DO OR DIE

Life is like do or die game, where if u win the game you able to survive, if you fail means better should die, as you are unfit. Like Charles Darwin’s principle “Survival of the fittest”. Those who fit they can survive otherwise modify yourself or die. This is life rule, which we can’t ignore.

Sometimes Life drags us into a painful pool which consists of sorrow, failure, and struggle. Once you fall down in that pool after that it will be too difficult to escape out As except sorrow, failure and struggle one important thing is there which is your main enemy  that’s your own bad luck + some people , who drag you down no matter how much you try to escape out. Because when they all united their power becomes greater than your power so you further fall down. Once you failed after that it’s very difficult to rise further. It just like politics, once you lose your position + power -very difficult to get your position further.

For survive many factors are responsible. Take an example of 3 tiny seeds – you throw first one into a plane nutrient rich soil; second one into a stony place, and third one into a bared soil. after one year see their growth , first seed grow like a normal healthy plant with beautiful branches & flower , second condition is little bit poor as that place is stony still that plant break the stone & fight for survive & third one didn’t get water & nutrient so after little growth finally third one died . here I want to say Success is also like this, whenever we see a successful person we admire them even praise them but always forget the factors who are responsible for their growth, when a person struggle hard to get success we doubt at them as they have no sufficient factors to get success, those who give up or quit are the third kind of seed, one side their own life is poor another side they leave hope.

Here I don’t want to say who don’t get any facilities they don’t get success, many examples are there who got historical success - take the examples of all richest men in India even world & their past family background, once their condition were very poor. These people are like middle seed. You might have seen trees in mountains even in top where you can’t get proper oxygen even the soil is totally stony still you find some big trees, even they know their life is totally uncertain, as if any storm will come they will break first still they never lose hope & grow like normal tree. Our life is like that fight until you can. Fight until you take the breath. You have got one life so why should you fear & whom? You should not. As one day everyone will die it’s obvious, you can’t ignore this truth. May you delay your death but can’t stop it permanently. But yes, one thing is in our hand that’s our own life journey.

I have seen those who give up are the people who fear to die, who fear the society, who fear being alone. I want to say one thing to all when you will die who will go with you, is there anyone really present who will agree to die with you, so why you fear, yes! It’s true we all bounded with a bond that’s called emotional bond with everyone. But when it comes to your dream matter, detach all & make yourself free Move forward toward your journey, I have seen most of the time society blame you in many different ways. Like I love one quote – GOOD WOMEN RARELY MAKE HISTORY then Mother Teresa, Rani laxmibai  & many more good ladies are there. Then what you will say for them, don’t they include under women. this is our thought, this proverb is because we don’t allow women to proceed like I am saying – when a lonely woman I means who is unmarried & who left here home to do something different, who wants to fulfil her dream or trying to do something different she face lots of obstacle as this society don’t accept her easily, society wants something from her for her dream. This is the bitter truth, which you can’t ignore. I have read even know many great even simple women personality who struggle a lot to achieve their dream finally they achieve but they criticized by others, as they sacrifice a lots for their dream. Here sacrifice doesn’t means only their family or their loved one or their society many factors are there. But why? when a woman wants to do something why there are so much obstacles, why we don’t support them, if a woman becomes alone& fight for her dream whole world attack them like monster I AM TALKING ABOUT FILM INDUSTRY / MODELLING, some hidden stories which may you know, maybe not like wise many positions are there where you can’t get anything easily due to your own talent .this is bitter true fact. This is happening all over the world, some take it in silly way but some take it seriously. But this is the truth. where as if a woman get support from everyone to get success her life become smooth success, no painful story even no history or misery , many women are there who born like that , like many people are there for their help. They get support so everyone fears to take the chance for their dream matter, because she has power, she get this power from others. So here we see two cases one side one woman getting no support & her situation, another side a woman getting support & her situations. All pros & cons. whatever I have written that’s purely truth even correct, because I have studied many lives, even read many great personalities biographies. So I agree with this proverb GOOD WOMEN RARELY MAKE HISTORY it’s because we don’t let them to do something different , if we don’t let them do so what they can , they will do by hook or by crook so they face problem , sometimes they face drastic situation because they don’t get support & other take advantage of it. Even you can read all the biographies of great woman who makes history till now & who tried their best to get success in lots of odds situations. That’s the reason I never blame anyone, became blaming others I try to know their past, all are not bad, situation is bad. Blame God & situation not people. That’s my principle.

So in case of success women face lots of obstacles than men because many thing are there to lose if you are a woman but when you are a man you don’t lose anything except peace. Because when you are a man you have no boundaries like women & you can do anything you want. If you fail that’s because of your bad luck.

So getting success is different from men to women. But success is success. Everyone wants. Who wants a failure is life? Is there anyone present? Either Long term goal or short term goal, all have a goal. Some get easily some gets very late. Everyone gets if they tried their best & never give up. Especially when you walk alone at that time you struggle a lot because no one is there to understand you except yourself.

I am saying about me from my childhood days to till now, means near about 8 years I am straggling to achieve my dream, trying from different ways. If one dream break, trying from another way. I didn’t get medical so I am trying through engineering to fulfil my dream. So dream is one but paths are many. But real problem arise when you wants to do something but nobody have patience to tolerate your failure. Sometimes people suggest you Give up instead of help & support. This is the most discouraging word. Especially when you a girl. I know it’s not easy to stand alone & struggle to get success but don’t think it’s impossible. So I choose my education career, May I get success through this. Trying my best as I have no other options left. I know no body will come to help me, I have to do all by alone, so I have to start by own first, yeah! My Parents support me but everything i have to do by own. my life is more miserable as i have many haters , many people are there to down me , lift me up – few people & second one is I have no such supporter & path shower . How to start my work & in which way. So I can gain all these when I’ll be more educated/ day by day but one day sure . Don’t know what god has written in my next life, trying my best to get something for which I am trying my best now. I hope! May my next life bring good in my life; as I am trying my best even hope for the best. If I failed to get that my life will be more miserable & will be more difficult to achieve my dream. My life is now like DO OR DIE mode. Because I can’t give up because I know what I have sacrificed even faced for my dream , near about last 8 years I am struggling hard ,i can’t sleep properly , can’t enjoy with everyone , spend my time holding tension , failure & my bad luck , I know what I have faced (in friendship issues & other people blame me unnecessarily ) gain many haters. After facing all these I can’t think about give up. If someone think I should give up, he/she is crazy. I can give up my Life but can’t think about give up my dream. If I am stick with my dream from my 9^th standard even get failure 100s of times one after another like a queue still never give up then how people think about I’ll give up my dream now ? WHO KNOWS MY JOURNEY & MY STORY.

I believe if you have dream, you should proceed, no one is yours. At the end of your life you will realize what you have done, that will matter most. Everyone is doing same so what you have done different. I am not telling to those who want to earn money, I am talking about who have a purpose to do something in their life, don’t follow all, Follow their own path. while walking alone If you lost your path don’t be worry, one day you will get your actual road which will take you towards your destiny in worthy way. If someone will show the road then how can you get the knowledge about other roads which also take you towards your destiny? Life is like a hit & trial method. Try different methods & paths to reach at your goal. Every time you may not get a path shower, so be your own mentor & try to walk alone. It will help you to become knowledgeable & wise. Try to place your name in history not in victory. Anyone can get victory but making history rare can do, especially who follow right path & get lots of pain. I am not saying, just go through the history & read the biography of great women J All were not bad.