DOES DRESSING SENSE MATTERS - PERSONAL LIFE STORY (PART 22)

Does dressing sense & looks really matters when it comes to success.

What your answer should be?

Let me guess…

Everyone wants to dress better even everyone wants to look beautiful, as it directly & indirectly influence our career & success line.

I have seen many people whose first priority is on looks specially when you are a women, I don’t know why corporate level wants sexy & beautiful lady employees. Whether you are in corporate level or any level, now it’s a basic need. A beautiful woman become more successful than average looks woman that’s why now plastic surgery demand is more than past world but found mostly in Korea. This is proved too so now a day’s become beautiful is not a big task if you have money , you will looks younger every time by slow down your ageing process , but what I found mostly intelligent & professional men prefer a women who fit with their mind , some rarely care for looks but their number is very few. You might have seen this in your family or in surroundings too.

Don’t you think we allow sexism through this, doesn’t it?

I mark every cases, I love to experiment on everything & everyone. I found near about 75% people attracted towards dressing sense – forget about corporate level – I am going to share simple day today life real example “if you (girl) wear something different which enhance your looks some girl feel jealous & boys more attracts towards you. Guys mainly love to talk with those girls whose dressing sense is good means overall in one sentence – sexy & pretty. Whether it’s any party or any simple class.”

About looks, yeah it matters even don’t too. Still I have seen some people whose choices based on knowledge than looks & some choice based on looks, I found higher posts men or entrepreneurs choose beautiful & smart women not needed to be more knowledgeable. whereas a intelligent woman wants a intelligent man as it helps her , looks rarely matters when you are a women what I have seen , matters but not all time specially when you find an intelligent men , but it reverse in men cases they more attracted towards beautiful women. This is a kind of my brief view on dressing sense & looks.

When we are in corporate or any level where we need more cooperation with outside world, at that time we not only focus on our own dressing sense but also we should care about their culture & life style. Sometimes I have seen people comments others life style & culture which I hate too much, all born with different culture, so we should respect all. Even I am saying in India within 28 states, you will find many different cultures, dressing sense to food. I love to know & understand different culture. Which is a basic point we all should care first? I have seen many foreigners who comes India SPECIALLY PURI in Ratha yatra time, they also wear Shari, jewelry & they really looks gorgeous in that. So like them we should respect all & every cultures. Culture & Art what bring everyone together because it’s a time we all forget everything & celebrate with joy.

I have seen most often people confuse due to your dressing sense – I have heard people call me Muslim as I always wear full dress , where as I am belongs to Pure -Hindu-Brahmin Family, I don’t care what people call me . I respect all religions, but it’s true I love to wear full dresses. It’s my choice even in summer also I wear full T-shirt even my mom also scold me when I wear like this whenever I go any outside. But the actual reason is 1st- I hate sun burn & my skin is very sensitive towards sun , my body is now tri color due to sun burn & my face is more affected or can say more dark than rest body part. So I hate summer & sun due to too sensitive skin, no general cream works for me except very high expensive creams. So better to hide. Sun also a reason to cause skin cancer too.

2nd-I wear full as I feel more comfortable & can work freely.

when I was in hostel my friends even my roommate scold me for my dressing sense as they know, how I wear as I can’t bear HOT, I cut my dresses as per my choice to get relief from summer, I love to design my dress: P they scold me finally adjust with me as it’s my choice, I can wear anything. I love to wear minis when I am within girl circle or can say in hostel as I feel secure :P it’s true , but when I am in outside I care a lot as I am not so comfortable with boys ,may be I rise in that background. So I love even my mother also told me when I was child I had two favorite dresses when I was 4-5 years both are winter dresses, I love to wear that even in summer, at that time nobody told me anything about dressing sense, I simply love to wear full now also I love to wear full – always it’s not salwar, I mainly prefer JENS & T-SHIRT, my favorite I love to wear full hand & simple dresses. I hate that dress which are so much decorated even rarely preferred for parties too. I love to wear simple dress with decent looks. It’s my choice but this also true that everything depends on my mood , sometimes I also came classes wearing daily use type dress , except my presentation & any occasion, my dressing sense always worst .

I really never care, I wear what I see 1st in my almary even some are like my routine dress. the actual truth behind my worst dressing sense is - I am least interest towards boys so I never care for my dressing sense, mainly what I have marked girls wear beautiful dresses even boys too which enhance their looks to attract boys / girls even some are habituated with such kind of life style but my psychology is quite different – I rarely care for my dress & looks as I want who will love me love / like me due to my personality & knowledge not through external beauty. So I knowingly don’t show up much , as I know I can’t do flirting even can’t cheat , so better choose a guy who can accept me for whole life then change guys like dresses but my problem is I always wanna make friendship with all , but finally ended with love issues till now with whom I make friendship all ended with due to this reason , if they are not committed , but this thing I proudly can say all are nice guys even intelligent too but very simple in looks except few as I choose my friends on intelligent & simplicity basis , TRUE FACT . but I always give more priority to friendship than love , yeah, there was also one time I also attracted but I never feel such kind of feelings for anyone whom I can constantly love (DON’T KNOW MY FUTURE – MAY B SOMEONE IS THERE, MY TIME WILL DECIDE) . This is true, that’s why I always say to my heart this is not love so better to stop this case here before it creates any other cases. in college time I rarely give importance on love as I know teen age problem & love ka side effect from my friends life so I decided to stay away from this LOVE LIKE DISEASE Till my education end but now I am well matured girl who understand the world so no problem with Love ,as this time no cheating & flirting as I crossed that stage , it’s time for final love :D:p so my dressing sense is unique , I rarely care but it’s make me irritate when people call me many names due to my dressing sense even I rarely wants to looks beautiful , so I always keep my hair short & wear jeans mainly but when it social work matter I always prefer salwar . These are my style; I have no such boundary in dressing sense. Even I have spend near about 7 years in hostel & outside (far away from my home)– in hostel & outside I can wear anything & can do anything as I have money & my parents were far away from me but I know what I should wear & do . When I go outside I always care about my dressing sense first, I wear those dresses which makes me more conformable .But I have to change as per my work / career & location. I am flexible but problem is I wear which make me feel comfortable & can work perfectly So it varies what kind of dress you choose to wear. I wear as per my choice , I wear as per my own level so when I’ll be more successful may be it will change as per my profession but I mainly prefer full dress , as I feel more comfortable & I can work more freely . My work matters than my looks – it’s my personality & it varies person to person, so we should not interfere with others dressing sense & life. I never interfere unless until someone do 1st or comments me.

Lastly it’s my view on success we should less care about looks but dressing sense actually matters even should too. We should 1st focus on cultural & regional varieties. I was & am a terrible dresser. Don’t know about future may be I’ll change.

 

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