LOVE HAS NO BOUNDARY

2 years back photography @IIIT BBSR

Love all without any reason as We have many reasons to hate each other – “Religion or Language or Region” etc which separate each other. Do you think we need a reason to love others or we need a name to share our love? I believe Friendship, brothers & sister’s relation is universal, I don’t have much knowledge about other relation, what society call as Crush or lover or in living relationship. I only know Friendship, brothers & sister’s relationship.

Love always doesn’t refer to sex; it means collaboration of two hearts neither beauty matter nor status. You should not love someone due to their beauty or how much money they have, If something really matters that is pure form of love. But society take the love relationship as either SEX or for getting benefit. This is true!

I am sharing the bitter truth, nothing good strike in our mind except ugly thoughts “when we see one girl & boy together” I have seen most of the time bad thoughts strike our mind suddenly than good thoughts; this is simple case what I examined from this society. Even most of the times I also face the same situations, sometimes some bad thoughts strike in my mind first then further i change my mind. So why such kinds of thoughts are coming as society has changed its view or look. We are now in 21th century, where we notonly develop in technical sectors but also in criminals sectors too. It’s obvious to take everything in negative sense or in bad sense. So let’s clear your mind if you wanna see your society in better way. We all have to work out even I believe we can do too.

GENDER INEQUALITY

Now also many customs & places are there which are against girl’s freedom, like now also mainly Muslim families are there who follow their strict rule specially made for women , it’s ok if you dress full ,I hate one custom “A male can marry many women even keep at one time ” which is actually wrong . Nodoubt in Hindu there are no strict rules still now also many old people & male dominating societies are there who want women should live like women, I don’t know how a woman should live like. Means they want she should not interfere whatever their men can do, she will be silent, shy & can do all home work. In modern society now also many men exists who wants women should be like this, ha! I have written something extra means more old type, just saying, now also you will find many male dominating families where women condition are worst than their pets. Most of the time I have seen society less support girls , recently two girls beat  3 boys in the bus due to misbehave, now there are some controversial news I got to know that the 2 sisters beat 3 boys for bus seat . Ha ! Can it happen & that also in INDIA , male will be beaten due to bus seat ? I found that many old people against this & try to prove these girls wrong. but I want to ask one question to all “where you are when they were fighting, at that time also many people are present in bus why no one try to stop them or solve that matter at that time. Why you are against those girls now? as they become popular or you fear that other girls will be inspired from them & beat the boys.” I expect this from this male dominating society, I don’t think  , the reason should be for bus seat, I think those guys families give money to these people to proof these girls wrong. So police should take action wisely now as those girls may face more problems due to social injustices.

As a woman what I think right, I wrote here. My view.

So here I question you “where you are when a girl shout for help – recently in Bangalore in a car 2 girls molested by some boys they also shouting for help but some guys were standing near that car but no one try to take any action to save them, instead of complaining police or help those girls they were smiling like monkey. one person killed on the main road how many of you come to save her or his instantly. Why you silent at that time, why you people don’t care for others emotions or life if you silent every time then why you come to speak against these girls now, as they become popular. May be you think that other girls will be influenced by them. Shame. So love all. No gender actually matters.

 RELIGION ISSUES 

I have seen people fight among each other for stupid religion matters, I feel shame on those people, who fight & kill their own brothers taking god’s name. Shame on you. God is one. Try to understand. My religion is humanity.

LANGUAGE ISSUES

I have seen discrimination related to language matters – it’s a big problem in modern world, i think we all should learn 3 fundamental languages – REGIONAL LANGUAGE, HINDI, ENGLISH. English is badly required even I advice all to learn English as it’s a great medium to communicate with whole world. Communication has big impact in our life. I remember once in my own face book status I comment someone “I am not bihary so why you wrote in Hindi” that becomes a great issue after that, my actual problem is I face problem in reading Hindi – this is bitter true fact. I was a Sanskrit student where questions were coming in Sanskrit (HINDI) but we answer in our own language, I don’t know from my beginning I don’t like literature subjects even I get less marks even poor in Oriya too. I can’t write better words means ornamental words but most of the time I stood first in essay writing as due to my writing style & creative writing which impress all. I am also poor in English ornamental writings. So overall I am poor in word power, either Oriya or Hindi or English, as I can’t remember lots of words. But I too love to write, I write to share my voice & my thoughts. Writing is a kind of my voice. So for my controversial statement in face book I heard many comments like – I write in Hindi or Oriya then translate it into English ,where as how much strong I am in English I am not that much strong in Hindi even Oriya also I don’t know all Oriya language . My language is a kind of mixed one. HINDI+ORIYA+ENGLISH MIX. Now my condition is better than school life as in my school all communities students were there & I love to speak in different languages too Even one day I was criticized badly in my 12th board in half yearly exam, I wrote some answer for which my mem read my answer sheet before whole class , as my MIL copy turned into English copy , I wrote equally English + Oriya mix in ORIYA MIL COPY, I can’t forget that day when my mem call my name before whole class & told “I have seen one interesting student copy , you all should learn how to write ORIYA from her. She will be Oriya lectures one day.” <IN JOCK> she insults everyone if some can’t perform better in MIL if someone secure below 35-38 (from 50 mark – in monthly tests) means from she will insult you before whole class I secure average mark means 35, 40 is the maximum mark I got from 50, I am not the only person whose copy she read before whole class, our section topper student copy also she read before whole class. But I gave my example here . I love to learn different languages , I know – HINDI , ENGLISH , BENGALI , ORIYA  [LITTLE TELGU & PANJABI (can’t speak but can understand little) ]etc.  I give more priority to language, maybe I am not pure in all language but I say like anyone can understand. My speaking style is quite different than writing, how fast I can write in English that much fast I can’t write Oriya. This is true, don’t criticize me for this. Please. I don’t know but from my school life I marked this.  Still I am not best in any language, poor in all.

 REGION ISSUES

Lastly I have see people have region feelings means community feelings, what I hate most. Yeah, it’s obvious we all love our motherland where we actually born. But I hate those who hate other people on discrimination issues. I have seen, now also many people with higher educational background do this. forget about regional issues, I have seen many people who are either from PAKISTAN or any other country but working in INDIA they scold every time to India whereas they don’t know who is the reasons for their living . I hate those who make hole on those plates where they eat. Even I have seen many people who are staying in other countries but criticize that place,  here I wanna say one things , if you don’t like any place don’t go, if you go then at least don’t criticize their people & those place who gave you food to eat & place to live. Don’t be so much selfish & rude. Can you harm your parents who make you a well establish person , your motherland or where you do job is also like your parents who give you food & shelter . Don’t you feel shame to criticize, try to love, if you can’t better to leave, if you have brain wherever you will go you can earn money? But I have marked – JAPANESE & USE people are more civilized in this matter, I have marked this from social media & many successful people who passed out from India like one doctor from UK (Sorry forget his name, you can get him in Bill gate’s website “favorite TED talk list”) who is very popular, he passed out from Bangalore medical college & some successful people start their first job from INDIA like Ban ki moon (UN PRESIDENT). I don’t have much knowledge on others but what I have seen I just share my thoughts.  I hurts me when any outsider work in India but criticize India & think about bad for Indians even share their bad impression on India through social media too. It shows that they are either too daring kind of people or too hate India. Those kinds of people actually creates problem for all Indians. They hamper our security. I may can’t do much but can’t tolerate such behavior. Love your country but don’t hate who give you food & shelter. If you do so then you should feel shame on you for your low mentality.

I TAKE THESE PEOPLE AS LOWER CLASS, NOMATTER HOW MUCH MONEY THEY HAVE . AS I BELIEVE “IF YOUR HEART IS NOT PURE YOU CAN’T BE RICH. BE RICH FROM HEART NOT FROM MIND.”