CONTROL OVER YOUR MIND

Life is like a game which we all have to play , it’s a continuous process . we can’t change it’s rule  but can modify it as little bit whenever we require. Sometimes we win and sometimes we lose , but we always should keep moving .

From life we learnt so many thing from each and every steps , which helps us to grow more and more. I still remember my all past lessons , what it taught to me and how I overcome all .sometimes it act as our best friend and big mentor too. So rule of the life is keep moving , if you wanna see yourself in top in future world , who know what you can be .

Life become big challenge , when you try to do something and you don’t have any source at all and sometimes you feel like you lost yourself inside the Bhulbhuleya house and can’t understand how to escape yourself from it.

But have you ever noticed how often the challenges we face  also contains a blessing in disguise? If not, perhaps you haven’t been looking closely enough! life’s challenges usually seem like inconveniences when they interrupt our schedules, or our life or get in the way of something we want to do. Isn’t that part of the reason we call them challenges?

My life is a unique life from the beginning and I know it’ll tough going , now I am (23+) age and I know at least my 27 years life will be like this tough or may be toughest also as my dreams are unique as always .

I’ll never forget those tough days , which turn into blessings right now for me and some also act as my punishment too .

Some memories are as clear in my mind as if it were yesterday.

I don’t like follow all , I follow my own rule and I like to be myself , no matter what happen to me .

I have seen my past and I learnt one lesson – No matter what’ll happen keep moving and one day you’ll reach at your destination. I still remember I always wanna be a doctor in my childhood days as I love to do service for poor people and always wanna do something for them in free but when I did n’t get medical, I joined in engineering then MBA so that I can do the same thing but in different way , MY PATH IS CRYSTAL CLEAR but don’t know how to reach , sometimes I feel like I lost myself running after those what no longer gonna make me happy , still I am running may be just because I am too greedy or I am confused whenever I see others .

I still remember , I lost job opportunities to get M-TECH in my engineering college life , my path was clear but my way of preparation was not that much standard , so I learnt – if you competition is tough you have to be toughest also otherwise you’ll fail , you have to overcome your all challenges too.

There should not be any third person comes between you and your goal , let make friendship with like minded people when time’ll come but first start by yourself.

So I believe in walking alone until unless I reach at my destination.

I have seen , People blame many things for their failure even I also did in my past but now I am wise so I realize the value of myself and my dream and I am not criticizing rest as I realize noone has power over your mind except you , if you can’t handle it better , you have no rights to blame others too.

I take them fool , who run after public brain instead of  their own or who love to listen others . My past memories are quit unforgettable , when I was in college (till 12^th everything was fine as competitions were not so tough but after that it became) I have see how much obstacles I faced for my dream and I also depressed as it distract my mind more just because I focus on others more than myself, which become the main reason behind my down fall so after that I learnt one lesson – LET PEOPLE DO WHAT THEY WANT ,DO WHAT YOU WANT , KEEP FOCUS – FOCUS – FOCUS ON YOUR GOAL!

The more you look at people , the more your mind’ll distract Like “ If you see your friends are doing something and you also want to do the same but unfortunately you missed that which make you depress more” . even I have seen , due to some of my failure career some also doubt on my education and Now , I really don’t care at all, as I know myself and why and what I faced , life becomes easy when you have everything suitable to your time , sometimes I wish to put them in my position and tell them to watch how it looks like or how they still get success then I think let it be as it make me more wise than before as I was a biggest fool in my childhood days. Now I wise enough to follow my dreams as my life taught me great lessons , for those I depressed once or who spoiled my name and criticize me always - now when I look at them they all forget all matters and busy in their life for earning money  , now they are behaving me like a normal friend . so as per time and place everything change even people mind also so better I chose to concentrate on myself rather than others , One day everyone will forget all the issues and sometimes little little issues create big disturbance in our mind but truth is nothing actually matter , I did n’t stop my writing and Follow my B-plan for those who once try to spoil my dream career  , I am still there with my “DREAMS” , did n’t change a little bit as it’s not easy to change my mind easily whereas they all follow the same path like others . so I am happy as I am different as I know what I gonna do , as it’s going to give me long term pleasure , which is more valuable than my tear and problems. So keep your DREAM High so that you’ll get courage to make it real , sometimes with courage you need determination to keep moving , If after struggling 7 years (After 10th) (If anyone go through my whole Blogger he/she can clearly visualize my dreams) nobody can change my mind and DREAMS , I hope in future no one can be too. My dream is like my FUTURE LOVE, “One and Final”.

So life challenges make our life worth living,

I learnt one lesson “start believing and discover possibilities from your challenges.”

Your life is different now but that doesn’t mean it has to be worse. It can be better. Don’t listen to the outsiders who tells you otherwise.

Don’t listen to the experts who tell you that your chances are not good. Listen to your gut. Do the work as per that , sometimes little change is needed to reach at your GOAL point or get success in LIFE too.

You might feel like you are all alone in this, or that you don’t have all the resources. You might feel trapped or feel like you don’t have many choices. Become resourceful. Do the best you can.

Now that you have let go of stuff that does n’t matter, stuff that did n’t work, what could you do to bring normalcy to your life? What can you do to stay sane?

You don’t have to go through a major life change to appreciate what you have. All it takes is a wake up call.

I learnt a lesson - Challenges make you winner not victim.

Challenging circumstances are part of life, that’s not going to change. However, that does n’t mean that you are a victim of circumstances. Your attitude and perception are something that you create. They are not dictated by your circumstances. You always have a choice! So, the real question here is this, will you choose to look for a blessing in every challenge?

Have you had challenges turn out to be blessings?
Have you learned valuable lessons from challenging times?
The lines are open!

For me I am saying -

YES ! I LEARNT AND I’LL NOT REPEAT THE SAME MISTAKE AGAIN !!!