LEAVE YOUR FOOTPRINT ON EVERYONE'S HEART

We live in a world where we all need each other , our behavior , personality & words also effects others life. So we always should care about it, sometimes our small small mistakes or words can hurt others, which we can’t even mark. So make yourself in such a way that nobody get hurt from your side, don’t care about what other are saying may be they get jealous for your such kind of behavior so be yourself. Always keep one thing in your mind you are the special piece of God. No one can be like you. So be good & do something good for others how much you can.

DO YOU THINK LEAVE YOUR FOOT PRINT IN EVERYONE'S HEART IS HARD , SORRY , NO , IT'S EASY . JUST TRY TO RECTIFY YOURSELF & BE IMMORTAL IN EVERYONE'S HEART .

In our lives we should give more value to kindness, humility and  compassion as everyone need these poor even rich, all need these.  But slowly people are becoming so selfish and arrogant behavior, which often affects the lives of those who loves them. It also true i this developing world everyone wanna develop , it’s a kind of responsibility you take for yourself  sometimes it make our life more busy & irritating , but within this busy schedule we have to save sometime for ourselves  like for meditation & judging to ourselves (our behavior & personality). Recovering your sense of to integrity or goodness begins with identifying your personal values. Goodness is the first step to success and happiness. One of the simplest ways to get happiness is love others and treat them as you would like to be treated. Try to think of others before yourself, before judging others try to know their whole story, before commenting others put yourself in their position. Even doing small things daily will greatly enrich and improve your life, and the lives of others around you. To be a good person is not easy because you have to believe in people & have to love this world, sometimes you have to do something different for others. Become a good person is easy when you rectify your mistakes before telling others. Make a list of your mistakes or drawbacks & try to rectify that. No one in this world is perfect but you can try to be a better lovable person. Don’t expect what you are doing others will do same for you, kill your expectations & focus on your work. One day you will get your result. I am saying kill your expectations as expectations are the only reason which gives you pain. So no expectations no pain, you can do your work selfless way.

Now I gonna say how our small act of kindness affects other lives

To start your mission to become a good person, make a list of drawbacks & always give more emphasize on it. Don't try to be like somebody else; just be yourself as you know what you are & who you are. Keep one thing in your mind no one is equal & no one’s situations also. So do what you can dodo how much, below I make a list of work which everyone can do.

Love yourself

Practice unconditional self-acceptance. It is a lot easier to love others, but first you have to have confidence and love yourself. You will start to be a better person when you can put a smile on someone's face and make his or her day, and it will make yours as well. It has been said that it's in giving that we receive.

 Faithful

Faithfulness may be one of the most important characteristics when it comes to become a good person. Be faithful in small cases. Your faithfulness gives confidence to others to make friendship with you. So be faithful.

Honest

Honesty is a great quality every single person should have but it’s often not that easy to find. A real honest person will tell you the truth and not just what you want to hear. An honest man will not use sleazy stories to get away from things or to look good. It’s true that brutal honesty can be offensive sometimes but it’s better to live with truth than lie. Everyone wants that but very few does that. Now a day it’s very difficult to become an honest person, even if you are people still comments you as flack. Still don’t listen stay with truth & be honest. Honesty is a great quality for a good man to have. Good things happen late but if you follow right path. So be honest to your parents, friends, lover etc. (those who believe in you, specially don’t cheat those who believe you blindly. I am saying I am purely honest towards my parents. I love to be honest but if I get that same from others.)

Mature

Being mature means a person is able to care of him and approaches problems with a calm and collected manner. He/she understands the importance of being a human, being independent and values what he/she has.

 A mature person can able to carry himself/herself along with others in a public setting in a respectable manner and understands his/her adult role. A good matured person listen others & take a good decision, a child character is prints with in everyone’s heart but a matured person knows where to show where not. How to handle the situation & people. It’s an important characteristic.

Positive Attitude

A good person should have a positive attitude which may be difficult to find since we live in such a negative society. With a positive attitude, people will want to be around him/her and to have fun around him/her. A good person will be happy with his/her life and the world around him/her and he/she will want to look out for others and to help them. Positive people are usually quite different from negative people and they tend to smile and laugh more.

With a positive man, he/she will be smiling and always brightening up people’s days. Hershel will be a joy to be around and his happiness should spread to you and you should feel happy when you are around him/her. Even A good person Try to look at the bright side of things.  Be like a light.

Accept everyone as one

Everyone around you as your brothers and sisters no matter what race, age, sexual orientation, gender identity or culture. Realize that we have feelings, and should be treated with respect. We all are one.

Say sorry & thanks where needed

If telling sorry or thanks can please someone so why should not try this. I don’t think it hurt our ego. It’s better to say sorry & keep any relationship. even Don't say anything rude or discuss on those matters what makes someone angry, if you bi mistakenly told then Say 'I understand ! it is usually the wrong answer in wrong time ,i can understand you, so sorry I’ll not repeat further?" don’t do the same mistakes further, otherwise you may lose that relation (if you do the same further at that time that person will think you are doing intentionally). So be careful your words & works.

Stop comparing others with yourself. 

Try to understand that some have it better than you in life, but at the same time, many have it much worse. When we make ourselves miserable by comparing ourselves with others, we are wasting time and energy that we could use in building our own inner resources. Real life is found in using our own gifts and talents rather than over focusing on the gifts of another.

Respect everyone

Respect others (especially elders, no matters how much they are elder than you) is a great thing you can do to please others. Always keep one thing in your mind that you will be old someday, how you feel when someone younger tells you something rudely and you may need a helping hand at that time. By developing this attitude of love and understanding for the gentle things of life, like the elderly, you are on your way to the true meaning of life and sharing, and you will become a better person.

Compliment others & celebrate others victory 

Celebrate others' victories and good qualities, even when you do not feel as blessed as they do. It may seems like little but a great meaning hide within it , your small act of kindness can change someone’s life a lot. Can encourage them to achieve more success.

Share your life story and good philosophies with others.

Share your good moral values & life lessons with others. So that they will not repeat the same mistakes what you did in the past. Sharing is like caring, if you share your mistakes means you care for others, that’s why you share your life lessons & philosophies with others.

Smiling face

Even doing simple things, such as smiling at someone who seems unhappy or holding the door open for a stranger, will help you become a better person. Soon enough, these small acts of kindness will become a habit that you don't even have to think about.

World is good

When you will take that this world & the people all are good at that time you will not feel difficulties in loving others. Understand that you can be looked down on by a more popular belief. Unfortunately, that is just human nature. However, remember that being a good person is harder than being a bad person, so never take the easy way out. Remember to always stand for what is right, even if it means you stand alone. Always be happy no matter what situation comes in your life, happiness is a state of mind. The only thing in the world that we can control is ourselves, so choose to be happy, and control you by purposely maintaining a positive mental attitude.

Remember that people will be nice to you if you are nice to them. (Treat others the way you would like to be treated)