what answer you will give?

My view on Dream -

Dream is what comes from your soul. Your heart & mind both agree with your decision. It’s a kind of deep bonding with you & your Dream. A dreamer is the only person who can feels, how much it important for him/her. It doesn’t matter how small it is or how large it is, every single success way to achieve his/her dream is kind of blessings or great joy for him/her. It may be very silly matter for outsiders but a dreamer can take it heavenly pleasure, if he/she got that due to their hard labor or long struggle.

Sometimes people take dream is different way, it’s a way to achieve huge success & earn much amount of money either by right way or wrong way. But How far I know, for me dream is getting self-satisfaction which you can’t get by cheating, only can get it through hard labor. Achieve your dream is not easy in present world as you will find many competitors still you have to win & proof yourself. MY ALL TIME FAVORITE DARWIN’S LAW “Survival of the fittest”. I believe in Luck for some people it favor & for some people it don’t. Some people try to achieve their dream utilizing their own talent & labor & for some people luck favor. Success doesn’t depend on AGE, so keep trying until you reach at your destination. Success should be on the basis of your own talent, WHAT I BELIEVE.

In this present era, getting success is not easy, you not only need talent but also you have to pay something great, that’s actually worst thing. Especially it happens with women, women who aspiring for MODELING CAREER OR WORKING IN A COMPANY OR any career where they need external support, where as it is a clear path for any men. so become a star is not easy, especially if you are from a normal family & none of your family members are in this career .You have to work hard as well as you have to pay something for that, this is truly happening but people ignore it & some call it as today’s fashion but this is true, these cases are happening with women. But it doesn’t mean we should forget our dream, No! Not at all, we have to accustom with that circumstance. likewise many careers are where also we have to pay something, Example – “In a company you wanna get a super position so you have to impress your boss, it’s a quit difficult to get with your own talent but it doesn’t mean every women do like this but most of the time women also pay, what  information I have gathered”. So be wise, everything you can achieve without pay something “when you strong your mind, when you make yourself that much capable, when you self confident that, Yes! I am capable of achieve my dream due to my own talent & labor”. Don’t be hurry to get success , those who hurry to get success they actually pay something as they wanna success by hook or by crook , either by right path or wrong path , It doesn’t matters for them. I think, it’s true it doesn’t matter.

I am sharing about my own experience – ONE TASK I PERFORMED USING RIGHT PATH & WRONG PATH.

WHEN I CHOOSE RIGHT PATH – Few praise me but most of the people called me loser & failure, as I failed to achieve success, at that time I was HONEST & TRUTHFUL.

WHEN I CHOOSE WRONG PATH- Everyone praise me , but my chosen path was wrong , I cheated my teacher but no one marked even asked me “how you win this race” , everyone congratulates me as I stood first in the race .

But I felt guilty, as that was beyond my principle. So from this I got one lesson nobody really wants to know your past after getting success. Yeah! Few always show their interest like MEDIA, but not general people, you can modify you story too. Cheat in such a way , no one get it’s clue , be a branded CHEATER :P but don’t follow this , I can’t suggest you choose wrong path , as It’s not my own principle but what I have seen even experienced I have just elaborate that.

DREAM: SMALL VS BIG

It doesn’t matter whether your dream is Big or small, the only thing matter how much you are conscious for that, how much you are crazy for that.  SMALL TERM GOALS are easily achieve like doing jobs, earning money & living a peaceful life. LONG TERM GOALS are not easy , you have to try a lot , you have to taste the failure , you have to listen the comments , some people hate you , some people criticize you still you are strongly determined that you have to reach at your goal .

 HAVING A DREAM

DREAM

Everyone has a dream , some wants to be a writer , some painter , some singer , dancer , actor /actress ,Scientists ,social worker , politician , businessmen etc . Different people, different career & some people just wanna live like normal peaceful life.

You can’t laugh at someone’s dream, everyone’s dream has a great value for them, no matter how small or big that is, so I always praise every dreamer. I love to see when people fulfilled their dream. as I know the pain of unfulfilled dream , I am a great looser , seriously , my career matter even in friendship matter too but in friendship issue I have no fault as I have some principle I can’t go beyond that I CAN’T BE FAKE EVEN I CAN’T TOLERATE FAKE PEOPLE , SO I ALWAYS AVOID FAKE PEOPLE. 

J J J MY LIFE.MY DREAM.MY STORY J J J

Frankly speaking about me – This is only truth – I have no interest in political career & modeling career. as I know in these both career I’LL SURELY FAIL , I can’t be success as i am not fit for both of these as i am an introvert person & i have no any special talent, my Interest CAREERS are WRITING , PAINTING , RESEARCH WORK ,BUSINESS , SOCIAL WORK . Writing & painting are my hobbies, if now also I get opportunity to show my talent I am ready but now I can’t do due to some reasons at Least for 1 or 2 years. I love business / research career because this is the only way to show my talent to whole world , I know I have creative mind but I need to flourish , now also I have some plan but don’t know whom I’ll tell & who will listen me  & lastly social work.

MY ACTUAL DREAM –

I wanna help POOR KIDS & POOR PHYSICALLY HANDICRAFT KIDS  & POOR PARENTS .I wanna help others from my own money, the money I can get from my own business / from my own work but when it's about business issue for start a business I have to gather money first even people , but I am not belongs to a millionaire or Billionaire family , I am from a normal family back ground where I am the eldest one so no one is there to support me even advice me except my parents , even those who are elder than me they are 15-20 years elder & those are younger than me 3-15 years younger , so whom I’ll tell who will support me . Even everyone from different career, no one from business or social work or writing career so whom I’ll beg help. SO I HAVE TO START UP BY OWN SO I HAVE TO STRUGGLE, I HAVE TO GATHER MY COURAGE TO FIGHT. The main demerits is GENDER BIAS – most of the people ignore me as I am a GIRL, that’s a kind of pathetic situation L Onside my burning desire to do something even I know I am capable of , I have faith on myself , my talent & labor & another side my drawbacks , so I can’t avoid my drawbacks but I can’t GIVE UP even FED OFF . so it’s the best choice to DO HARD LABOR till I get success SO I choose EDUCATION as my main weapon , I know through my Education I can get these . because this is the only path to earn money first then name , Even I have promised to MYSELF I can’t go beyond my principle , I CAN’T CHOOSE WRONG OR SHORTCUT PATH . MY LIFE MY DREAM, but who will understand this, everyone can laugh at me & call me psycho due to verity of choices. Yeah! it’s true I am Introvert kind of person , I agree ! but I speak where needed , I love to give speeches even I communicate where needed but I love peaceful & silent environment even most of the time I LOVE TO LIVE ALONE even I love to think about different matters , I love to RESEARCH on everything  . This is my personality, I am a fun loving person too J J J

Lastly i wanna say "MAN WISHES GOD DISPOSES"

I can dream even I can wish But I don’t know what’s written in my future . So these are my emotions which I have shared but I don’t know what gonna happen in my future & what I’ll become . But I can hope at least one of my wish comes TRUE .I can try my best for that TOO … I need your support my friends J J J

Don't think i am egoistic Or I am showing , neither i am a too talented nor i have so much capability to do all But i can TRY MY BEST . I have shared my emotions as many people confused even blame me about my dream matter J J J

MY LIFE MY THOUGHT