CONFUSION IS NOT A TRAIT OF SMART PEOPLE

SMART PEOPLE DON'T GET CONFUSED , THEY CONFUSE OTHERS TO GET THE THINGS DONE :p

No. Confusion is not a trait of a smart person.

Smartness not only measures the ability to think, but also the ability to decide between good and bad among other traits. Call somebody smart, it doesn't mean that he's confused and thinking about his out of the box ideas. What it really means is that a smart person is decisive and confident in his approach towards thought processing.

“Nobody can give you wiser advice than yourself.” ~Cicero 

We usually confuse, where we feel really unsure about what to do like about our career matters or Love matters or any bigger responsibilities.

The feeling you call confusion is a big to-do that’s created in your mind when you have all kinds of conflicting thoughts (for example, do it, don’t do it, take a chance, why fix what’s not broken?) and you seriously entertain each of those as if they are helpful or important.

You innocently treat those thoughts as if they are each deserving of consideration just because they happen to be there.

I am talking about myself there was a time I always confused Like – WHAT I’LL DO AND HOW I’LL DO. IT’S ALL ABOUT MY CAREER MATTER, so some people also take advantage of it and make me more confuse too. This thing happened just because my goal is clear but in which way I can, I didn’t have idea on that.

MY CONFUSION ABOUT CAREER

My dream was to become a doctor from my childhood days even that was my one and only priority , I didn’t have any knowledge on other fields except medical but when I failed to get medical , I joined in Engineering without my interest even I didn’t have any better option too in that time. after entering into engineering , my mind become blank what I’ll do next because getting placed in any IT company was never ever my dream , then I make my own goal plan , how and which way I can reach at my goal . GOAL IS ONE BUT PATHS ARE MANY , I UNFORTUNATELY ALWAYS FOLLOW TIME TAKING PATH AS SHORT CUTS WERE/ARE NEVER EVER AVAILABLE FOR ME. Now, I am not confuse about my goal, I know what I wanna do in future. I have already planned for this but I am worry about my Money and supportive hands as I am a girl by gender and no family business so how can I start up my business alone. This may be difficult not impossible. I am trying , so better do a job then start urn business as per time suits you  , if I get a financier for my own business then I can start by own too as early as possible.

MY CONFUSION ABOUT LOVE

This is the major issue in my life, I am not confuse about my love as I don’t want any wrong person in my life who can ruin my life totally . I am quite serious about this but I more focused on business and career, so I love to keep my personal and professional life separate. I can’t love whom I can’t handle and who don’t care about my emotions and dream. I hate those who try to spoil my name and dream. Once I hate someone, it’s very difficult to love them again and I am not confuse here: P. I am not confuse about my love life - I always judge people before I fall in love, as I don’t like GIVE AND TAKE POLICY KIND OF LOVE or NEWTON’S 3^RD LAW – LOVE CAN’T BE CREATED NOR BE DESTROYED, IT ONLY TRANSFER FROM ONE BODY TO ANOTHER. I believe better you follow harmless flirt than go for serious committed relationship until unless you get someone who really deserve for you or whose mentality match with you or who can help you to achieve your goal. I don’t know about others , I always look for a person who help me to achieve my goal , but hardly I get such kind of person. till now , how many people come across in my life few of them try to ruin my dream instead of built , no doubt I care about my dream and career but it doesn’t mean I should sell myself and my personality for this , another side I always fear about heart break , the only thing can kill me 90% , so better stay away from Love until unless I achieve my goal because once I achieve my goal , I may get love still don’t be sure about love , you can lose it too even after you succeed but getting a person who really deserve you is the biggest gift from Lord because YOUR LOVE LIFE CAN MAKE YOU OR BREAK YOU TOO . This is the only thing which give me pain and confuse me most because those behave well even I know those who can help me in my future life to make my Dream true, of Course they also get profit from this but their number is very less or can say I am not in that standard, it’ll take some time to reach at their level as I am alone to make the difference in my life, No supporter. Love matters is my 2^nd priority as I know if I’ll get a good life partner but who can’t help me to get my goal then what the need of the love , I’ll be frustrated after some period as I know I am different from others . I not only need love but also I am a great dreamer too. so I am not confuse about Love - it‘s all about right “time and person” who’ll come, so till that day do harmless flirt to get the business profit.

People get confuse for various reasons like this. Here I have discussed about me, where we mainly get confused. Confusion has better perspectives too.

Confusion is good. It means that people are questioning that their actions are going to be scrutinized to a certain degree, people are working on new models for how to live.

Confusion is only good in the sense that it allows space for the creation of these new models. Confusion isn’t inherently good, but it allows the space for you to try to align your goals to something more important. More at the heart of the matter of living the good life.  Confusion isn’t a model for how to live. Confusion is empowering. If you use it.

If you are in a confusing state or point of your life, don’t be frustrated by it. Don’t settle. If you are confused about what you should do next, with whatever decision, invite the confusion. Persist through it. Think about it. Forget about it. Think about it some more. And relax. Something will come to you.

Sometimes confusions makes your life more miserable too, so how to handle the confusion mind or situations. 

Quick Ways to Deal with the Confusion and Conflict within You 

Control your thoughts

Choose to overshadow any worries or uncertainty. This is an active process and you’ve got to be very deliberate about managing any worries. Don’t deny they are there. Let them rise to the surface, but then continually remind yourself that everything will work out. Create the good habit of focusing on what you know deep down — everything really will unfold perfectly.

It’s all about Today. 

Shift your attention to today and focus on really living and experiencing it in the best way you can. Move through the day intentionally and thoughtfully. Be very aware of how you are feeling and find your way to being in the best mood. Anytime you notice that you are “off”, choose to do something about it. Spend more time doing things you enjoy or give yourself some “you” time. Don’t let your energy be “off” for too long – choose to do something to elevate it.

Continue to ask yourself questions. 

Patiently wait for any answers or direction you are looking for, but make sure you are taking steps forward today by living it in the best way possible. Always remember that the way you create the future you want, is by living today in the best way you can.

Lastly I wanna say, don’t be confuse on anything. Everything seems confusing when time goes wrong. So better wait for right time to come and do your job from your whole heart.