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I personally never came across
anything better than the following which is so abstract and particular about
philosophy of life...
“If wealth is
lost, nothing is lost.
If health is
lost, something is lost.
But, if character
is lost, everything is lost.”
-Billy
Graham
“Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it’s better to be
absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.” | Marilyn Monroe, Marilyn
“ Loneliness is the human condition. Cultivate it. The way it tunnels into you allows your soul room to grow. Never expect to outgrow loneliness. Never hope to find people who will understand you, someone to fill that space. And intelligent, sensitive person is the exception, the very great exception. If you expect to find people who will understand you, you will grow murderous with disappointment. The best you’ll ever do is to understand yourself, know what it is that you want, and not let the cattle stand in your way.” | Janet Fitch
“ Loneliness is the human condition. Cultivate it. The way it tunnels into you allows your soul room to grow. Never expect to outgrow loneliness. Never hope to find people who will understand you, someone to fill that space. And intelligent, sensitive person is the exception, the very great exception. If you expect to find people who will understand you, you will grow murderous with disappointment. The best you’ll ever do is to understand yourself, know what it is that you want, and not let the cattle stand in your way.” | Janet Fitch
We all are unique in our way,
our uniqueness defines us. My life is unique kind of life, what I want I rarely
get that. My love and my dream everything. Lets see what is God is going to
give but sometimes I feel like I am a bad decision maker just because of repeated
mistakes, sometimes I feel like I always spend my life counting days and years
only , yes ! it’s not easy to understand this sentence , actually it’s based on
my personal life issues and love life too. Sometimes I also feel like refugee
or bird , who move one place to another to settle down peaceful and again get
the same pain and decide to change the place , don’t know when I’ll get a
perfect place where I can settle peacefully and say to myself , yes ! This is
the perfect place for me , no doubt there is no perfect place in this world but
presence of some people make that place perfect. I want a loving place , doesn’t
mean to be perfect . I know my destiny , but I don’t want to disclose before
others until unless I get that . I feel give some times to yourself and make
yourself out from everyone else , it’s better to go very far , sometimes I dream
about to go a unknown place where I don’t know anyone else and I’ll start my
new life there , it’s better to start your life in new way . but I don’t think
it’s easy to go very far until unless you become that much capable . so let me
make myself that much capable , hope within 2-3 years I’ll reach there as a self-independent
person. Hope, God at least listen my one prayer , I want to reach at my
destination as soon as possible where I can start my new life with love and
peace. This is my only prayer .
Life taught me many life lessons,
these are the glimpse of my past life lessons-
Lesson 1.
Beginnings are hard:
Starting anything new in life
will be hard. You will need to invest lots of energies, and at times you will
want to give up you still keep motivating yourself to stay in touch . The more
important and significant the change is, the more it will take from you.
Lesson 2.
There will be ups and downs:
Once you have overcome the
initial difficulties in starting something new, you will be tempted to think
that everything else should be easy . But, life, like most running courses,
will have hills with ups and downs.All these day to day small decisions end up
adding up and making the difference between you improving and accomplishing
your running goals.
Lesson 3.
The importance of those small decisions:
The small day to day decisions
play a huge role in building your character. They will end up determining your
long term success and the direction your life takes.When you are not at your
best, it is even harder to face all these small decisions I mentioned. If you
are down for some time because of an injury, it is tough to start again on your
own.
Lesson 4.
You are not alone
The power of self. Whatever new
adventure you start in life, it is important to love yourself and have people
around you those who really wants to see your success that understand and
support it. People that share your passion can make a difference when you need
it. No matter how many friends support you, you will have to face important
decisions on your own, and carry your own weight. It is well known that
"repetition leads to mastery". Everything else will come as per time.
Lesson 5.
Repeat, repeat, repeat, repeat:
Repetition is the key to
mastering most things in life. If you want to become good at doing something,
ask yourself how you can invest thousands of hours in it , as much as
repetition is needed to improve, it is hard to do so without a goal in mind.
During my time running I have learned the power of having concrete goals.
Setting up goals that are achievable in the long run, but not too easy to get
to.
Lesson 6.
Set your goals:
Setting ambitious but
achievable goals in life will help you push harder and will keep you focused
and looking forward.
When I look back at the way I
started dreaming , I realize how many things I did wrong. I have learned so much
since then. I have read books, watched motivational movies and online videos,
talked to people that know much more than I do.
Lesson 7.
Data and knowledge:
Use all the information around
you to improve your life. Data about you can give you insights into how to
become better. And any knowledge you gain from external sources can make a
difference when taking a decision.
Lesson 8.
Everyone has their limits:
Pushing yourself hard is good.
However, there is such a thing as pushing too hard. You need to understand
where your limits are to push them further, but only little by little.
No matter how hard it can get
at some points, no matter how long it can take you, there is no doubt that you
can do whatever you set your mind to. however, now I look back and laugh when I
remember my unreachable goal a little over 5 years ago was only to get medical
then marriage most probably but now , god put me in so many problems now
marriage is a kind of dream for me success matters a lot , so I believe time
has all answer, no one can judge your limit even you also until unless your
situation force you to flourish yourself.
Lesson 9.
But, yes you can:
No matter how low you fall or
how far your goal is, you can do it.
Only think about the many people just like you who have done it before. Why
should you be any less? It is precisely the fact that it is hard and requires
effort for a long period of time what makes it worthwhile. Like most good
things in life.
Lesson 10.
All good things come hard:
Think about it, all worthy
things in life require effort and dedication. Being healthy, fit, happy, having
a career, or a family, they all require your energy and long time investment.
Just go with it, and enjoy every bit of the journey.
Finally Fully Living
Many people fear taking risks,
especially when there is something to lose. This goes on to become a hindrance
in developing an ability that could have helped us positively in our lives. Most
people can say they have experienced a life-changing or defining moment. It's
an event which changes their perception of the world and themselves. It can
make the world feel upside down, and that can be either for the better or for
the worse. The event can be usually dramatic and it can cause extreme sadness
and traumatization, or it can be something fascinating and awesome that can
cause a sense of exploding happiness and joy. It changes things for the better
or for the worse and, in some cases for both. I have had my share of fortunate
and unfortunate events that have caused the myriad of emotions that all human
beings experience in their lifetime. I am thankful for the unfortunate events
for providing the wisdom and life lessons I needed to learn. I am grateful for
the fortunate events as they offered me the hope and strength to "keep
moving in my life." To be honest I never analyzed any one of my life lessons and to decide
which one was the greatest of all, or the saddest until unless I face that
again , when we face the same situation again unknowingly all events happened with
us in past which we don’t wanna remind they further comes in our mind.
When you get out of the way,
you stop resisting life. The focus shifts from what you don’t have to what is
here and available. No longer doubting everything, you receive what life offers
you.
As I became aware of habits
that were hijacking my happiness, I discovered why my relationships weren’t
lasting and began making different choices. I realized how fear had been
keeping me from living fully. I began seeing everything through the eyes of love.
