LOVE AND DHOKA - A NEW TREND IN BUSINESS MARKET

“We accept the love we think we deserve.” ~Stephen Chbosky

In the materialistic and more dramatic world, getting pure form of LOVE is a kind of DREAM for all of us. No matter how much you earn or what position you are – all want a pure form love but are we all get what we deserve especially when it comes to love.

Do you think love should have a measurement, so that we can measure who is actually deserve for our love. Based on that parameter we should choose and marry.

I think these celebrities have NO BRAIN (I respect them most and adore them too. Why I am saying reason is there… just read my article till last)

1)    Amitabh bachchan and jay bachchan (height)

2)    Sachin Tendulkar and Anjali Tendulkar (age)

But their love was , is and will be stronger than media and people’s word , that’s why their love is ever green and pure till now , they are not the only couple - like this many more couples are there or in other words big celebrities have least known wives or husbands .

So what do you mean by LOVE then?

I found that in present world, we mostly attract towards people as per our mind-set and business oriented. But do you think – in love business should be involved.

Business no doubt give you everything except LOVE so keep your love life and business separate. What I always believe.

So how do you feel when you are in love?

There are those moments in life when things suddenly shift from a deep, sad shade of blue to a lighter shade of sky, and then eventually the beautiful reds and pinks and oranges of a sunrise.

Love is very different which gives you enamors courage to do anything and to get love you can cross 7 seas too. That’s the power of love but after a certain stage of my life I realize the value of LOVE then I thanks God! I am single.

Love is sex, time pass, use other for benefit and kind of pleasure – that’s it. There is no heart to heart connection, then I realize why I can’t fall in love with anyone as my gene most probably defective. that’s why I cheated from friendship time itself so my love story always ends before it begins as god knows I can’t handle the LOVE BREAK UPS and CHEATING even I can’t do too.

How I see the love –

1)    A different flavor all total

2)    A kind of long life journey together

3)    Supporting for each other

4)    Helping each other to grow

5)    No secrete within us

6)    Beauty- No any kind of barriers (Except too older to me *Maximum 5 yrs as i am 24+ or 25 so i'll seek anyone around age range within 29 not more than that as now the world is changing , mostly now a days girls prefer guys with same age so there will b friend like feeling and i am one of them and I AM HARD CORE OPEN MINDED GIRL , I am a flavor of both traditional as well as western mix . Already committed one (My friends) , Oh don't take it in other sense - this sentence (This can be used as married too - This is valid of celebrities sorry to say ! i am happy with a normal life with a good family . I have a big dream to change the world but without changing my family and it's worth ) – I don’t even look at them. I can love a full dark complex man with normal looking, instead of these kind of people – I have problem sorry :D)

  " I AM A HARD CORE OPEN MINDED THAT'S WHY IT'S NOT EASY TO HANDLE "

So these are my way of loving – till now I don’t have any boyfriend but I know he would be the luckiest or unluckiest one. Lucky – if he is true to me, unlucky – he gonna get torture from me, if he gonna cheat me or think about cheating. That’s why I always tell others – I always keep 2 kind of relationship with boys 1) Brother 2) Friend, No place for lover. Don’t dare to become my lover otherwise you are going to suffer a lot as I am going to torture you as I am fully perfect in my ways and I hate if anyone try to control me and doubt on me as I neither cheat nor I let others to cheat anyone. My life simple fund – I love all , but don’t try to use me otherwise you don’t know how and when I gonna use you , you most probably unaware of this fact . That’s why I always live single until unless I find someone who really deserve for me or can say who have faith on me and can fight with anyone to save my respect , also respect his country and people too – that matters most for me as I gonna be a social worker in my near future. He should be in any profession or as per wealth standard – I least brother about this, As for this I am struggling from last 8 years(last school life to MBA) to make me successful as well as economically stable too . If my intention was to marry a RICH MAN or HIGHLY EDUCATED ONE , then why I spend much money on me – Forget about money I spend for me , why I struggle hard to become successful and now also I am struggling as I am independent mind set but yes ! I love those men – WHO ARE HARD WORKING AND ALWAYS TRY TO PROVE THEMSELVES as "BEST IN ALL" , I love those people - who try hard to become successful , I hate lazy and coward people from CORE OF MY HEART , as these kind of people never ever change no matter how much you motivate or help them as they never ever try from their side. So every women don’t look for successful men but YES ! they look for men WHO WANT TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE SO THAT THEY FEEL PROUD ALSO as economically they may be stable but in socially everyone want to have such kind of status, when you are in higher position – you also want your life partner should be at least few steps a head than you or one-two steps less than you – PERFECT MATCH FOR DREAMERS .

So how can we measure we deserve for anyone else or not.

1)    Is it the height issue – we’ll measure someone’s height then we marry but it’s true that mostly man should be more heighted than woman. So that the combination looks good and mostly in that way God has created us but same height or less height is also not a bad combination - sometimes it is BEST ONE TOO *LOVE*. 

2)    Is that age issue – No comment here? I don’t know anything

3)   Is it wealth issue – Ha! If you love someone for his/her wealth then forget you can’t win that person’s heart ever. Every time love can’t use as a business, people with different career with marriage are happier than same career, scientifically proven. so focus on your separate goals but help each other and understand each other

4)  Is it family background – Ha! Then most of us will hide our face here except few. Because before 20-30-40 years back how someone’s family standard that changed drastically over a period of time. Those who once ruled over others now they live a very normal life and those who have no lands now they are in big corporate houses. So if you judge someone’s family you can’t judge everything. As per education people life style also changing so what is matter most for me –YOU – THAT’S WHY, I COUNT MYSELF. I make myself deserve so much – someone should marry me not my family otherwise I can took him to my birth place -for my background survey and show him what we were in past but in the end he have to lose me . As after educating so much if someone take me like this – better I should not love or marry someone. I hate such kind of ill mind-set people. if we judge Gandhiji’s and many more past rich leaders then you’ll find very few family background right now in that state only and those who are very poor even don’t have land now they are treated as crorpati even though they are less educated than us . THIS IS THE PRESENT STATUS OF WORLD.

(I can show mirror to people when someone try to show me the mirror as I have all valid data’s with information to show them the right mirror)

Now a day’s world is changing so we also should accept the change -I see people accepting less than they deserve. I see strong, wonderful, inspiring men and women giving cheaters, liars, game players and emotional abusers chance after chance after chance.

Now I just want to advice to all – get rid of such kind of relationships - please stop chasing after the guy/girl who doesn’t reply to your texts. The one who is only ever interested when you’re on your knees in front of him/her. The guy/girl who consistently lies and cheats and then tells you he/she’s changed. Stop trying to find excuses for his behavior because you’re too afraid to admit that he/she’s just a player.

We all deserve better when it comes to love, we all want a pure form or love not good looking or rich person.

Keep waiting for best to come rather than give chances to many - and one day someone will notice that twinkle in your eyes or the tiny freckle above your lip and they’ll start to fall. They’ll want to protect you and love you and hold you close and whisper, “You are the world.”

Faith on God as God is love.

(If you never ever cheat anyone then you will not be cheated also in future, you may get love very late but that is worth enough)

=My poem=

Meri aukat iss payr ki safar main

Ye maula , ye khuda

Kesa payr tune dia

Jis ko main ney

kud ki dil se bhi jada paayra aur dhadkan ki bohot karib mana

aaj usne mujhe mere aukat puch raha

Ye maula , ye khuda

Kesa pyaar tune dia

Iss dil ko main kya bolu

Ye tune kya dia

Ye dil tho tha bada mashoom

Sahi galat ka pehechan nehi paya

Kuch nejre itni paari thi ki

Dil kaar ke , dil ko chu gaya

Aaj bhi yaad hai mujhe wo din

Jab hum pehele mile hue the

Mulakat kuch aise hui thi hamari yaaron,

Dekha use to bas dekhta hi reh gaya.

Ye maula , ye khuda

Kesa pyaar tune dia

Iss dil ko main kya bolu

Ye tune kya dia

Mile the hum ajnabi ki tarah, pata nehi kab hum uski aashiqui ban gaye

na jane kab ek-doosre ke paas aa gaye

Bina kuch kahe samajh jate ek-dooje ke ankahe ehsas

Kuch is tarah dil paas aa gaye the ki

ek din bina dekhe jina bhi muskil hogaya tha

Yaad aa gaya uska wo man-mand muskurana.

Apni hi baaton par mujhse naraj hona,

Aur fir uska kaan pakad kar maafi maangna yaad aa gaya.

Ye maula , ye khuda

Kesa pyaar tune dia

Iss dil ko main kya bolu

Ye tune kya dia

Kyon hota hai ye payr

Kyon kart te hain log ishq

Jab dil hi tud wana ho

Chahat to abhi bhi hai usse milne ki

Ek ummed abhi bhi baaki hai dil khilne ki

Fir bhi darta hai dil uske saamne jaane se

Dekh meri muflisi, uska mujhe meri aukat batana yaad aa gaya.

Ye maula , ye khuda

Ye tune kar dala

Next time I’ll write better poetry . This is purely written by me , hope you all appreciate my work . This poetry is for my all friends who cheated from love .

PS – I beg sorry to everyone as I am poor in Hindi , so you might have find so many spelling mistake as per pronunciation concern . I apologies for that !!!