ALL WOMEN / GIRLS ARE NOT SAME

 I gonna write this article from my heart. Something really hurts me, that’s why I gonna share here & the mentality of some people & the rude society.

I PREFER TO TELL EVERYTHING IN PUBLIC BECAUSE I CAN'T ALLOW OTHERS TO MOTIVATE MY MIND IN ANY WRONG DIRECTION, SO IT'S A BEST WAY TO CUT THEM FROM YOUR PATH. THEY WILL NOT DARE TO SUGGEST YOU ANY WRONG THING FURTHER. WHICH IS BEYOND OF MY PRINCIPLE...MY PERSONALITY IS DIFFERENT ... SO BE AWARE OF IT, BEFORE  GIVE ME SUGGESTION THINK TWICE & THRICE ..... 

I really don’t know, when a woman wants to establish herself why she faces lots of difficulties, why society don’t help her. Yeah, I agree now women are doing jobs. But why a woman always prefer a job like any office work or any education line or an actress …why she don’t wanna be an industrialist or an inventor or a Boss. Why? Is the society don’t support them or they don’t get help or they can’t tolerate the bad, nasty comments from society, that’s why they give up .  Is this the main reason…I think yes. I have seen most of the parents even if girls wanna do job & then marry. Sometimes they quit their job after marriage, but I think a woman can handle both. A woman can be a good mother & a wife as well as a good professional worker. But it need a lots of patience. But I think it’s not impossible, even if I have seen every developed country the women are getting equal importance like men. yeah , it’s not 100% equal importance at least 80% equality is there , but in INDIA it’s a DAY DREAM…till now I have never heard a woman name in  successful personality list as an industrialist or inventor   or something in a big post. I never heard, it’s because of the rude behavior of the society . if a girl need help or wanna do something  then they take it in many different sense  like SHE IS A BIG FLIRT  OR SHE NEED MONEY OR SHE IS A VERY CLEVER  & EVIL GIRL ….MANY MORE NASTY COMMENTS…WHAT IS IT ??? 

Oh , u mean a girl always should under your shoes  & obey your order like DOG … do you wanna a woman should live like this… sorry I don’t wanna even if I can’t tolerate such kind of behavior against woman. I know very few women support me still I don’t care… it’s my fighting  & my life . Now I am able to tolerate such kind of behavior of society against women. Sometimes I have seen how some people see a woman , sometimes I wanna cut their eyes & break their hands , legs & make their life just like hell ... seriously telling…what !  a girl has no freedom…even if my blood warms whenever I read the history , how women was treated at that time. How much they tolerate at that time. It made me cry, sometimes I ask myself, why there is so much difference. While we all are god’s children… sometimes it hurts me when parents knowingly kill their new born girl child, how they use their girls for money. It actually happens in many places. I hear this news most of the time. It breaks my heart. Frankly speaking. I can’t bear more.

I can’t tolerate if anyone tell me anything about my character, I know what I wanna do , what I my planning.  I can’t give respect to those people who don’t know how to respect women – they use very filthy language for women. I too hate such kind of personality, may people love them for their work but sorry I can’t respect them. There is no respect for those people who don’t know how to behave others. All girls are not prostitute; you can’t say whatever you want. Think before whatever you wanna say or deliver. Because your one word can’t destroy your whole personality or work or your fame. Be aware of it.

Yes, now I am in angry mood, now I am in an angry mood. Yes I am. Because now I think, enough is enough. Neither girls nor boys are good, even if not supportive .Now I gonna do what I want. I am not going to stealing anyone’s money, I am not a thief, I am a educate person & I wanna make my own name. so if you can’t help me in my path or if you can’t give me guaranty to help me in my path, then who are you to suggest me. I don’t need it, till now except my papa I don’t get any help from anybody, still I am determinant & hope for the best that one day my dream will fulfill. Seriously telling except my papa I never seen anyone who helped/helps  me, who honestly motivates me. My family members also want I should marry & live like my other sisters. BUT PAPA WANTS DIFFERENT & ONE DAY HE ALSO TOLD ME   “I WANNA SEE YOU A SUCCESSFUL WOMAN , I HAVE ONLY ONE WISH- YOU SHOULD FULFILL YOUR DREAM ,NOT LIVE LIKE A HOUSEWIFE…DON’T WORRY , MAY THE WHOLE WORLD AGAINST YOU , BUT MY SUPPORTS & MY BLESSINGS IS ALWAYS WITH YOU.” which gave me lots of hope & courage . THAT’S THE REASON MY PAPA IS MY LIFE, WHEN HE WILL DIE, MAY BE THAT DAY WILL BE MY LAST DAY IN THIS WORLD. I CAN’T LIVE A DAY WITHOUT HIM. As except him, no one can understand me, he is the only person in THIS WHOLE WORLD. WHO BELIEVES ME, WHO ENCOURAGE ME, EVEN IF HE NEVER WORRY TO SPEND MONEY FOR ME. HE IS MY GOD, MY WORLD & EVERYTHING FOR ME.

I seriously  hate when ever people comments me, that also very bad comments. I have also seen here very few people who truly want a woman’s success. Neither men nor women want, it’s bitter truth . it also surprise me , how a woman become a enemy of another woman . why , I don’t know ???  Seriously telling !

Even if everywhere I have seen women always in down position. Till now except INDIRA GANDHI no one was /is born like her in INDIA,  I have seen most of the INDIAN MAN wants their wife should obey their all orders & handle their family. I also agree, a woman has power to make a home into heaven & has power to destroy it also(so be aware of it). But it doesn’t mean they have no freedom, they don’t wanna their self identity. It’s not like that, everyone wants. But most of the time they give up for their family & due to depression , even if their family also don’t support them to do job further . It’s not a rare case,  it’s a general case in INDIA. But I don’t know why? Why people behave like this.

I want to say all – “how you will handle a woman in that way you will also get result “ . All women are not mean minded or all women are prostitute or all women are not beggar. They also wanna make their own name, but they need help. It doesn’t mean they want money from you; they need your support & knowledge to stand. Even if this society don’t accept a women to do anything alone that also a high profile job, that’s why she need a man to help her. In INDIA… yeah, few state are there where women treated like as man like KERALA & SOME WEST- SOUTH PLACES... except this most of the places women are treated like prison like – Rajasthan , Bihar ,  Jammu & Kashmir , Orissa etc…  here you can find a great difference. But why?

Why a woman has no freedom to dream high, it doesn’t matter how much she capable. Because A PERSON’S capability doesn’t define them, a person’s inner greatness comes into spotlight, when he/she get chance to flourish . You can take any example of INDIAN MOST SUCCESSFUL INDUSTRIALIST OR INVENT,  ALL ARE BELONGS TO VERY POOR FAMILY, STILL THEY  CAPABLE OF ESTABLISH THEIR NAME...you can take Reliance company < dhirubhai ambani> –if you study then you can realize - everyone belongs to very poor family…even if STEVE JOBS ALSO BELONGS TO A VERY POOR FAMILY , GALLIO , MADAME CURIE, many more…all are not too genius or having very excellent career background ...some of them also failed many times in their life ... so here I wanna say all are not born leader, even if Einstein’s childhood life was so funny, but now he is the father of modern physics.   So you can’t predict someone’s future.

Here I am not saying I am from a beggar family, that’s why I need monetary help. sorry , I don’t need it ,  my whole family has also name , my grand papa & his ancestors  were  land lords in my whole village .but I don’t wanna live in their identity & I wanna earn money in my talent & I don’t like to depends on others too much , even if from my parents also. That’s the reason I wanna do a job to earn money to fulfill my dream .yeah, I need help means – knowledge & support … which I never get from anywhere , but  this evil society take it in a different sense.

So it’s my kind request to all of you, behave like a human being.

ALL WOMEN ARE NOT SAME , BE CAREFUL  WHAT WORD YOU ARE USING & FOR WHOM .

Everyone has some PURPOSE of living, but it’s too hard for a girl to fulfill her wishes alone... here I wanna deliver my greatest  gratitude to my lord  for a beautiful gift – My GREAT PARENTS. AT LEAST MY GOD HAS GIVEN ME SOMETHING PRECIOUS WHOM I CAN SAY MINE & CAN BELIEVE BLINDLY & WHO TRULY UNDERSTAND ME. 

PS :- DON'T TAKE IT PERSONALLY , IT'S FOR WRONG PEOPLE . THEY MAY BE MY COLLEGE FRIENDS <GIRLS + BOYS> OR ANY PERSON WHO DON'T KNOW THE MANNER . I HAVE NOT WRITTEN ANY LOVE STORY HERE , SO DON'T TAKE THIS POST IN A LOVE MATTER.  DON'T TAKE MY ALL WORDS GRANTED , I AM VERY FLEXIBLE , MY MIND ALWAYS CHANGES ... WHAT'S MY DREAM , I'L DO IT...SO DON'T TELL ME WHAT I WANNA DO & DON'T.... 
SORRY IT'S FOR SOME BAD PEOPLE... NOT FOR ALL , WHO GIVE ME BAD SUGGESTIONS...!!!