HOW FAR YOU KNOW ME or REMEMBER ME

Now the world is reference world, we refer whom we know either for job or business or love or marriage but how far it is good for whom, who knows it?

Sometimes we feel we know someone very well, how it is possible?

Either you talk with them.

Or

You listen about them from someone else.

When we talk with someone we hear what they say, when a person is innocent he/she says everything and at that time you can judge him/her easily within few days but if a person is really complicated it’s too difficult to know them even after years because it’s very difficult to know their intention behind everything.

Some people good to you doesn’t mean they can be good for all, we love some people either for personal relationship or professional prospective. But if a person behave well with all irrespective to all positions then he/she is really nice person, in this mean world it’s very difficult to judge a person.

I have seen specially mean people are very good in communication as they know what’s their intention that’s why they can’t be good with all , those who good with all they behave equally with all , yes they know whom to behave how , their intention is always clear that’s to make friendship with all.

So, how far we know when we refer a person for something –

I have seen people refer their friends for love for their friend but when it comes to their sister or brother, they stay back always as they can spoil their friend not their sister or brother. So when we refer someone for our personal reason we always forget that, we are taking their sin along with us. That sin, can spoil our life later on or we may face the same situation again later in our life when we have our own daughter or son, as KARMA is BITCH, it'll never let you sleep well until unless you have to pay back.

So think before you refer, if you can’t refer good then be silent don’t add sin unnecessarily-

After talking with many people and judging many people, I learnt that  everyone has a story, from your family members to your friends, some people’s life is quit painful whereas some people enjoy their lives how it is? They aren't just Physical bodies whom we can see with eyes to look and mouths to speak. They're people, each with their own weakness, strength, fears and their own hobbies. Memories are like school books, it has no use after we pass but let’s lesson always help us no matter wherever we go and what we do?
Every person near you, every stranger on the street, every face in a picture, is a

miracle of personality, skill, dreams, and flaws. Smiling tells or face with teary eyes don’t tell about you until unless you know someone from internally .Wrapped in a body, protected by bones, given a face with which to utilize as he/she so chooses, a mouth to speak words, eyes to watch and witness, and ears to listen.

This world is based on trust otherwise we can’t eat anything or buy anything, we should develop trust factor within us to live a perfect life but if someone 
tells you - I don't trust you, it means that he/she have seen something or find some kind of loopholes in you which drag them into this point of life and sometimes you choose to stay away from them for forever as your emotional safety aspect or to live a better life by avoiding them. Sometimes even I also don't trust my best friend, my brother or sister even my god too when they do some kind of injustices but that is for temporary moment as there is a trust factor comes from inside , our heart says they are trust worthy but something happened may be they bound to do that or their situation force them to do that so in these matters situation actually plays a great role , so in this matter cheat is forgivable even we can forgive someone as per situational basis but if a person cheat you even the environment is favourable then they are doing it intentionally and emotionally fool people can become victim of this.   

so it’s easy to trust someone whom we knows well or when we know from the childhood days or can we give guaranty that , that person will good for all – may be or may not be ?

Sometimes people love some people due to their talking or way of expression but if someone don’t talk doesn’t mean they are bad until unless you communicate well with them.

It sounds good in professional matters, we refer someone whom we know if they are good for our company or any kind of job. Its sounds good even looks good up to professional world but when it comes to personal – reference rarely works good. yes , in past era like 1970 or 80’s marriages were done through this as cheating was less and people are mainly trust worthy and culture was quite different like man dominating society but as we all grow up , now we see equality in all sectors. We all need a person who treat us well as we deserve, as that time has gone. when it’s comes to love , I feel reference is a bad choice specially I have seen in school or colleges we tease our friend whom they love like “ see your GF is going or your crush is going” ,it sounds good when it’s for both sides but when it’s not good at all when it’s for one sided even I have seen people stop talking with you if you reject their friend in love matter no matter how that guy is , btw this was actually happening in school or college days but as we all grow up we realize the value of this we don’t interfere more but as we grow up we take it as an ego issues , I love this line “MEN WILL BE MEN” , it’s true if you don’t like someone then others will start scolding you and spoiling your name unnecessarily no matter whether that person is good for you or not OR what is his intention behind , their ego overpowering some one’s life . if we start taking our own friends as a sister or brother then we can’t do the same thing with them .I always feel - if I can’t refer someone for my sister how can I refer that person for my friend , she also have heart and emotion , yes ! some exceptional cases are there where a girl or boy is super flirt at that time this issues don’t work as they always ready for any kind of relationship as they need for time pass BUT ALWAYS REMEMBER ALL GIRLS ARE NOT SAME AND ALL GIRLS ARE NOT MEANT TO BE PLAYED , BEFORE BLAME SOMEONE KNOW THEIR FULL STORY OR TRUTH BEHIND , WHAT YOU HEARD IS TRUTH OR TRUTH IS SOMETHING ELSE . Sometimes truth is something else whereas we are show casing something else. We take someone's name for our own benefit whereas we always forget that they are human with a soul so TREAT A PERSON HOW THEIR PERSONALITY IS NOT HOW YOU ARE. Product can be generalize but human can’t. Everyone is different mind-set, personality and life story. You can’t blame someone until unless you know the full truth, Time has all answer – it’ll show face within the face when the perfect time will come. So don’t be hurry to blame anyone until you want to know more about them as sometimes you small mistake can spoil someone even yours too as you are unknowingly adding someone’s sin into your life . Who knows when God will put you in their position?

Love is not dirty but people make it with their dirty intention and they kill it with their behaviour. Love is very powerful to kill someone internally so be aware of it before playing game with someone else. KNOWING THE TRUTH ABOUT SOMEONE or SOMETHING ELSE WILL STOP YOU FROM BLAMING GAME.

PS – DON’T TAKE IT PERSONALLY, IT’S A NORMAL ISSUES WHICH WE ALL FACE AT CERTAIN POINT OF LIFE,