EVERY LIFE MATTERS

 

In metamorphosis of life we can predict a child will grown up into a big man/woman but we can’t predict what’s going to happen in his/her life or where it going to lead him/her in the end. We can predict certain things not all that’s why we are human. Just think if a parent can get know their children will b unsuccessful in future life, do they abandon their child, do you think so? No! Its a general answer, but if it is yes! Think about those parents who try to keep their children alive who is half dead means a comma patient or who are totally mentally retired etc as they never lose hope on miracle, it’s called every life matters and love matters most, they give importance to their children as their children’s presence means a lot for them and those parents can understand others parents who also face the similar kind of problem. when we face any problem or when we suffer from something we realize the pain until unless we face the similar kind of situation, hardly or can say, very few realize the pain of a person .we are now living in a selfish and selfie world where we don’t forget to take selfie even in others worst period and selfish like we always think about us only- Me and my family matters. That’s the only thing which drag us back to become an actual human being. God has given us heart where he puts love, care, sympathy that’s why we feel the pain and love and all kinds of emotions, otherwise what’s the difference between human and animal. All are same in my eyes except one that is brain and in this present days we are leaving our “Being Human” value. In my eye every human has a unique importance but how can we motivate people to realize that all are equal and nobody is worthless, how can we bring brotherhood in this society.

Today I choose this topic to write to make people aware of this truth that “Every life matters” but why?

Yes! Reason is there, which force me to write this.

Every life matters – can we live a life with out communicating with others means a land where nobody lives except one, a person can’t survive like this as we are social animal and we need others for love and care.

We love to citizen others as we feel amused and entertaining. We not only irritate animal but also we irrigate human through our cruel behavior and mindset.

Until unless we change our mindset we can’t call ourselves as a proper human.

We are giving importance to those who are high profile , can spend money for us or can help us as they are value addition to our life but what about others who can’t add value to your life .

Can you live without a family?

Can you live without society?

Can you live without your basic needs?

Can you live without small shopkeeper (Grocery shop) , Dressing shop , barber , fisherman , cook , banker , engineer ,  doctor etc as all matters in our life directly or indirectly .

Can you live without mobile, TV, washing machine, Cooking Gas and instruments etc?

Can you live anything without the above?

The answer is

No! We can’t live any of these as now we are so dependent on others and habituated with social life we can’t think about living without this and these actually defines us also.

So every one is important and every life but do we think we give respect to all and we pay attention to each and every life around us.

Now I am sharing one of my extreme level of experience which make me feel like I am helpless and weak person as my articles name contrast with my this incident .

From my childhood days I love social work and I am not a seeker , I love to be a giver , I am not just saying valid reasons are also there which can clarify that I am a giver kind of personality but this also true that some point and some I can’t give and share but day by day I learnt to give everything , which makes me feel more secure about myself  and strong personality.

As per the time flow ,I feel more like I have lots of things to do but my time is very limited , some intuition comes in my heart that’s the only thought which makes me a kind of personality which I always adore – forgiver , strong and empathic kind of personality .  

I know my god is taking me to a place and making me a kind of person which I always adore, I don’t know when that perfect time will come to start my real journey but I feel like my REAL JOURNEY IS ALREADY STARTED but I HAVE TO FOCUS ON OPPORTUNITIES I AM GETTING AND I HAVE TO KEEP MY EYES ALWAYS OPEN TO GET KNOW THE HINTS COMING FROM GOD’S SIDE.

My recent incident – 1^st November 2016, after my first internal finish by 1 PM, I sat in auto and move towards Railway station to reach at my home. While going I saw a mad person trying to jump from over bridge of railway track and a train was just crossing by that time. I saw many people just watching like a beautiful spectacular and some cross the road as normal nothing is happening , while my auto bhaiya slow down I told him “neither I can see him in jump nor I can help him but if I’ll be late I’ll miss the train as I know the consequences of this incident” I know it’s sound rough but it’s true words what I said by that time, I reached at station but by that time train already left and I had to wait 2 hours there for next train as I feel more comfortable in train than bus , only 4.30 hours journey from our college .

I don’t know why my heart says No! You did something wrong but my mind says you are right, at that moment I was suffering from these 2 organs fighting as it was paining inside.

Finally I go with my mind as I know heart is stupid as always. I know my mind is right, why! if I’ll try to help that mad person from doing suicide then there must be a chance that I’ll b die or if I’ll tell any person to help him that person can be the victim if that person will lose the control or if I can be successfully save him still he will do suicide .

I felt guilty but can you think like this many more people are there who are dying in front of us but we can’t do anything, some are inviting the death with invitation card and some do when no option left in life.

Inviting death kind of people are -Smokers, drinkers and too much useless risk takers like (Road accidents and non-healthy foods etc.) and no option left in life are those people who fed up from their life due to struggle or pain.

I personally feel suicide is the worst decision a person can take but it can the best decision too like if person is getting treatment as well as bedridden from last many years still not recovery from the disease and live like death and there is only 5% chance to get recovery and they are also getting pain simultaneously, at that moment if they seek for death we should allow them as I personally feel sometimes some decision you have to take from your mind as well as heart. Like this many more cases are there where the best option is death instead of live.

I didn’t go for save that mad person’s life as I know if I’ll save his life now then that person can suicide again , instead of that now I should focus on my future so that I can save some people like this . I can’t help each and everyone but I can help some and motivate some and these some can motivate some others and it’ll continue like this as I true believer of LOVE “LOVE IS CONTAGIOUS” but it’ll take some time.

One thing that made me sad is – I saw the crowd on over bridge and I felt like there were many specular of any zoo and photographers instead of any good human being with heart.

I felt now a days we are losing the sense of belongingness which make us feel more insecure, we don’t feel that everyone matters, everyone’s life matters but yes! Exceptional also there which I already mentioned in above and I going to add some new guests here like terrorists and criminals who will never ever change.

The above are my heart felt words,

Yes! I have got a very poor heart that’s why every day I scold God and he also listen to me without making any kind of argument. but slowly slowly I also get over of my weak heart , I am getting over my all weakness . I don’t know what gonna be my future and what I can do in future but it’s true , before I die I’ll surely value add my life through some of my work . I give more priority on Quality of work not quantity of work as quality itself a great mass when it’s comes to humanity .