RUN AFTER MONEY OR YOUR DREAM, CHOICE IS YOURS

Money is not everything

Life is not about discovering our talents; it is about pushing our talents to the limit and discovering our genius. ~Robert Brail

While planning for your life 1st make something clear, what you want money or Success. The perception of ‘rich’ all comes down to the individual. Those who say they want to get rich usually know that its true form originates from passion and hard work & it always not means to money sometimes love & capturing everyone’s heart. But where you ended your life that’s important, as most often people ended their life in painful conclusion, while following dream some ended with money. Well, allow me to make it clear for you. Chances are, if you’re chasing money, you’ll probably end up with nothing at all. Money shouldn’t be the object of your goals; it should be the idea of success. Hard work in itself leads to success, and with success, comes wealth.

Now, to me, being wealthy and being rich are completely different measures. Where some believe that the cars you drive or the clothes you wear are the measures of your success or how followers you have, I believe the idea of happiness and financial freedom is success in its most telling form. So always make your mind to be rich not wealthy. If you set up your mind to be rich, then no one can get peace in the end of your life but if you choose wealth then there may be a chance to end your life with pain & tension. As you can’t give guaranty that you will be successful there.

So run after rich, not become wealthy person.If you run after rich you may get many things which money can’t buy even there may be a chance you will be wealthy in the end of your life. 

Find your passion

Finding your appropriate passion is very important decision you make ever in your life. as it depends on your whole life , I am talking about me I am a great loser & failure personality , I lose many beautiful opportunities still I never lose my confidence level. I believe in the end of my life I must ended with my loving passion. I love to write, even paint except these also I have many hobbies which I love to follow but I am not purely passionate about these, my dream is completely different. yes, I have a dream from my childhood days to write my own book even publish it with free of cost J as I want people should know me for my writing J so I always choose those careers where I can ended with my life in my dream passion. No passion is bigger or smaller, every passion is worthy to follow. But one thing astonished me when people follow their passion to earn huge money, in this case they can’t be call as truly passionate people, Out of all the successful figures in our world today, none of them were even after the money, knowing that money is actually their own worst enemy. I never after becoming wealthy but to be rich. So I follow my passion as per that. I don’t know how much I’ll be successful in future but my heart says one day sure, as my God is not blind one day I’ll get golden result of my hard labor & all sacrifices. 

It’s Never Too Late to Reinvent Yourself

You have brains in your head.

You have feet in your shoes.

You can steer yourself in any direction you choose.

You're on your own.

And you know what you know.

You are the guy who'll decide where to go.

~Dr. Seuss

We all have goals that we say are important to us — getting in shape, building a business or writing a book or acting and so on — but for most of us, the inertia of life holds us back. This is especially true when we’re living a relatively comfortable life.

There are plenty of talented people who never make a choice to do something different, to reinvent themselves, and to pursue their dreams. It’s hard to work up the guts to try something new. Nobody wants to feel stupid and start from the beginning all over again. But talent isn’t worth a thing without the willingness to take action & risk in life. It’s great to have a dream, but it’s better to pursue it.

There’s nothing special that happens to the people who choose to reinvent themselves and chase their dreams. It’s not any easier for them than it is for you. It’s just that at some point, they choose to do the work. They choose to take action. And they choose themselves. reinventing yourself is particularly hard because nobody is going to praise you for it — The good news is that the path to doing work you love might not look the way you expected, but it can still get you to where you want to go — if you make the choice to try something new & make your life worth living. 

Follow your dream not the words of crowd

People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is light from within. ~Elisabeth Keble-Ross

In general, most people have been very positive and supportive of it, but there have been a few naysayers that have made me think for a second; “what am I doing?” But, only for a second. As I rarely follow others suggestions or ideas, I believe my god has given me same brain like them why should I use it for my own development. Do they have had something extra? No, then why I listen them. Let me follow my brain first. I’m not going to let other people’s negativity stop me from following my dream.

Too many times I’ve experienced this situation.  Before trying for medical many people suggest me to join in engineering or any +3 career or go through any general education as getting medical is not easy in India as seats are few in government colleges (now the seats number increase than before means I am talking about 2008-9 time when I appear for medical) but I did n’t listen anyone & struggle to achieve , I did n’t , that separate thing but I tried my best to achieve , even now also people suggest me to marry instead of chasing my dream as it’s not easy for a girl to struggle like a boy, that’s the reason people also gave me many good marriage proposals but I believe if I marry a successful man who is either DOCTOR in foreign or IAS can I get my own name through them , can I pursue my dream , can they allow me, as they have sufficient money to manage the home then why they need my money assistance so I decided to marry after getting success as I know after that no one can stop me to achieve my dream career , so making my own name is much important than anything , I don’t want a successful man who have lots of money I want a man who understand my dream & help me to achieve united , I got so many negative feedback for my this decisions , but I am very head strong girl I rarely listen others specially when it comes to my dream matter.

I’m too stubborn to let that stop me.  When I set my mind into doing something… I do that!

Life lessons

19 reasons why you should ignore everyone and follow your dreams:

1.  Every time you should say “yes” to follow your dreams as it yours. No one gonna suffer for you in the end of your life when you repent your mistake, you’ll regret it later in life, and if you’re delaying it, you’ll question yourself why didn’t you do it sooner. . So do what you want, now! 

2.Not following your dreams makes you feel unaccomplished or unworthy life. May you have everything still you will not get satisfy with your life & life style? Which make your life worst living?   

3.  It will attract some attention, those who love you & haters. You will feel strong as you prove the haters wrong.  As per Walter Bagehot said; “The great pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do.” that’s why I always try to do where people refused me to help. If now I am strong & determined person because of my past as in my past when I begged help no one helped me even people criticize me & try to down me. No one can see my success so I become victim of failure & pain. That’s why I try to those thing where people refused to help & where people don’t want to see my success. I believe no one can stop you if you set up your mind to do something. Your competitors will create problems & your haters makes your life worst living still try , try till you get that.  

4. People who follow their dreams have more power to create, influence, and change their environment and eventually the world. They change your perspectives towards others & world. 

5. Life feels more memorable, hence you feel/become more memorable. So do such works where you can get leave your foot prints in everyone’s heart, everyone live but be different. Live for make your life worth living. 

6.  Those challenges will help you grow as they make you step out of your comfort zone. I am saying about me – what I am now because of my life challenges. My life is quit worst, I am struggling from last 7 years, and still never lose hope , I have faith on myself even on my god  that one day I can reach at my destination. I am a girl from Ordinary family having big dream. That’s the reason people blame me like I do everything for money like this even I listen many negative comments still nothing can change my mind if I set up my mind to do something. I always answer them – watch, what I gonna do, first watch then comments! 

7. Dreams make you take chances, but chances can bring more opportunities. Seriously Now I am getting many opportunities than before because I work hard & get opportunities as per my dream & hard work. 

8. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes.  Elbert Hubbard once said, “The greatest mistake you can make in life is to continually fear you will make one.” Your dreams and your actions define you.  Don’t let others define you with what they tell you to do and not to. You will inspire other to follow their own dreams, even if they know nothing about you. 

9. Following your dreams makes you interesting. Keep one thing in your mind – those who doesn’t love to take life challenge they can’t achieve anything. 

10.  There are no rules in life so why limit you to what everybody else is doing? Accomplishing your dreams will spark even bigger dreams. Do step by step, don’t follow short cuts to get your bigger dream, join the small dream to enjoy your bigger dream in final. 

11.   Dream what make you feel you have something more to live for. Even if your dreams fail, you’ll feel proud you gave it your all to accomplish them. Dreamers tend to fail, but they tend to learn more in life. You learn from failure.  So, dust yourself and try it again. It’s your life, live it under your terms! 

Finally what we should follow to chase our dream’

Have we not all, amid life's petty strife, 

some pure ideal of a noble life

that once seemed possible? Did we not hear

the flutter of its wings, and feel it near, 

And just within our reach? It was. And yet

we lost it in this daily jar and fret, 

and now live idle in a vague regret; 

but still our place is kept, and it will wait, 

Ready for us to fill it, soon or late.

No star is ever lost we once have seen, 

we always may be what we might have been.

~Adelaide Anne Procter, a Legend of Provence

1. Create Perspective

There comes a time in life where we must make a choice, and that choice can define the rest of our lives. We can either live our lives the way they are and let dreams be dreams, or we can take a bold step and try to make our dreams come true. You need to make this choice, and you need to make it sooner rather than later.

Consider your life as it currently is and ask yourself if you’re happy with it. Truly happy. Then consider your life as it might be if you were living your dreams and ask yourself if you’d be happier.

If you think you’d be happier – and most people do – you need to decide how much that extra happiness is worth. J

2. Accept Reality

Let be honest with you: no matter how glamorous some people try and make the entrepreneur life sound, it’s not easy. I know nothing is easy. Especially when you are trying to do something different, keep one thing in your mind it’s not easy but not impossible. You might have to make a few sacrifices and take some risks, because success doesn’t come for free.

So when people say accept the reality that it’s not easy to pursue at that time I answer – then everything seems impossible for you. No one is born winner , I have seen a person who was riding bicycle & sell fruits but after 10-15 years he becomes a big industrialist , can you believe this? another case - who was a servant once, now he is become millionaire because of his own labor & ideas. Can you believe this, if that kind of people can do, why not me as I am a girl so you can’t see my success as it is a male dominating society? I hate this society & wanna go beyond this. I wanna make myself successful instead of marring a successful person call myself as a housewife , I myself also wanna make my unique name in society .  I am not saying this on internet as it’s easy to say but difficult to do in real life., I am not that much fake , I have all proofs of my works & my all answers but whether u believe that or not that’s depends on you. I am trying to pursue my dream & already started my work but don’t know how far it is possible & how many will help me. So reality is no dream is easy but worthy to follow. So don’t show my reality, before showing my reality think about your past 10-20 years past status, what is your potion, does everyone know you?  

3. Assess Your Situation

Are the sacrifices and risks worth the chance of extra happiness? It’s tough to quantify happiness but, for lack of a more scientific method, let’s go ahead anyway.

There are people who aren’t very happy with their lives and yet don’t want to change anything because they think their lives will get worse. On the other hand, there are those who are quite happy but still take the risk because they feel there’s something missing. So I decided to leave work behind and chase my dreams. The moment I did that, something clicked inside me. It was scary but for the first time in my life, I felt like I was on the verge of taking control of my life. 

4. Overcome Fear

It took a lot of courage to quit, but I had made the decision and I wasn’t going back. How did I overcome my fear?

Here are a few things that helped me.

Being self-confident - I trusted in myself and my abilities. I believed that I could start a business that would make me money and allow me to live my dreams. And if it didn’t, I believed I’d always be able to find another job. It’s a mindset thing, but it’s important if you want success. Look at other successful people and the first thing you’ll notice is supreme self-confidence. 

Looking at my worst-case scenario-The worst thing that could happen is your business won’t take off as you planned. You’ll be out of your business. But is it really that bad? Is it the end of your life? You can always pick yourself back up and try again. Tenacity, resilience and the ability to bounce back from failure are other hallmarks of a successful entrepreneur. 

Creating a plan-The biggest source of fear is uncertainty. The fear of the unknown. What are you going to do once you quit? It’s amazing how even a basic plan can ease our fear of the unknown. Noted down some ideas you have for what you can do and make a quick schedule for the next few weeks and months. Plotting down some outcomes and goals – no matter how inaccurate they may end up being – will help you feel like you know what the future holds. It’s all psychological. 

Cutting out procrastination- Realize that there’s no better time to quit than right now. Not tomorrow, not next week, not next month. Right now. Create a sense of urgency and stop procrastinating. You know that voice in your head telling you to wait? That’s fear talking to you. If you keep waiting, you’ll keep waiting. While you shouldn’t jump without looking first, you should be looking to jump as soon as you can. 

5. Smile & move on

Always keep smiling as nothing can hurt you if you don’t allow that. You’ve made your decision, you’ve overcome your fears, and you’re not going to look back. I’ve got a long way to go, and more dreams to chase after, but I’m already on my path and I know one day I’ll get there.

If I can dream as a girl, why you can’t.