WHAT EVER YOU CHOOSE , CHOOSE THE BEST ONE

"Whatever you choose, choose the BEST one”, I feel it’s a wise decision. Because our choice matters a lot. While we are choosing something for our life that should be the best one , as once our choice implemented in our life we can’t go further back & try to rectify it again. We can’t...yeah, some choices  we can, but NOT all. So why should we choose a bad one, I believe whatever you choose that should be BEST ONE FOR YOU. DON’T THINK ABOUT WORLD. As most of the time what people think that may not be perfect or suitable for you. Choose according to you, with which you are comfortable ,as you have to live with that .so be a good chooser. So now it’s a big question comes in your mind HOW TO BE GOOD CHOOSER. It’s really very difficult & wise task as I think. As your choice can MAKE YOU OR BREAK YOU. So it’s totally depends on your future.  We don’t wanna spoil our life in our own hand.

I believe- whether you choose any career, a job, a friend, a life partner. Be wise at that time. As these things play a great role in our life. These things have a great power to break us wholly or to   make us .  So now the question is how to be good chooser.

Career matter:-

What we want we don’t get most of the time, but it doesn’t matter our life stop there. No it’s not like that . We always prepare ourselves for next move. We are very flexible. I think, it’s better to do what you love. As here you will get self satisfaction. Make a list of  priority  of your work. Sometimes what’s our 1^st priority we don’t get that, so be wise. Make a list of priority. So that you will not break if your one dreams become unfulfilled. At a time you should be a good listener as well as good chooser. Sometimes people give you their opinion on career, but it doesn’t work. It’s doesn’t mean they want your failure or they are always right for you. It’s not like that. But they suggest you what they think right. So never take everyone’s word as granted. Listen them -think from your mind & heart. Choose a best one. This is the only step you can take. So never be depressed or worry if your one dream unfulfilled. See your next priority, try to fulfill that. I believe to reach at one goal many different paths are there. Shortcut path – which may lead you failure in future, as I believe there is no shortcut path to get success in your life . Yeah, sometimes people are lucky enough to get the thing what they want. It’s the different case. Choose the best path which leads you success –it may be difficult or may take a long time . Still choose that one. If your one path breaks then choose next path to reach at same goal. GOAL IS ONE BUTS PATH DIFFERENT. So be wise before making any choice in career matter.

Job matter:-

In our life we get many jobs & leave also. So be chosen, where you are comfortable with everything. As job life affects us a lot. We can’t separate our job life from our personal life. Sometimes due to our job life we spoil our personal life . It not only gives you money but also give you inner peace. So why you choose a wrong one. Never be hurry in job matter, maybe it’s late, still choose a best one. For which you’ll never cry in your life further.

Friendship matter:-

Sometime people say don’t be a chosen in friendship matter, but I think it’s really matter. As one drop poison can make a pot full of milk into poisonous.  So be wise. A friend can make you as well as break you. So while making any friend thinks twice. Be wise at that time. No doubt we make friendship with everyone. In our life we have many friends but we don’t give priority to all . But it’s the case while you choose a good friend/best friend. Because they play important role in your life & can affects your life also. Sometimes a good friend becomes a reason of your success & sometimes a bad friend is also a reason of the failure in your life. So why we choose a bad one while it’s come to life. A bad friend can ruin your life wholly. But this also true we can try to make them  good person. But I believe it’s totally depends on the mind set up. If your bad friend love you a lot then he/she will try to change. If that person means to harm you or ruin your life that person will never change. So here you can mark, whether that friend is true to you or not. You can mark their activities also. Be wise while making someone as your true friend. As sometimes people came to your life to know the secret & weakness. So never be hurry for making friends. Take some time before making someone as your TRUE FRIEND/ GOOD FRIEND/ BEST FRIEND.

Life partner matter:-

It’s a fully risky work as I believe. Sometimes people believe in arrange marriage & sometime people believe in love marriage. But I believe both are same. It’s totally depends on your mind set up. But I prefer love marriage. No doubt our parents always try to choose a best one. They want to give us all pleasure of the world. But they can’t read the mind of the other person. That’s why most of the time women torture a lot after marriage. But they can’t raise their voice as they don’t want to hurt their parents. So they become silent & tolerate like a stone. But I think a woman is not for sacrifice or tolerate everything. Why she will tolerate everything. So it’s a great risk in your life. As we can’t marry how much time we want. WE HAVE TO CHOOSE ONLY ONE & THAT’S THE FINAL. If our choice is wrong then that will ruin our whole life, if that is good then we feel we got everything in our life. After marriage they become a part of your life. Your life & their life become one & sometimes they become a reason of your success. So why we should take risk. Be a good chooser. Sometimes we have to be wise & think everything from our mind. As in this case our heart may cheat us but not our mind. Ask your mind whether that person is true or not. Believe them still doubt their all activities. Choose a person who not only uplift you but also understand you. As in this male dominating society, mostly a male partner can’t see his female partner’s success. So be wise in this case. Choose a person who will support you in your work now & future. With good understanding. It doesn’t matter how he/she looks or how much money he/she have. As we are not going to marry with someone’s money or looks. We marry with their heart. It’s for working women. But when you wanna be a good housewife, well understanding is much important in this case. As when you are a house wife you can’t realize the painful working life & its pressure. As most of the time it’s the reason behind the divorce as women think their men don’t love. It’s not the reason; it’s their work load which makes their life just like hell. So be wise whenever you are a working lady or house wife. So be a good chooser while you choose something for your whole life. Choose a person in your mentality & who understand you , IT’S MATTER A LOT.  As it may lead you to success as well as death also.

SO BE WISE IN THESE FOUR MATTERS. WHAT I BELIVE J