MY FREE VIEW ON V-DAY 2017

It’s here again. February 14 , MONTH OF LOVE .

V-day week is already touch the feet of all lovers and the heartbeat of all lovers faster as per their role, if you are guy then you have to start saving money from now and if you are a girl then you have to think about the V-Day planning, where to enjoy and sometimes what to give as a gift as you always know how much amount I am going to spend but price tag is useless for boys. no matter whether they are rich or poor but their masculine characteristics like self-respect before their lover is always in high mode specially when it comes to status and money , they are really care about it .

So V-day is the timing for all love birds to enjoy so here it’s a something unusual question arise in my mind –

Is it needed any day to celebrate our Love, Love is immortal and it’s a never changing emotion. Still we need a day to celebrate.

I believe, every day is V-day for showing your love towards your lover. Showing love is different from person to person, someone need your care, someone need your support, someone needs you time also. So showing your love varies from person to person. So V-Day is for those who are really immature otherwise mature people show their love in different way everyday.

Now a days showing your Love is different, people socialize their love in social media whereas in real world they don’t care, as now a days showing your love is best way to get publicity as well as support from others. So Love is not about socialize your love, it’s all about keep your love within your heart and show it him/her every day in different form. When LOVE is true, you no need to show it before everyone, only one person know that’s enough. Yes! Sometimes you need to show your love before all as it is the form of support and care, in other words it is in the form of security too. You feel secure when people know that you have someone else very precious.

V-Day celebrated by different kinds of people in different way.

Romantic people -

Valentine’s Day, the supposedly most romantic day of the year when couples feel intense pressure to demonstrate their love for each other. It’s best period for romantic people.

Romantic people celebrate it in different way – they go some places like cold place or spend some time in long drive or some time for themselves only. They celebrate like this is the only day and they try their level best to make it special.

Favorited destination – Kashmir, Ladakh, Lake, Valley, Hill stations, Beach etc. . . . mostly romantic people feels romantic with nature than with people and romantic people mainly love to spend time in lonely together than with others .

I am saying, as I consider myself as a romantic Person in my dream land, even though I am single still, I am romantic from heart but not ready to mingle until I get someone like me or who understand me.

Non – Romantic people

Valentine’s Day, is a kind of very special day for non-romantic people too, as they get influenced by romantic people. They celebrate this in their own way. They celebrate with show off. As they have no much idea how to be looks like a romantic person.

Favorited destination – Luxurious Hotels, family get together, party, temples etc. . . . mostly non-romantic people are those types , who are romantic in certain time but they are not a truly romantic people , who cry in emotions , who can feel others emotions easily , who gives much priority to money and work than family .

I am saying, as I meet many non-romantic people in my life and I really feel Suffocating with them. As I may give priority to work but in the same time I am emotional and quite romantic from inside , I don’t feel connected with those who are rigid from inside and always think about profit and don’t live their life fullest.

I may not be committed till now but I know the meaning of love and romance and romance is always not indicate to SEX, sometimes it is the form of showing love too. I am not committed as I scared of giving my heart to a wrong person who don’t deserve it and understand it. I need a person who also understand me and as romantic as I ,otherwise I can’t survive as I feel suffocating with such kind of people in my life.

Ideas for couples -

Let’s do something different in this V-day to surprise someone special in your life.

If you want to surprise someone through your love and special gifts then it’s the best time to start from today –

Remember, it's the simplest things that can go a long way in your relationship.

1)    Start writing a small diary when you meet her/him, a memory glance with pics. It’ll take at least 5-6 days to write all with pics. Pics are best memory keepers.

2)  Start collecting small small gifts, May costs very less but he/she loves very much like some girls love some simple jewellery items like chain or bracelet or anything which she can keep and keep both of your name there so that when she will see, she will remind you.

3)    Try to do make some distance from your loved one like quarrel but that should be fake. Because after quarrel, you fall in love more. That’s the best trick but don’t do it seriously otherwise you’ve to pay for that. Be wise enough how to start quarrel and how to end it and most of the time couples quarrel in small small matters which has no meaning at all.

4)    Make her/him so tensed that, he/she'll forget V-day is coming. Just before V-day you make a trip plan to make everything settle down but don’t show your intention before him/her as sometimes sudden surprise makes you feel much better. (But I am very poor in this as I can’t keep any secrete and I can’t be rude to those whom I love a lot.)

5)    Just before V-day -Send your loved one with a sorry note, sweet, short and sexy text.

6)    Leave a little note in his/her mostly use thing, so they will find it when they wake up early.

7)    Surprise him/her with that special something they have been coveting (no matter how big or small).

8)    Take a drive together — car trips provide some of the best time for talking one-on-one.

9)    Propose him or her

10)   Explore your adventurous sides together — do something daring that neither of you have tried before, such as bungee jumping or sky diving. The experience will bring you closer

11)  Take a trip to the beach.

12)    Next, you guys know it better.

These are my views in special way how you can make V-day more memorable as creating memories is very difficult than normal memories. Most of the time we knowingly create memories. So this is how I think you can create a beautiful start of your love journey with creating memories.

Ideas for Lonely people -

People spend Valentine's Day alone for a number of reasons.

1)    Sometimes it's because you're in a long-distance relationship and the one you'd normally spend the day with is too far away to make plans.

2)    Sometimes it's because your partner is a nurse, chef, police officer, bartender, or any other profession that is required to work nights.

3)    Sometimes you just want a solo day due to some reason.

4)    Sometimes you don’t get someone who can make your life beautiful with their love 

Reasons may be many to be single but ideas are many to celebrate your love.

Sometimes people think, you are dump that’s why you are not getting any lover but truth is REAL PEOPLE, don’t cheat. They just love one and show their love in 1000s ways. They can’t be fit with all, it’s all about mind as well as heart matching.

"Love: You're not meant to wait for it. You're not meant to search for it. You're meant to generate it." ~ Michael Beckwith

It is time to create a Valentine’s Day that will put a smile on your face.

1.    Invite others that you know who are also alone and enjoy a night on the town. Do it right with dinner and a movie perhaps.

2.     Call your parents for an especially long talk or visit in person. Love begets love. Give it a try. 

3.   If you are more daring, try something you have never done before. Remember when you were a kid? What was exciting and a little daring? Why not do that now? Skydiving, skiing down the big mountain (The one that you promised yourself you would ski down someday!) roller skating, and hiking, are just a few examples.

4.    Take yourself on a date! The first time I ever did this, it felt a little strange. The first thing I noticed was I got to make all the decisions myself. I didn’t have to ask if I could go to MY favourite restaurant. I went to the show I wanted to see. It felt very liberating. Give it a try and remember to buy yourself flowers and a teddy bear.

This Valentine’s Day make a conscious choice to find joy and happiness right where you are. The first step to being in love again is learning to love YOU! 

So celebrating love may be different but love is love. EVERYONE TASTE OF MEANING OF LOVE IN DIFFERENT WAY.

Never ever be sad if you are alone, God is busy in writing your PERFECT LOVE STORY. If you are good, you deserve, Good also.