WHY WOMEN SHOULD B SUCCESSFUL

 

When we talk about a woman, many things and many people attach to her, she played many roles in a home – Daughter to Grandmother.

When she is an elder sister - She acts as an idol for her younger brothers and sisters.

When is a daughter or daughter in law– she cares about her parent’s prestige and cares about them.

When she is a wife – she cares about her husband and become a soul mate to the great supporter for whole life.

When she is a mother – she acts as a great protector to the great teacher. Who knows how to love, how to protect and how to be strict, she loves still fear as she doesn't want her love should not damage her children.

So these are the major roles she plays on a daily basis but does anyone asks her – 
1. How loneliness actually feels when she spends her whole day in the home.

2. How pain actually feels when she cooks food for us and cleans the dresses even though she is ill.

So let’s praise her efforts – no matter whether she is working lady or housewife.

But this is the 20^th century that’s why I want every woman should work hard and become successful.

So if a woman becomes successful then how it actually affects her life and family life.

1)    There is a difference between the working woman and housewife in their behaviour.

2)    There is no worry for money in the family

3)    They can maintain a good standard of living

4)    She can walk along with her husband and be a great supporter of his success

5)    She can a great mentor

6)    She can be a great partner

7)    She can a great idol for others

8)    She can be a great motivational factor for her husband as well, if her husband is friendly and let her become successful. As here in this case- her husband also tries his level best to enhance his standard more than her wife. So that, both the relationship can be in best form.

But when a woman turns into the housewife, if she is a dreamer and wants to works and have talent as well how the same situation can be turned into -

1)    She can’t concentrate in home

2)    She will feel dissatisfaction

3)    She feels irritated

4)    She can’t motivate anyone as she is already demotivated from her life

5)    When the monetary problem arises she can’t help her husband as she doesn’t have proper industry knowledge.

6)    She may be a great housewife but may not a good mother who can protect her child from bullying and make her kid smart, it may affect her child education too. A strong mother knows how to handle her child – she may be strict but not rude. She is loving but she knows how to teach her children good culture.

7)    Sometimes she may face humiliation from others in silly matters.

That’s why she needs to be successful.

But there is a wrong perception in our mind for working women – she can’t be a good wife, but I just want to say one thing it depends on your character.

TAKE THE EXAMPLE OF LOTUS – even though it is in the mud still it is used in worshipping Lord Shiva as it is clean.

So if a woman wants to be clean, she can be clean no matter whatever a situation may b but here her family should be supportive and keep trust in her and her honesty. As most of the family issues caused due to the many misunderstanding. As after marriage husband knows his wife and wife knows her husband well but not the outsiders so sometimes rumours and third party enter or suggestions can spoil your whole family life. So when any problem arises solve in between and never ever involve anyone over there. So the woman can be successful when she has a great understanding husband and family.

But what’s about the single mothers – unfortunately who becomes single due to her fate or someone’s bad decisions. I believe everyone needs a family – she also can choose someone who also likes her "a single father" so that both have the better understanding and there is no conflict in children issues, as it starts with compromise from both the ends. So choose someone who also needs you, but for the sake of your benefit don’t ever spoil someone’s life who never have the idea of a family life, as there may be less compromise will be there and more conflict in later on stage.

So, after all, I can say – a woman needs a man, as a soul mate as a best friend and a father of her child. Anyone can stay single for whole life but no one can stay without a lifetime friend.

Working women in office -

You can find these women at the office, or you can find them at home with the kids, juggling the myriad of tasks associated with being a mom and running a household. How these women spend their days doesn’t matter—what matters is how they behave. Simply put, they're women who like to be in charge.

How to save yourself from a fraud –

Be wise and be awake always –

Women always face the fraud when she stays outside and alone.

Like how I am giving few examples –

1)    When you doing shopping in a small small shop, you may get cheated on wrong bills as women don’t look at each and every item always with money. Likewise, I lost nearly 500/- after that now I am wise enough.

2)    When you are single, you may face the problem in cheating in job life as well – like sometimes people try to put in hole so that you can’t get out of it through Some false issues which may ruin you for temporary period and peace of mind like blame you for something which you never ever done and can’t also prove as who knows who write your name in the wrong file until unless someone goes through deep like history and IP address etc. but who has so much time. so take steps wisely, corporate life makes you wise as per time and experience (personal experience).

3)    when you rent your pg fee, I know 5000/- is not a big deal but still, it matters, if you are too obedient and give your pg rent early before date then you’ll b face the problem of cheating like losing money unnecessarily.

I can say, fraud or cheating happens to everyone on a daily basis, these are the simple cases but it has many effects on our lives if we always ignore it. So girls b wise enough to take every step.