Every
life has a story – do you believe it , Yes ! I believe it .
Gonna
tell you why?
Before sending
us to this world, God write our life story in his own way, but we can change
our life through our hard work.
It’s
very difficult to say about someone at looking at them, as you don’t know what happened to them, what they faced
etc. so everyone’s life is different, if we aspect that other will understand us
then we are doing a great mistake, it’s true a wise mind can understand your situation while rest of the people
busy in blaming you. I have seen in this world only 5% people who really understand
you like: “what
you want, what you think, what you wanna be” except them rest of the
people busy in blaming you or talking about you. So whenever I see any
different kinds of unusual behavior, I try to get know about their past. Because
you can judge a person through their past life not their present, because I always
believe people change when they feel it’s the last option for them, when a
person gets lots of pain at that time that person try to change him or herself
according to situation. But this type of people is very less in number in this
world. These type of people either become great motivator or social worker or become
great criminal, it’s depends upon their mind set up. Even you can judge the
people in your surroundings.
Every
people have different personality trade & different life.
Some
people face lots of struggle during their life time where as some people never
face any kind of difficulties in their life, neither
monetary nor any kind of different problems. Even I have seen some people
born lucky ,what they want they get that easily, even what they wish they get
that easily without getting any pain where as some people fight a lot &
struggle a lot to get that thing. So life is different from person to person
even life experience. So you can’t say about someone with
closing your eyes or looking at their present status. Even you can’t say
whether a person happy or unhappy by looking at their face. Face or present
status may puzzle you not their past life. So everyone has a different life story,
you can’t say about someone without knowing them perfectly. I hate those who
comment others or judge others through their
dressing style, they looks, their behavior & they personality. I
believe if you wanna comments others first know their past & know about
them perfectly then tell about them. How you can judge someone easily, it’s not
easy to say about someone.
So
before blaming others know their past, Even when you know about someone’s life
it can help you a lot like “what mistakes they had done, how they got success, why
they failed etc”, so here you can get a clear cut idea about their
life which may help you in your future life, So don’t underestimate someone everyone’s
life lesson is very precious, it can help you a lot. So be a good learner, learn
from different life but don’t do the same, whenever I meet someone or I make friendship
with someone I always try to learn their good qualities & their past so
that it can help me to understand them. That’s the reason I blame very few
people, yeah I am short temper but I never blame others for their work until &
unless I know them perfectly.
I have seen
& even I have categories people through their past life
1) Some people
are there who are very revenge mood kind means what pain they have got they
wanna give that to others. They feel pleasure from that.
2) Some people
are there who are very good, what pain they have got they don’t want other
should get that, that’s why they say about their mistakes to everyone & try
to help others.
3) Some people are
there who love to give pain to others & very dominating type & they can’t
feel what pain others are getting. Complicated & egoistic person.
4) Some people
are very selfish.
So
in this way I have categories people through their work & their past. In
this world you will find many different kinds of people, but I always try to
see the good within the bad so that I can help them. Even I rarely blame a
criminal for hid/her work, as I always try to know about his/her past, because everyone
has a story, before you punish someone, before you criticizing someone, know
them vividly, it may help you to make them a good person. I don’t think
punishing someone is a good option every time; you can help someone through
knowing their past. You can free them from their pain, hate & criminal mind. No
one is born criminal or wrong but their situation make them like that, a child
learn important moral lessons from his/her home during his/her childhood days ,
which helps a lots to become a gentle man, rest all he/she learn from his/her environment
& situations. So whenever I see some wired kind of thing I always try to
know whole history, history can give you better idea than present.
So
through this article I wanna say every life has story, read that, it may help
you a lot. It will help you & even that person, if you are a good person. Hope
you all UNDERSTAND WHAT I MEAN TO SAY !