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Do you follow your heart or listen to your mind ??
The
smartest and the wisest thing we can do in life for ourselves and for others is
to be true to ourselves. We should at least true to ourselves - True to our
inside, our inner voice, our heart and our loved people. If we dare to ignore
what the heart is trying to communicate to us, we will get into a lot of
trouble. Heart never tells you wrong things, always remember. Take a serious
decision in your life by taking your heart you will never face problem, if you
take your brain with you then you will never face any problem.
Why we should listen our Heart. ~
You see, people who love and care about you would want
to help and would always want to offer you all kind of beautiful opportunities
for you to grow & when their presents might be something the mind wants as well as
our heart needs.
It is so important to listen to your own inner voice
and to constantly do whatever you feel/know deep down inside is best for
you without the fear of being judged or labeled as being ungrateful. If
these people really love and care about you, they will understand and they will
allow you to do whatever you feel is best for you.In Life, when you get into trouble; don’t get
nervous. Just close your eyes and listen to your Heart. Because the Heart may
be on the left…But It is always right. I have seen
whenever you ignore your heart & follow your mind many problems come in
your way like - I started feeling stressed, anxious and all kind of negative thoughts would
run through my mind. That’s why I face big troubles; my real SELF was upset with me.
Deep down inside I knew what I should be doing in order to make things better
but somehow I chose not to, not yet at least. Everything I knew about the
importance of being true to your own SELF and the power that comes your way
from doing just that was completely ignored by me. I was acting like
a totally different person. After going back and forth for days and pretending
I don’t understand what’s happening and why was I feeling the way I was
feeling, I knew the time will come for me to stop with the nonsense and go back
to being me. I decided to just go ahead and pay attention to my work ,
even though it didn’t make my any work perfectly and refuse the give my best
performance either in study or other work . the moment when I say to myself, I
tolerate more & control more .& now I gonna end all & finally I
decide to follow my heart - I felt so relieved. All of my anxiety, all of my frustration and all the negativity disappeared.
I immediately went back to feeling calm and at peace with
myself and with the whole situation. This is really happens. So do what you
love. Never listen others, what other suggest you, as most of the time what
people suggest you our heart don’t accept all, what our heart accept may they
don’t accept. As I know in this world very few people exist who truly wants
your success or truly care for you. Most of the people are there to confuse
your mind & love to make noise . AS
I HAVE SOME PERSONAL EXPERIENCE -Even if most of the time people suggest me
please come back to your previous stage – we wanna that previous
SWETA –not today’s SWETA…. Then I smile on myself, yeah it’s too difficult to
go back . I tolerate more that’s why I decided to change myself & this is
my heart’s order & I can’t disagree with it. Yeah, you people love my
previous life as I was too calm & very stupid & very innocent behavior
& failure was my best friend. & it’s too easy for anyone to cheat me
& tell me whatever they want. that's why you people love to make friendship with
me ,That’s the main reason why I wanna change myself. now also i am same as before , just little change . now you can
make friendship with me, i open my arm & invite to all of you to
make friendship with me & i am eagerly waiting .yeah little bit
change with in me that's my personality & way of thinking only, except this everything is like before, now also i am calm & always feel
silent & peace is the best answer of every problem . As most of the time people use my name & me for their work.
My friendship was advantage for them. As I neither scold anyone nor wanna make
anyone cry. That’s why I tolerate more. But what I get in last ??? for those
friends, I beaten by teacher, for those friends I fight before
teachers. My prestige was down but when my time came everyone was silent. So
now I am silent & I feel it’s the best decision I ever take. Now I am wise
how to handle the situation , i am not that much stupid like before. now i
can understand everything & reasons behind everything . In my
past days I cut my own leg by my own hand. My teachers loved me too much but
sometimes due to some false words , my prestige was down & I could n’t
explain more. But now I am wise & don’t allow anyone to use me. Sorry, my friends I am not
saying to all. It’s not for all.so please don't take it personally . It’s
for those who wanna suggest me to back to my previous life. They need
explanation & I gonna give them. I don’t wanna hide anything. I
have all answers of every question. Now I am better SWETA, hope tomorrow will
bring some new change within me & I wanna change myself wholly. I don’t
wanna go back to that stage where I failed lots of time. Due to my own mistakes
& my stupidity .I don’t wanna do the same stupid work further .I am happy
with this life…too happy , as now i can feel here I can built a good
future & I am waiting for a good future. This is possible because now I am
taking my all decisions from my heart along with mind.
Occasionally in life there are those moments of
unutterable fulfillment which cannot be completely explained by those symbols
called words. Their meanings can only be articulated by the inaudible language
of the heart. ~Martin Luther King, Jar
Our heart & mind is not separate they work together-.
The main reason we suffer from this illness of
indecision, is that we’ve mistaken the purpose of heart and mind. The heart is
like soft cotton - its purpose is to
guide the direction our lives should take. Our heart takes a mother's eye view
on our life and says “this is where you are and this is the direction you need
to go” & our mind, on the other hand says, is n’t right decisions. The
nature of the mind is conceptualizes, organizes and compare. our mind always
says for do work for yourself , it’s a very selfish type. But our heart says do
work for yourself as well as for other also. Both are right in their way,
that’s the reason we’re so troubled by this conflict of "Head vs.
Heart". The same
voice in your mind that told you to act is the same voice that tells you later
for making that choice unfortunately the same voice come from your heart. So
choose your heart always but not forget to take your mind along with it. Because
when both work together they never give you bad command.