BEING QUIET DON'T MAKE YOU LOSER

"If you expect the world to be fair with you because you are fair, you're fooling yourself. That's like expecting the lion not to eat you because you didn't eat him."

Don’t ever expect anything from this world, do your best and make your lord happy for you as he has send you for special purpose in life. That’s my life song <3

2 people whose words always bounce over others brain they are –

1)    Mad person

2)    Another one is a normal human being who sees the world with different perspective.

We all are in this world different with our thought and perceptions, the problem is people take them crazy whose perspective differs as per the place and the society he/she belongs to. Like the way I see or visualize the world is different from how the mass number of people see it.

So in this situation what would be the best option you think-?

1)    Be silent and let the God take care of all

2)    Work and become victim of  again and again still never give up with a hope that one day everyone will get know you

3)    Simply follow others blindly

So what you should do, which option you should choose if you’ll be in this position. You can’t be silent or you can’t follow others blindly, sometimes it better to be victim than do nothing. This world needs- A man or woman with vision , needs a man or woman with action that’s why there is a great proverb attach with this statement “Behind all successful man there is a woman is there whereas behind all successful woman only she is her own hero” , at that time it’s quite difficult as you can’t be all rounder. Sometimes some people may good in vision but poor in action, that’s why they stay back even they have the power to become successful.

Like this millions of people are there whose labour go in vain just because no one understand their words or their ideas or they fails to make others understand or they have vision but poor in action , which become biggest drawback in their lives .

I have seen many people who have talent but their place is not supporting either due to cultural variance or gender bias or some kind of other biasness. So in this situation, talent murders even though God has send you for some kind of good purpose.

That’s why sometimes I sit silently and observe myself as I am in that category , sometimes I fails to make other people understand my idea and talent and sometimes I cry a lot to get opportunity but fail to get due to lack of support “Nobody is there to hear you , support you and implement your ideas until your luck doesn’t favours”.  That’s the biggest drawback I also can feel even sometimes I feel like I am going to die like this and I am going to murder my talent again due to my problematic life – where onside I need to get opportunity whereas people are saying you have to create but nobody is ready to help and another side cultural variance and some biasness push me back still I promise to myself I’LL NEVER EVER GIVE UP. AS I HAVE FAITH ON MY VISION.

I may good in ideas but I need people in action , that’s why sometimes people laugh at me as either I only write or present or give my ideas but nobody understand the value of it until unless they use it in real life . It’s like a millionaire person – have money but no ideas so either he/she has to buy idea to make the best utilization of money or just simply do nothing and enjoy his/her life happily till death without making any difference or make the best use of his money . I am in that state only.

As a marketer, I can visualize the huge opportunity in the place where I born and that’s true but one thing that hinder my success is MY OWN GENDER AND SOME EXTERNAL FACTORS. I may gonna face 1000s of problems which making people feel their needs and demands. It needs at least 5-6 years of time to make a difference as ROME WAS NOT BUILT IN A DAY, you need time to construct a new emperor again with new model but for that your gender should support you as well as your culture too. Even you have talent and ideas, it’ll go in vain if nobody is come forward to listen you or help you.

So I can see a great opportunity or business HUB in ODISHA , but I can’t do anything before 5 years as I know I may a woman with vision but I need huge support of people with action . so for that I have to sacrifice a lot or can say my life too (unmarried you can say , if my life support me or if I can make my life that much worthy I am ready too but if I can’t better I should live a better life I ALSO DESERVE A BETTER LIFE ALSO , EITHER MAKE YOUR WORTHY OR HAPPY , CHOICE IS YOURS) as making a difference is much more worthy than being married and do nothing OR marry someone who’ll support you together you can make a huge difference , but I can depend on others blindly as in this world if till now I rarely find anyone whose mind-set match with me how can I look forward to get such kind of people in my life . Instead of looking for that I should work according to me so in MARKETING, ODISHA will be the biggest hub after 5-6 years but till that time we have to struggle to establish ourselves as.

But I don’t think I can make any difference as now I am 25 years and I don’t even have any experience too , so I am looking forward to BIGGER PROSPECTIVE . Some place in India, where MARKETING will be great hub within 5-6 years if SMART CITY, plan works faster. Marketing is that field – which trap those place where nobody think they can trap. So marketing is all about get best out of worst.

Marketing Needs and Demand–

The best known model for human needs is Abraham's Maslow's (from top to bottom):

·         Physiological: food, sleep, shelter

·         Safety: employment, property, personal security

·         Love and sense of belonging: friendship, family, sexual intimacy

·         Self-esteem: confidence, achievement, respect

·         Self-actualization: transcendence, creativity, purpose

Another model, that I like a little better, is based on fears and their corresponding needs:

·         Fear of death – Need for security

·         Fear of strangers and outsiders– Need for community

·         Fear of the future and uncertainty – Need for clarity

·         Fear of chaos – Need for authority and classification, order

·         Fear of insignificance – Need for respect

Therefore, marketers align products (or services) with these needs to create a need for a product.

So I don’t think Odisha and some place in India have all these opportunity to get , they have these sorts of demand and a marketer and business personality to trap those fields , where people have demands and needs but they can’t find by themselves as nobody realize them.

Opportunity knocks the door to those who have vision with action-

A wise man will make more opportunities than he finds. ”Sir Francis Bacon~
you can’t always predict when an opportunity for success may come your way. Even if the opportunity presents itself, there is no way you can grab it unless you recognize it as a chance for you.

A man or woman seldom fails in life because he/she doesn’t have the ability to succeed. Most often he/she fails because he/she uses too little of the power which lies dormant within him/her or he/she does not make use of his/her powers when the opportunity was ripe.

Let us not permit the great sleeping forces within us to remain asleep.

It is also tragic to let talent go undeveloped-to live with unfulfilled ambitions, unrealized dreams, and doors of opportunities that remain unopened, so long as the hinges are actually rusted. The great problem of life is not primarily of acquiring additional qualities; It is of realizing to the fullest extent the wealth of qualities with which we are already endowed.

We must be prepared to grab an opportunity, when we see one but for this we need a positive mental attitude. It means that we must be willing to support our positive thinking with a positive action.

For achieving success in any field whether personal or professional we must constantly be moving forward even we fail in any field. 

The speed at which we move forward however is of minor importance. Of major importance is the direction in which we are travelling as sometimes in hurry we reach in wrong place and after sometimes we feel like we lost ourselves.

Success in life, be it in any task or field brings happiness and once reached must be won over and over again. It’s not easy, but in the difficulty lies the opportunity, its rewards are great, but it belongs only to those brave and courageous souls, who care to have the faith in themselves. Who recognize and opportunity when it comes their way, grab it, make the most of it and continue to move forwards towards success. 

I believe in these 2 “The winner says- It may be difficult, but it’s possible. The loser says- It may be possible, but it’s difficult.”

Now which category do we want to belong to? The Winner or the Loser?

So I always in winner side even though I know I lack many sorts of talent which need to make my vision into action in reality. Still I am hoping for best and moving forward with a great hope for my future.

I am expecting , this time my God will help me and go in my favour than gains me as I already learnt so many lessons and I don’t need more now , at least pause for a while then again give me pain as sometimes continuous failure and pain makes you weak instead of strong .If i have 1000s of enemies who tries to down me always without any reason , i also have 2 friends who always see my success , please God give me course to make these 2 people happy . 

I have faith on my LORD, one day you’ll do true justice to me.