“Who am I ?’
“What is my purpose in
life?
What is my passion?
Where do I go from here?”
These
are some of the most common questions for many but where I actually struggled
with and I am not in a position to answer it – As I confuse with time and my
situations , sometimes my situations force me to do something beyond my interest
and sometimes I just wants to do something but my time don’t support me.
Following your passion is big. Passion is what fuels you But
passion isn’t everything. If you are looking to achieve remarkable, fulfilling
and phenomenal success, you must have two components: passion and purpose.
What’s
the difference?
Passion is your compelling emotions behind your dreams. Your feelings drive your passion.
Purpose is the why behind it all. Purpose is the deep reason for your existence.
So when people say, “What should I do with my life?” or “What is
my life purpose?” what they’re actually asking is: “What can I do with my time
that is important , what can add value to my life?”
We may have many passions, but we only have one purpose. So how do
you determine which is which and how we can reach there?
Start with your passions and move
closer to your purpose.
Step 1: Create a Passion List. Identify what you like. What really excites
you inside? Write everything down that comes to mind.
Step 2: Eliminate the unnecessary. What could you subtract from your
Passion List and still feel like “you” in your life?
Step 3: Manifesting your purpose. What refuses to be quiet? Your purpose
is what is screaming at you from inside to be manifested. Find it, grow it, and
share it with the world.
Now
analyze yourself
Are Your Goals Yours or you are
misguided or your Goal are determined by others not by you ?
We
all should ask this question to ourselves, and yet it is ignored. The
difficulties arise at when someone ask us , what’s your goal of your life , is
it really you want ?
“Of
course I am pursuing my own passion!” But are we?
Everyone
thinks that , Be rich; be handsome; be beautiful; be famous are the ultimate
goal of everyone’s life , Is not it ?
Are these really your goals?
Where did they really come from?
Can you be absolutely sure that these things will make you
happy?
It is possible that these things truly do make you happy.
I
have came across these view points of some people regarding Success -
Once I have money, I’ll be independent. Once I find a lover, I
will have higher self-esteem. Once my spouse quits drinking so much, I will be
happy like this many more.
This
road becomes easier to tread when we realize that internal goals are always
achievable if we put in the time and effort.
External
goals can be subject to limitations that cannot be overcome, no matter how hard
we try.
Our external purpose changes to reflect our inner.
Purposes are permanent but professions are not.
The Need
for Action
Naturally,
there is a time for planning and thinking, but there is also a time for action.
Many people who are seeking or rethinking their life purpose stay stuck in one
point and can’t improve at all. Maybe they do this to avoid taking risks, for
fear of leaving their comfort zone, to avoid disapproval, or any other fear.
And in doing so, they remain stuck in a rut.
Sometimes,
the best way to find a purpose in life is to go out there and take
action, even if we don’t know
what we are doing. Being flexible enough to do different things everyday in
pursuit of the same goal also keeps us from boredom and routine.
Now I am talking
about me
My
purpose is one, service to man kind and do something for myself too but
professions are many. I still remember people some times call me I am a “MULTI PERSONALITY
DISORDER PERSON” (when I was in
engineering college, In Jock actually) ,
truth is “THEY
ALL ARE RIGHT BUT IN THE SAME TIME THEY ARE WRONG TOO” actually I am
a true flexible person , I can adapt myself as per time and situation even if I
can adapt my different careers well then I can handle situations as well too.
Those
who know me 6-7 years before (TILL 11TH) or before (Schooling) they
know how I am but when they see me now they can’t accept me and those who know me now they got shocked /can't accept me well , when they see me in my past . problem is that we
all change as per time and situation , we change our personality as per time
and situation but it doesn’t mean we totally become like a different person
like you have certain talent and capability in you but when you get chance you
flourish your talent sometimes we get chance to flourish and sometimes it hide
within ourselves due to outer pressure. So everything depends on time and
situation.
SOMETIMES WE NEED SCOPE OR
SOME PEOPLE IN OUR LIFE WHO SHOW OUR HIDDEN TALENTS and HELP US TO FLOURISH.
That’s the reason you’ll
find behind every successful man a woman always present and behind all
successful women a family present who support , believe and love her. We all
need someone to flourish ourselves , I believe we all have some talent but some
knowingly don’t give us chance and some give , it depends on you HOW YOU SHOULD
OVERCOME ALL PROBLEMS AND FLORISH YOURSELF J
When you are a woman and
you are dreaming high , you have to work a lot as at first few people’ll
support you but once you win everyone’s trust and heart then you’ll find whole
world will start loving you. So Keep your intensions clear and Good , So that
God’ll help you indirectly that’s why I believe “Everything happens for
a good reason ”. Help each other to improve , it’s the best way to improve
ourselves too J
Last request to
all - Don’t only study , where you are
best , give your best Effort there and show the world you are the best in your
field nomatter what people say . At first you’ll be criticized but in the end
you’ll be winner so keep your burning desire / dream strong.
MEMORIES FROM FACEBOOK TO BLOGGER
MEMORIES FROM FACEBOOK TO BLOGGER
Today when i go through my past
posts "ON THIS DAY", i just came across some of my posts like https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=796922923729936&set=a.106808729408029.20035.100002367085874&type=3&theater and from
that again some memories ached before my eyes like some i gonna share , It
sounds silly today but big issue for me in that time means when i was in
engineering - My friends start talking about my age and my dropped for medical
AND how rumors were spread like THEY WERE
PRESENT WHILE I BORN and THEY KNEW MY RANKS IN MEDICAL .
but now these things really makes me laugh , specially about "AGE" issue , i still remember how i was irritated but now i don't care as now my DREAM plays such a big role in my life, i don't have time to think about my those issues btw now a days nobody talk about that that also true but seriously saying when i go through my past articles i really laugh at myself how some silly matters were make me worry like this many more issues which make me laugh now , as i feel i am more matured than my past of course now i am 23+ OR can say 24 :P It's not about age , it's all about life experience and how you change yourself as per time and situation to make yourself success.
So life changes as well as situations and even you also but one thing doesn't change that's your "PURPOSE OF LIVING".
but now these things really makes me laugh , specially about "AGE" issue , i still remember how i was irritated but now i don't care as now my DREAM plays such a big role in my life, i don't have time to think about my those issues btw now a days nobody talk about that that also true but seriously saying when i go through my past articles i really laugh at myself how some silly matters were make me worry like this many more issues which make me laugh now , as i feel i am more matured than my past of course now i am 23+ OR can say 24 :P It's not about age , it's all about life experience and how you change yourself as per time and situation to make yourself success.
So life changes as well as situations and even you also but one thing doesn't change that's your "PURPOSE OF LIVING".
LIFE
BECOMES MORE MEANINGFUL WHEN YOU GET WHAT YOU WANT OR ACHIEVE YOUR GOAL .
You also don't know when life brings miracle
in your life so keep trying and my one dream is to make my parents feel proud
for me through my work as my intention is clear and it's for good purpose so
when your dream over power your problems at that time every problems look less
or invisible, THAT'S LIFE .
LOVEUR LIFE AND "ACCEPT THE PEOPLE AND
SITUATION AS THEY ARE" (A MANTRA WHICH CHANGE MY WAY OF THINKING - ART OF
LIVING MANTRA)
LOVE